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PleasedToPlease

Female Switch, 52, Lincoln Park, Michigan
Male Submissive, 42, wilkes-barre, Pennsylvania
Dominant Couple, 34, Mill Valley, California
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PleasedToPlease - Male Submissive,  Connecticut | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About PleasedToPlease

I will be happy to share any and all information if you simply send me a message.

In the meantime, I will say this. I have been on and off this site for quite some time, never truly finding what I am seeking. Often, others offer many things, only to be searching for their own satisfaction above all. While my intention is to please, hence my name, I still desire to SHARE thoughts, fantasies and desires. I am open to all ideas and willing to try almost anything, given the right persuasion. I tend to be turned off to anyone who is overly forceful and demanding right off the bat. Should you be able to ease me into things without me being conciously aware, you will have much more success with me. I can be pursuaded and I can be convinced, you just have to go about it in the right way. That being said, my attraction is to females, while my desire to serve is to a Dominant, which is not gender specific. You decide if I am right for you.

I am fairly intelligent and thrive on discussion rather than online masturbation sessions. There's plenty of time for that elsewhere. I'm sure I could say more, but I will leave some up to your imagination. Contact me if you want to know more.

I wonder if I ever purge my desires if I will be able to escape or simply be further locked in to being here?

I've often heard that one method of control of a Dom over a sub is to deny the sub the right to masturbate.  In fact, I have withheld for several weeks, and while it is not always easy, I began to wonder if the exact opposite would be a more effective show of control over the sub.  While it is very easy for me to NOT do something, it becomes more of a challenge to do something at the whim of another.  For example, were I under a Dom's control and told to masturbate at some random time during the afternoon, it could be difficult to actually comply, making the control that much more effective.  Additionally, for me at least, masturbating often lessens the pleasure, so were I to be told to masturbate three or four times in an hour, I would certainly be challenged.  Denial, while arousing and intense in its own way, seems less dominating than being forced to act.  Just my thoughts.

So today (4/24) is my birthday, and I thought I would do something a little different.  I've decided to pimp myself out to the first taker (male or female) with a reasonable and real offer.  You have until 11:59 PM to come to me with something original and enticing.  Obviously, if you're in a different time zone, the offer does not apply, however if you are nearby and interested in making my day a little more interesting, drop me a line.  (Normal limits still in effect.) 

just to be clear, i will not pay for anything...if you need money, get a job, not a slave.

i adapt to suit the needs of others

Looking for someone, male or female, to train me to be unable to cum without explicit permission.

i dunno....maybe it's me

still here

Thinking.....too much....as I always do

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To clarify: I will not worship your feet.  I will not pay you.  I will not pay you to worship your feet.  I will not dress like a school girl and wear make-up.  I am all male, regardless of what you think of my sexual desires.  I will gladly talk to anyone here, but in order to get respect, you should be respectful.  Physically, I am not perfect, nor should you be, but if you can't see your own toes, move on, I am not interested.  Put the cookie down.  Being too lazy to do your own laundry does not make you a Dominant person.  You can not count backwards from 10 and think I will suddenly do whatever you want.  I am a sub and I want to submit, but it will take a little effort on your part to win me over.  Read the rest and maybe you can figure it out.  Honestly, tired of the crap.

would be very interested in being tied and restrained alongside another sub (male or female) and only allowed forced interaction between the 2 of us

True friends are so hard to find.

The curiosity returns.......

What I am seeking does not involve payments or tributes.  If you are ok with that, please feel free to contact me.

For now, chatting only.

I suppose this is the scene that has always drawn me in: A Dom/Domme + Me (sub) + sub (male/female) Myself and the 2nd sub only being allowed to do exactly as we are instructed, without question.  It is a fantasy, a dream, a desire that may never be realized.

as the days pass me by, i often wonder if i will ever find what i am missing in my life.....i wonder if i will ever actually figure out what it is i am missing....is there anyone who can help me find myself?

so it is probably not likely that we will meet in person unless you live in my state, however, i am always up for talking with anyone about just about anything...just please be polite and all will be well.

Doms are fine, but kind of curious about exploring with subs.....

