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Dunno exactly where to start... umm... Currently I work in a Personal Care/ Assisted Living Home. I'm not a Certified Aid, but I've got the training. I am Certified for CPR and Administering Medication... the latter was a rather difficult test, so I'm proud of that one. I'm pretty easy going, or at least I try to be. I guess I'm a switch by nature, because I have a rather passive side, but when I feel threatened or challenged I become pretty obstinate, I'm told. It's not a good quality for someone like me, who actually would rather just make people happy. I have a more take charge personality when I know something needs to be done and no one else does it. I'm Idealistic and Naive, but at the same time I've seen quite a bit of the cold hard truth in the last couple of years. I've had to do quite a bit on my own, so I've become pretty independant in many ways.

I want to make someone a good Slave, but he has to be a good Master. I know many of you don't think it's my place to say that, but I feel it is. To me, a D/s relationship doesn't work on just obediance. There's gotta be something a little deeper there, and that's what I'm looking for. Physically I'm a tough guy, but to be honest, I couldn't last long in a relationship that wasn't emotionally satisfying. A Slave is meant to serve and please his Master... And to me, I think a Master should take care of his Slave, or make sure he's taken care of in return. You can't play with a broken toy.

I need training, I'll admit. I have a difficult time taking orders without question. There are times I will, mostly when I can see the outcome. But when that outcome escapes me, I become cautious.

For those who're interested in what kind of personality I have, if the last bit hasn't turned you off already-- I try to be a pretty intelligent guy. I am an intelligent guy, but it seems the more I learn, the less common sense I have. A nurse and I were just joking about that the other day... As I said, I try to be easy going and roll with the punches. I'm a loving guy, easy to talk to and friendly. I'm a romantic, which tends to throw people off when I tell them I'm into BDSM. I'm fun loving. Adaptive and quick to learn.

As far as likes and dislikes go, if I haven't tried it, then I'm good for at least one whack at it. I'm not a huge fan of sports. I prefer to play them rather than watch them, anyways. Soccer, Volleyball, Tennis. I enjoy a great deal of music, and will listen to almost anything. Same for movies.

Around the house, I try to be a pretty good cook. I can clean. I don't mind doing laundry or dishes or anything, I actually find it relaxing.

I'm not much for the outdoors, but then I didn't really ever spend too much time there as a child. I don't mind camping or fishing or anything. Not very good at the fishing thing, but it's a good time with the right people.

And I think I should probably cut it short right about there... If you wanna know who I am, just get ahold of me. Ask questions. I'm always looking for new friends or, hopefully, more than just that.
DivaDOM
 
 Age: 28
 Bruxelles, Belgium