Having had an interest in BDSMkink my whole life it was not until I was exploring it with a previous partner that I got a taste of how it met desires in me in a way that surprised me.
It was this experience combined with my concurrent study of evolutionary psychology and its effaspects on human behavior that led me to become more involved in the local Fet community.
Its been about a year since I took that initial step and I have learned so much. Not just in practicing various s of kink but also in the study of the deeper underlying dynamics of it.
What I discoved was that it is very individual and when I embraced it fully so many other aspects of who I am found a place in the ation of my particular style.
I am a Dominant man with a nurturing, supportive and protective style. I value intelligence, kindness and inner beauty. Physically I enjoy various different body types although I tend to be attracted more towards femininity then a particular body type.
I mainly work in rope, impact, sensory and energy work. I employ various other s of play that engage the whole person such as the mental aspects of orgasm control, anticipation and so on. I believe trust is the foundation for the deep and fulfilling play I desire. Trust is built on honesty and nurtured through time.
In my vanilla world I am comfortable saying that I am an educated working professional. An avid gym enthusiast and a spiritual (not religious) person.
