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Male Switch, 28, san francisco, California
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Male Switch, 37, Arlington, Texas
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Male Submissive, 48
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About phoseroleplay
My profile was somehow deleted. Rebuilding as time allows. When all is said and done, there will be much for you to read, and hopefully will get a better picture of who I am and what I seek.
I guess you could say I'm looking to find someone on here, but my expectations are low, and if I don't find my match, I'll be perfectly content interacting with people and cultivating friendships.
Here's the worst part of my profile for those reading - I might as well get it out of the way so there are no misconceptions, or people accuse me of hiding something. I'm married. I'm happy with everything about it except fulfilling my desires with respect to this lifestyle. I've tried to embrace this with my spouse, but there is no pulling her from the vanilla. And my relationship would not survive if she knew about it. I would never have her okay to go out and explore. I try not to be judgemental of others - I may not like things that others do - but it's not for me to play the role of moral judge. And I would ask for the same courtesy. If you do not like my situation, or could not interact with me, that's okay...but it would be best for you to simply move on.
Okay...I listed myself as a switch because I fantasize about myself being in both roles. I would not try to top from the bottom, dominate a dominant, etc. I feel that as a switch, I can look for a domme to control me, and still have the desire to control a submissive. I use all the lifestyle terms to some extent without a full understanding. I apologize upfront...I would gladly be open to someone educating me. But I don't consider myself a person who would be hardcore in the lifestyle. Even though I may obsess a little in engaging in these types of activities (mainly because I haven't yet), I have a life and interests outside of this. I guess in that respect, I don't have a lot of time to be at a domme's beck and call.
I think what I'm most looking for are fetishists looking for kinky and sensual roleplay. In that context, I very much desire a woman to seduce and control me...to use her mind to trick me into bondage and some degree of servitude. I am not into pain,
except for the use of a crop to control me. I'm also not one to just sit there and let things be done to me. I am going to try?and resist control...try to get loose from my bonds.?To me, anyone can beat someone to get them to submit. Using one's mind to get what they want is much more impressive and illicits a greater respect. I will detail some of these scenarios in my journal.
I think this process is a give and take...ultimately leading to a mutual aggreement on what the expectations are. I don't want to come across as selfish...I'm here to make my partner happy as well. I'm not a doormat. Those that are overly demanding, have to use vulgar language, or have to flip the bird in one of their photos are not for me. I would like to find someone a little flexible in their beliefs. Maybe this lifestyle is not for me - purists might think I'm only looking for a thrill, and am in the wrong place. Maybe, but I'm not going to apologize for that which I seek.
Most of the profiles that I encounter on this site are simply from clicking the browse profiles button. I may favorite those that intrigue me, whether it be a photo, their interests, or something they say in their profile or journal. Favoriting them allows me to revisit the profile...nothing more...nothing less. I've only contacted maybe 5 people in about a year that I've been on this site. I have had people contact me who were rude and pushy...and who used vulgar language ...a major turn off for me, especially if I don't know you. That's not the way to make a good impression. I'm by no means a prude, but it proves nothing to me that you can pepper your correspondence with curse words.
The two major fetishes I have are bondage and pantyhose. Again, I will detail them in my journal. I look forward to hearing from women who would like to discuss any mutual interests we may have, but I'm open to corresponding with anyone who is respectful of others...regardless of how they label themselves on this site.
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If I ever doubted that I have a pantyhose fetish (which I really don't doubt), it was confirmed the other day. Saw a woman at work that I probably wouldn't have been attracted to. But the other day, she wore a slim black skirt, black pantyhose, and black heels. I couldn't take my eyes off of her, and just fantasized about her taking control of me. |
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