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Seeking local (Sacramento - Rancho Cordova - Folsom -Roseville areas), funny, fun, and nice Dom or Dominant couple.

People tell me I am a slave but I am not. I need to use my voice. I need to speak, be listened to, and be heard. Ultimately all decisions fall to my Dom, but I am not silent. Also, humiliation outside the bedroom will make me walk away. I am not a personal punching bag and I need someone who doesnt enjoy making me feel subhuman all of the time. The Dom who understands that the better they help me feel about me, the more deeply I can confidently serve and follow them. If I feel badly about me, it will reflect in my submission to you.

Help me feel good and be happy, and you will discover a whole world of devotion, dedication, a deep craving and addiction to you. No need to lock me away in an effort to ensure that I stay with you. A leash is fine but trust that if you take me off leash, I will not leave your yard. I would rather sit willingly at your feet because I want to be there than because I fear a beating if I do not. Once I feel I belong, I am very loyal and devoted.

I am very interested in being hypnotized.

I am not looking for the guy with the impressive tool or talented tongue. Im looking for the man who understands that if you capture the submissive soul, the heart and body will follow you anywhere.

Sending me pictures of your junk or a 3 word email will result in nothing returned. Im seeking emotional bondage first. Intelligence is beyond captivating to me. Sensuality... Longing for your touch, scent, voice only moments after Ive left your presence. The deep delicious ache of yearning to be used by you, even though its only been minutes since I last was. That is what I seek.

I have been told I am very submissive. I do not necessarily know about that. What I do know is that if I am completely owned by you (a process that takes a very long time) there is very little I would not do in an effort to make you happy.

No matter how much I may love or be owned by you though, I will not be part of anything involving minors or pee and excrement. I also havent done much sexually, so there may be limits I have that I do not yet realize.

Pleasing others is what I love to do. If you are looking for someone who enjoys breaking the rules just to see what trouble awaits, I am not for you. Also, the pandemic has brought weight gain. I struggle with maintenance of my weight so if you arent a BBW fan, you probably wont want me. But, Ive lost weight many times in my life and am quite shapely when at my optimum weight, so if you are more of a nurturing and inspiring Dom, I might just be for you.

I am not looking to be locked away from my life. I maintain a vanilla front. I have family, a job, and friends. I want to enhance what I have by enriching the life of one very unique, chivalrous, and special Dom.