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About newtothis1979
Hello, I am a gay male-to-female cross-dressing power bottom.
Yes, I say bottom, I will not penetrate you for any circumstantial reason. If you are seeking this please move on to the next profile.
OK, so I am a male who wants to be a woman. I want to dress and act like a woman, even fucked like a woman. Every day, every hour, every min we are together.
So let us try this out.
In a way, I am new to BDSM. I have been dabbling in it for a few months.
I am working on getting new clothing, lingerie, swimsuits, leotards, and costumes.
I am all so working on getting BDSM gear and all kinds of toys, so please bear with me
I am seeking male males or slave slaves or, should I say, top male slaves.
I know I will not get any emails from you men, but I can hope and dream, right?
Results from bdsmtest 90 - Dominant 87 - Rigger 86 - MasterMistress 84 - Owner 80 - DaddyMommy 75 - Pet 71 - Ageplayer 63 - Primal (Hunter) 62 - Voyeur 59 - Degrader 59 - Switch 58 - Exhibitionist 58 - Experimentalist 55 - Sadist 54 - BoyGirl 49 - Primal (Prey) 49 - Non-monogamist 47 - Submissive 45 - Degradee 43 - Brat tamer 42 - Vanilla 41 - Rope bunny 40 - Slave 35 - Brat 33 - Masochist
The photo is of me wearing a PVC Maids dress without the apron; the black-and-pink one is not me.
I did not write this; it is something I found on the internet, and I will let others like me know about it, as well as all of you.
(Q Is it rare to see a submissive top or a dominant bottom?
It's not super rare, but not all that common either. One significant issue is that many people conflate top-bottom roles with domsub-roles. If you're a sub, many people in the community will assume you're a bottom (and vice versa). Because of this, there might actually be more submissive tops and dominant bottoms than we realize; it's just that people think they aren't supposed to do those things.
A quick primer for people unfamiliar with these terms
Top The person performing the action. In a spanking scene, the person who is doing the spanking is the top.
Bottom: The person receiving the action. In a spanking scene, the person being spanked is the bottom.
Dominant: The person who has control of the scene or dynamic. The Dom is in charge, makes decisions, gives orders, and generally crafts the scene (but does so without violating the sub's limits).
Submissive: A person who has voluntarily ceded power to the Dominant in a scene or dynamic. The sub is subservient to the Dom, follows orders from the Dom, etc, though a sub can set limits and use safewords.
In a nutshell, topbottom is about what you're doing at the time. These roles can easily change during a scene.
Domsub roles are about power. It doesn't matter what specific acts each person is doing; it all boils down to who is in charge. Domsub roles typically do not change during a given scene.
Some Doms are masochists or rope bunnies or otherwise just enjoy bottoming for a given type of play. As long as they are in charge, they are still the Dom, even if they're being hit, choked, tied up, etc.
Some subs might be sadists, riggers, or just per in a top role because it pleases their Dom (the latter are often called service subs).
Find whatever roles you enjoy and have at it. Who cares if it's common or not? As long as you are playing ethically, find your peak self, and you do you.) |
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without risking losing my profile I will have to do some updates this way since most don't know what a Power Bottom is and I get told I should be a Sub/slave that is what I am going to become hopefully I meet a good Dom willing to train me to be a sub I cannot relocate nor travel I have a few limits but willing to try different things hopefully someone reads this I will all so try to make a new profile as a Sub/slave |
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Hello, I would update my profile but it would put me in a permanent limbo. As my profile says I am a power bottom but I am willing to switch and be a sub/slave to the right. Dom if I am with a sub/slave or a Dom I want to be the female in the relationship
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