I live in the upstate. I have been in the lifestyle since the 90's. I travel throughout the upstate...especially Greenville- Spartanburg areas. I enjoy everything from fine dining, cuddling on any given day to testing one in almost anything they crave. Some people cannot start the day off without coffee or a soft drink. Deny them their "craving' and they will do most anything for the opportunity to get their fix...sounds silly but if you "need" that cup of coffee, coke or cigarette and then are denied...think of what you might do in private (or public) for it..... I take pride in knowing the one I am with...I like conversation and just watching one truthfully answer questions can be a turn on...sometimes a little humiliating answering any given question truthfully but a great way to learn a person...