I borrowed this from a friend  TheRaven on .  I had to repost for  someone to learn this lesson.

Take note.  A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

 “You’re no submissive!” (when I don’t get my own way)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you question me)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you won’t obey)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you express your opinion)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you disagree with me)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you say no)

 I’m “no submissive” when you disregard my needs.
I’m “no submissive” when you don’t allow me to understand.
I’m “no submissive” when you don’t help me feel safe before acting.
I’m “no submissive” when you dismiss my views.
I’m “no submissive” when you won’t accept our differences.
I’m “no submissive” when you violate my rights.

When I’m “no submissive” - you are no Dom.

 @ x_TheRaven_x  Thanks for putting this out there. 

Just me and you, alone in a room.  I'm lost, and afraid of dissapointing you.  So I am reaching out, Out to you hoping you will be able to pull me through.  I ask you for your guidance.  I open up myself to you. 

Here again.  Not sure what I am looking for, but like to get some direction.  You have to be more than just Dominate out your mouth because I have a strong personality so if you can train me I am here.

what I do know, I am a good thing, and anyone who finds me has truly found a wonderful prize. 

 Thank you for all the communications received.

This lifestyle is just that a lifestyle and so many of the people here are using this site  for all the wrong reasons.  Predators and leeches, they have no intention on respecting you or the lifestyle.  I feel so bad for most of the bottoms on here, especially the new ones, that have no direction.  So Domme, Doms, Masters, and Daddies, if you are really not a lifestyler and you are here to use or harm these subs, slaves, etc here, why don’t you just leave them alone.  You make it bad on the real people, and on the lifestyle.