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| I'm a successful, single guy that has been exploring and experimenting with everything BDSM for as long as I can remember. On the vanilla side, I'm a laid back person… I enjoy working out, staying active and spending time with friends and family. I maintain a relatively normal life and I keep the lifestyle behind closed doors… but that never stifles my kinkily creative imagination. I listen to all kinds of music. I really enjoy finding new bands and going to random concerts. I also enjoy writing and doing things outdoors (when it isn’t freezing).
On the kinky side, I’m a caring and compassionate person who values the wellbeing of my partner above everything else. I feel like I’ve learned a lot over the years and my interests are always changing and evolving. It’s probably best to label me as a switch… and a bit of a sadomasochist. It seems many people in the lifestyle are fortunate enough to fit into one role or the other within the D/s dynamic… but that hasn’t been the case for me.
I really enjoy both sides of the coin… the sadist in me derives great satisfaction in putting a female sub into complex rope bondage and watching her squirm. Meanwhile the masochist in me enjoys a beautiful female giving me some CBT while I worship her feet. The duality might be surprising to some, but it’s me… I’m a complex person and I like it all.
In past relationships, I’ve always asserted myself as a Dom, and would enjoy meeting a new submissive female. On the flipside, I could also see exploring my submissive side with the right Domme. It could also be fun to meet a like-minded switch that was up for exploring both sides of the coin together. I’m just not at a point right now where I want to limit myself. I feel like there are a lot of great people out there and the right chemistry and dynamics will likely point me in the right direction.
Just know that I’m as much of a Dom as the next Dom… and I can be just as much of a devoted submissive as the next submissive. It all just depends on the situation.
I feel like submission is a true gift and not something to be taken lightly. I do not believe in the mistreatment of people just for the sake of mistreatment. I am also a firm believer in respecting limits and communicating. I think communication is vital to a good, healthy relationship… especially in the D/s dynamic. No matter what role my partner plays, she will always be protected, cared for and likely spoiled. Whether she’s a Domme, sub or switch… I enjoy taking care of my girl and showing her how much I care. Actions always speak louder than words.
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