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Male Switch, 59, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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About photonspark
4/15/2023......
recently relocated to florida and just trying to meet people as cool as the ones I met in kinky SAN FRANCISCO
A bit about me......
I am a pagan, and with that comes strong willed women, and a footing that both sexes are equal, but there are times when a strong women wants to feel safe enough to be swooned, led, or topped, knowing that the ride will bring her around again with no harm. Now, it becomes almost mainstream to be kinky/matrix/chic.
I was a boy scout, and learn all things rope early, and still find beauty in shabari....one of my main "kinks"
I was a theatre cat, so dressing rooms/vaudeville/rocky horror/burlesque/circus folk were the norm, and all the etiquette around scantly clad gals that go with that, was learnt early.
I like the idea of pony play, pirate play and the steam punk movement. (brown and brass as the new black and chrome... )
I went to early burning man events and all the funky SF fun. The Playa nowadays has a bit too much "work to fun" in the ratio.
I'v worked a lot of rock shows......I mean A LOT, I now have little patience for bars, drunks, and bimbos, even though they may look the part for the rock and roll mystic.
From these rigging skills, working in a night club, i was asked to help with the founding of BONDAGE A GO GO back in the day.
I found myself the lifeguard on duty, seeing to the safety of the players. over time i have met some of the good folks in the SF kink world, without having to deal with the seedier aspects.
Folsom Street Fair maybe fun, from 10 am, till 1pm... but I'm out of there by the ugly crush time at 3pm.
I am presently returning to this kink community, and offering skills and materials to the new citadel space, but there are so many new people, with different names and "handles" I still find myself a floating free electron, with no strong bonds presently.
I tend to be a nurturer, a healer, a fine host, I don't push the anger card, and tend to become an "ice prince" cooly understanding and letting someone grow away from me, rater then some high school mud fight.
so in this year that has shown me some heartache, I now look out in a bit wider net for a romance of good fire, and PLAY… not some small smolder. I'm looking for a lover that likes to break a sweat, as is willing to do more of the work for it and not just be pampered.
I like to snarl and growl, slip into shadows on the sidewalk for a quickie. I'd like to meet a silly, quirky Alanis who will go down on me in a theatre. A wild girl that has not only the motor to go, but a good head in conversations, and white light in her spirit, I don't have a body type, or preference of race, age, hair,….
There is something about when a woman allows her inner slut out that is truly intoxicating, I don't wish to posses you (yet), I'd just like to be present when you open up as a fire flower, and watch the floor show……
you may be a wallflower lost in some box, It's great to see when a shy girl works up the courage to walk up and ask a man to play.....
I am a member of the "left-handed-dislexic-librain-tree climbing club"
"It is not about the size of the real estate that matters; it is all about the architecture on the hill, that counts"- me
-Respect the woman, desire the slut, and cherish the little girl. Then you have the mind, the body and the soul. |
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