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I have been on this site for entirely too long. Although I've had some good experiences and met some wonderful people, I'm really looking to settle down with someone. Therefore, if you're only looking for random play or are already in a relationship, please look elsewhere. I've had too many vanilla relationships where I wasn't satisfied. I don't foresee myself being happy in a relationship without the D/s dynamic. I do seek structure and want someone to notice if I'm misbehaving. I love being given rules to follow but only if they're enforced. Also, punishments should not be solely sexual. If i'm being denied of something I enjoy, it means that my Dom isn't solely deriving pleasure out of it - it's for the purpose of teaching a lesson and to better my behavior. Lately I've been interested in the whole 1950's ordeal. I definitely feel that there should be a split in roles in a household.
I've tried to classify the type of Dom that I'm looking for but this seems quite impossible. I do know some qualities that are important, including intelligence, someone who is optimistic, not afraid to admit he's wrong, won't settle for less than he desires, and very confident. As I'm pretty feminine, it only seems natural that I'd like someone very masculine. I want someone who can protect me and I can hide under their wing when I'm feeling down. I've only run into a few people who I've actually felt the desire to fully submit to and to feel truly sorry when I've done something to disobey them. This is the type of relationship I'm interested in.
As far as my interests, well, they seem to keep expanding! Some include being spanked, gagged, roleplay, hair pulling, toys and devices of all sorts, bondage, obedience and humiliation. I'm very oral so any type of that play is appreciated! :) Also, I find impact play and sensory deprivation to be interesting. I do enjoy pain and some marks as a remembrance of what happened that day, but I definitely don't want scars or body modifications. I do have some interests that I hate admitting because I feel they're veryy dirty. I don't think i'll get past the idea, but I might as well admit them here. For some reason fisting fascinates me. Just the idea of being opened up, exposed, dirty, ugh makes me shy yet very intrigued :) I'm very interested in playing with other girls. I don't have too much experience there, but would love to play with a cute, single lady!
As for more general stuff, when I'm not working, I enjoy running, movies, reading, pretty much any type of music, baking, going out to eat, and hanging out. I like being outdoors and exploring new places.. and NO, that doesn't mean I will drive 5 hours to see you.
It takes me a long time to get to know someone, so if you're looking for a meeting after one time of talking, I'm not your girl. I'd like to meet someone who I have an emotional and physical connection with. Boyfriend qualities with a kinky mind is important. I also prefer him to be in somewhat good shape, as I like to take care of myself and expect the same from him. It shows a bit of self control and dedication! I'm looking for someone local.
PS if you have lots of spelling errors on your profile, don't expect to get a response from me. Also, if you have one of those long pre-typed out responses you're going to send me, I won't respond. Lastly, do NOT send me a message that just says hello and do NOT ask me to ask you questions to get to know you. I'm quite capable of asking what I want to know. :) thanks!
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