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Male Dominant, 52, cookville, Tennessee
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Transgender Switch, 31
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Dominant Couple, 58, Crossville, Tennessee
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About plexus
Keep in mind I dont use the capital letter/lowercase convention.... I categorized myself as a switch on this site so that I could fill in the checklist with the things I like done to me. I am not a total switch. My kink is mainly as a Dom/Top with a bit of a bottomy side and I sometimes enjoy a bit of submission. I love power exchange, balanced mostly around the exchange of trust with some ownership exchange. This applies to both sides. I dont identify as a switch however. Maybe as I get more exerience on the bottom that may change. I would say I am 70% T/D and 30% b/s (there I go using caps conventions - it just looks nicer :). I am a very caring, loving and respectful mostly dominant/top who is into giving a plethora of sensations during play. I am very creative and always come up with interesting and fun scenes. My domination is a true reflection of my desire for responsibility and deeper sharing of turst with my partner - it is NOT a pathological manifestation of some physical or emotional problem. I am strict and moderately sadistic. I tend to be a private player but I am trying to get out more into the community. I prefer to play with someone who I am sharing a emotional connection with. I have a bottomy side but not so much submissive - I just love relaxing sensations including pain and the endorphin rush not to mention the power and trust exchange. I dont identify as a switch - more top with a bottomy side. I am turned on by power exchange. The exchange of trust and responsibility is what does it for me. I do like ownership exchange in the context of play. I wouldn't want to be called Sir all the time and have my partner pandering to me. I want a strong woman who's submissive nature is a reflection of her strength and i would not want to her to give up her autonomy to me. the D/s relationship would be one of a deeper trust and respect that can only be shared in that context - where she gives me a level of trust such that i am responsible for aspects of her heart and soul. this isn't slavery. I filled out the BDSM checklist and it took forever to do. However I think it is a useful tool. It was not the easiest thing to work through. I am very open minded like everyone else so I only answered NO to those thing that I for sure wouldn't be into. I am sure if you have done yours you know what I am talking about. Use my checklist as a guide and not as an absolute. I am known in the community as a toy slut and a sensation player. I have an ample toy box with many different toys. Lets just say I am very well equiped. ;) And I also know how to use them. Toys for me are a 'pallette' of colours to draw on when creating the canvas of a scene. |
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