Phonixasz

ABOUT ME:
I believe I have always been an odd bird, certainly not a bird that fits any stereotype I know. I've lived a chunk of my life in India and Germany, though home might be the South, it's where my family settled a long time ago, although I now live in the desert. I am an ex-soldier (which almost certainly doesn't mean whatever you might think it means), a sometime linguist, very sensual-I love the touch of a woman's body, often horny, sometimes spiritual,almost an academic, a divorce survivor, a reader, and a cat friend.
Oddly enough the current group I hang out with is three young women students at the university. We go to movies, dinner, tea at the Chinese teahouse, etc. An odd group, one old pervert and three young virgins. Very odd.
Plans for the near future include getting back into yoga, conditioning and meditation. I've recently discovered the SCA and have constructed a fairly authentic suit of medieval armour which I wear in sparring. I'm fairly rotten but it is fun. If I find the lady I seek, one of the ways she will serve me is as my dancer.
Have survived a close encounter with a rather subtle topper-from-the-bottom. Very extreme, but ultimately all about her, not submission or service. Traumatic and very disappointing, but a learning experience.
Most women here seem to think this is just another hookup site. However, a submissive is one who, within the defined boundries of the relationship surrenders herself to the Dom/Master. It is not just a forum for kinky sex. This envolves obedience to another, even if it doesn't make her wet. Dom and sub are much more of a mind experience than a body one, though the body part is great.
If you are curious or interested, talk to me and lets find out if we find common interests and passions.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:
Honesty, eroticism, curiosity, sincerity, attractiveness, non-smoker, feline-friendly.
Someone who can kneel before her Master and give herself honestly without a hidden agenda and hidden layers of deceit. Someone who can share her life with another without the need of constant attention and stimulation to keep her constantly distracted from what she doesn't want to confront. One comfortable as the one who serves, without the need to keep careful account of who gave what and when; capable of rejoicing in the knowledge that she is cherished. One who walks in beauty like a cat and who like exciting her Master's love and lust with her being.
There are some women who mistake the attention a slave recieves with being in charge. A slave serves her Master, it is not the other way around; this is something that I see misunderstood at times. As a Master, I prefer the slave to recieve pleasure in her service, but that is a personal preference, not a duty to one who claims to crave being 'owned', 'used', 'enslaved', 'dominated', etc.

I'm also not a fool who expect a woman to immediately kneel and accept a collar. I expect her to need to get to know and trust me before giving the gift of her submission and service. Some Master's seek to break their slaves to the level of animals; I desire a slave who meets or exceeds the submission of one of these 'beasts' becasue she chooses to give herself that completely. Not an instantaneous process or a trival one, either in the giving or the accepting.

Hopefully, I have provided some idea of what I seek. If more info is desired, ask.