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pinkwind

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Friends:
metalmissRavenMuse
Out of circulation must be a hard concept not easily understood by some, so let’s just reiterate that i am a happily collared slave, loved and owned by Master Andy, or cockneyandy as he’s known on the site.

Andy and i are both lovers of the 4 f’s, flogging, fisting, figging and fucking, and along with bondage and pain our other pleasures include sensory deprivation, mummification and skinsations of various kinds, cutting, abrading, waxing, as well as percussion pleasures derived from the use of crops and canes, dressage whips, paddles and the like.

We are a poly couple, have others within an extended family who have been in the mix from the start of our relationship, although we do not have anyone living within our own household.

For myself i can say that i have been blessed with a very tolerant and caring partner in Andy, he has taken on the responsibility of caring for me with such good grace and willingness, his kindness to me a wonder to behold.

When I first met him I walked with crutches, having Multiple Sclerosis, but was working full time and still quite mobile, since then however my health has deteriorated badly, to the extent that I am now suffering with Osteo and Rheumatoid Arthritis, and Ankylosing Spondylitis on top, unable to work, and less mobile than I would have hoped to be at my age!

That being said we have a wonderful relationship together, keep each other mentally agile and on our toes, and are each other’s best friend. We have taken great pleasure in finding new ways to circumvent our problems regarding our kinky life, making equipment and finding new uses for those items we bought before life became more of a challenge for us.

The way we have continued to feel fulfilled, our needs satisfied and our determination to move forward in our lives undaunted, i hope will be of some encouragement to others who encounter such obstacles in their lives and wonder if they can overcome them. We are always open to approaches from others, willing to give what help we can and are good listeners for those who need a fresh view.

Anything else you need to know about me, or Andy, can be gleaned from our checklists, not by any means all that i am, or we are, given the constraints of someone else’s set of classifications, but it will give you some idea! As i said, we are always happy being in contact with others, so please feel free to say hi and ask either one of us anything, we will try and answer directly, or find resources that will fit your needs.

Oh, if this helps those with email problems, feel free to ask and i will provide either of our email addy's if required for further contact.

9/30/2009 11:53:48 AM
Just thought i would let folk know that it's been 6 months and more since i gave up smoking, and other crazy things too, btw, and i am doing really well without it all. Coupled with not drinking for so many years i feel quite good, given the other shit going on!

And yes, i know full well i would not have been so successful without the support of a wonderful Master, all round good egg and wizard of the electrics, Andy, cockney of this parish.

Oh, yes, and wheelchair technician par excellence!!!

8/14/2009 1:28:43 PM
Thanks for the support folks, life goes forward but the smoking is still history!

If i can do it, anyone can! Can't wait to see in a new year where i can say i am truly drink and tobacco free, and happily so.

5 years without a drink, 5+ months without tobacco. Onwards and upwards. Amazing what the wholehearted support of a good man can help achieve! 
6/17/2009 5:25:34 PM
For the folks who expressed an interest a while back, i thought i would touch base and let you know it's now been 2 months since i gave up smoking and i am still going strong, no lapses, nothing!
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Oh yes, and getting on well with the new powered wheelchair too, out and about around town on my own now, the confidence due to Andy's help and patience! Cheers my dear!!!
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4/21/2009 1:55:50 PM
A wonderful week away from the net kink dross, the petty shite and the navel gazing, the snoopers, trolls and snarks, know-it-alls and brainless critics!

Just marvelous. A breath of fresh air, much needed before diving headlong back into the mire!!!

3/26/2009 7:47:50 AM
Yay! At last, my new pc is up and running! Been a bad couple of days since old faithful blew up, but with the help of a friend and the ides being favourable i am now on something a tad pokier too!

Now which way to the picnic?
3/21/2009 12:42:04 PM
Laugh? No, just wondered why the silly woman would block me, until it dawned on me she couldn't handle anyone who wouldn't get down in the gutter and make a spectacle of themselves.  Don't like the truth, some people on here, that's for sure. Now i will have that laugh! Ramble on dearie, it's cheap cabaret!***BTW, thanks for the last mail you obviously thought i didn't receive, up to your usual standard!
2/13/2009 7:19:16 PM
http://ladypinkwind.blogspot.com/
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Just thought i would add here, as i have elsewhere already, that i have a blog for my general thoughts and musings, just started it, but am going to keep adding to it over time.




2/13/2009 6:08:57 AM
There are times when i lose my innate faith in human beings being honest, with themselves let alone others, and while i am having to keep relatively quiet elsewhere i will ask of that one person here trying to stir a cold pot...why?

Why are you spouting half truths and downright lies? Why can you not be honest? What does it gain you? What good does it do?

For an adult, and someone i took as a friend and more, i have to say i don't understand what you hope to come from all this. Your words effect more than one, and is that really your intent?
10/28/2008 6:32:39 PM
Today i have updated my profile to take account of the happy weekend our now extended family spent together.

Please feel free to read and understand our happiness at the change of circumstance.

10/17/2008 3:48:38 PM
There are odd bodies around here who do not seem to be able to keep things real. Shame on them. A pity, because the mess they try to create, the damage they try to inflict, the trouble they try to cause will ultimately come back to bite them in the ass.

Thankfully there are level headed folk who see things as they really are, know the truth and do not let drama get in the way of reality.

To the misguided soul, i hope your life improves and you understand how stunts like yours do you no favours.


MistressofCats
 
 Age: 43
 Poconos, Pennsylvania