Though Im defiantly a Dom Im not a sadist, I get no pleasure from hurting another but thrive on the pleasure felt by others through what they crave. Be that from a crop, hot wax, or as simple yet as intense as warm breath on your neck while blindfolded and or bound. Im very dominate in privet. So I rule nothing out other than my partners hard limits, or most things that will land me in jail longer than an hour or two.