It seems I just can not escape the desire to explore.

NOT INTERESTED IN PAIN.  If your desire is to see me bruised and battered, move on.  If your interest is in control of the mind as a means of domination, feel free to contact me.

I probably will not make first contact.

Looking for people to talk to more than anything, but wouldn't mind female Dommes or male subs/switches who want to get to know one another.

I think maybe I took a wrong turn.....

Any messages received involving the words "financial," "tribute," "gifts," etc. will be ignored...you get the idea.

Honestly can't believe I've been gone for so long.  I guess some things you just can't stay away from.  As always, looking for friends first.  Anyone may feel free to message me and hopefully I can make some new friends.

Please take note:  For the time being, I am NOT looking for a male Dom, I am NOT looking for a female Domme (I found a very awesome one) but I AM seeking subs, male or female in this state preferably to discuss...I dunno, whatever.  Anyone is welcome to message me, but please be aware of the above conditions first.  Thanks.

When I first came here, I thought I was strictly interested in women....slowly the tides are changing......

Ok, so I am still trying to come to terms with what it is I really want or don't want....have been having some intense fantasies, but the fact is, I am still a little timid, therefore, if you want to talk with me, by all means send me a message, but if you think I am going to call you up after the second message when I know next to nothing about you, well.......
Would be interested in finding someone who likes to play, no strings attached, but able to be friends outside of this world.  Ideally someone ready to try new things and help me get over my inhibitions.
Have always been afraid to try new things...wants to experience life before it's too late....looking for those who want to share experiences.
I suppose it's less about what it takes to make me happy versus what it takes for me to make you happy......
The fantasies are ever changing......
Ideally seeking: An older Domme who already has a young sub with whom I can train.  Never been formally trained, nor have I experienced anything with another male, but looking to experience it all.  Any takers?
I won't do anything unless you tell me to.  If you tell me to, I'll do almost anything.
I'm done....
Isn't there anyone out there who would just like to talk?
Please no:

1) Dommes who want money

2) Men who want to hurt me (I didn't say no men, just none that want to hurt me)
Any bi/sub males interested in seeking a Dom/Domme together?  Just a thought.
All about mind control....want to be taken
I've pleased females......curious about pleasing a couple.
Can anyone think of a unique way for me to be used?
So cold outside, so warm in my house.....feels good to do chores naked...
New year, so many of the same hidden desires....will anyone help me break through?
I see so many requests for sister slaves....does anyone want a brother???
It turns out I am exactly what nobody wants.....
I have a plan, but I am going to need help....if you can help me, please message me.......
New friends are always welcome....
I'll submit when I least expect it......
Likes girls, desires women, intrigued by males.....
Found myself accepting more of my desires.....
I want you to tell me what I want...why else would I be here?
My discovery of 'body painting' has given me newfound reason to get back to the gym hardcore.
I don't know what it is that keeps me here.
Still looking for my place......
Looking for someone who would like me to please them whenever the mood strikes them.  My place or yours.
I question many things, but never my desires......
Seeking.......
Age: 21-40
Gender: Not important
Desires: To talk, share ideas, and possibly more....
Orientation: prefer to talk with those of like minds
Send me a message if you are interested.
Still questioning so many things....
Been here long enough to know what I don't want.....but not really sure what I do want.  Willing to talk with anyone.
I really would like to find someone who can help me live out my desires.

Anyone care to talk?

Wants to be controlled....completely.
Looking for others to communicate with......
Looking to learn...to be taught how to be what I am inside....
I wonder what it will truly take to push me over the edge.....
Thinking.....
Getting there slowly.....
Yearning to try the things that scare me.
Sometimes it takes an understanding of pain to truly appreciate the value of pleasure.
Still searching....
I'm available to anyone who wants me, male or female.  It just has to be the right fit.
I need to find someone who will push me to my limits.
Always looking for new experiences...even those that scare me.
Might have found someone....still working on it.
Looking for someone who might want to play with me in front of Her.
Tonight is one of those nights when I feel like exploring just who I am.
I try to run, I try to hide, but somehow I keep coming back.
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