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Hello all,
Well obviously or maybe not having just had a
discussion on wannabe`s..et all and i will not
start on that topic.
I be here in Ireland, Dublin is de capital of this
isle and de scene if one might call it such is
well...sparse, friendly in places and not soo in other places - de cliques and circles sorta
thange...
Been in the scene or active for over 10 years
and wha!!! have i to show for it as one lady
asked..??? well - hey!!! life tis experiences
and de people ye meet along the way.
And have met some nice people recently but
alas have also some negative, nasty experiences.
Though must be or tey to be kink positive.
Have posted on many message boards
including ones on this site, alas many are now
gone, deleted by yahoo or have ceased to be active boards.
As for moi, i be positive, outgoing, clean,
discreet - experienced in that if i do not like
what is happening i speak up rather than shut up - open clear communication is key.
If seeking a door mat then look else-where.
Both sensitive and sensible.
Game for a laugh...sine i be on here..well i am a comedian.
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Hello and hope you are having a good recession or depression, thats for folks in Ireland and suppose Greece and, Portugal and suppose Spain, well get the picture so to speak.
There be a nasty rumour, as in most rumours are usually of the nasty variety that, most of the ads, of Dommes in Irish section of this site, are 3 women, who may or may not be dommes, they could be switches, who have multiple profiles.
So the entire section is, 3 women, a number of fin dommes and professionals.
Could that i ask be true.
Does a bear shit in the woods is the Pope a catholic, well he says he is, so.
Can only say if it is just 3 women, they must be very busy.
Mind ye it be a very small scene.
On that happy note, a happy new year.
Not sure if it will be a kinky one. |
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ello...another ehhhh beautiful..ehhh day in paradise..or in eire...where summer be the irish for...winter...autumn..as it be raining..cloudy and...guess what...cold...
In the never ending quest...to meet...a genuine lady on this section..of this site talking irish section..don`t ya know.
One lady contacted me...with the usual..cryptic...puzzle comment..quote....if i can not take....a ....joke...i should not have...joined...?????????
It is funny...but no joke...i am not laughing...anyways.
Does that mean....this section is a joke....or some women are just having a laugh.
or....ahhh shrrr tis only a ...bit...of...fun..?????
Sitting here laughing...but not sure if....should laugh or cry or run a screaming from the...room....again.....
Maybe its the..weather...or....... |
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ohhhh..my.....after past weeks.....contacting..various..women on irish site here.....with mixed success..a guy who used to be on this site but left it...ages ago..told me..to check out..male subs section and other sections.
I have seen the light.....no wonder..most of women on irish site....are not interested.
There are too few folks..many are fake..fin or pro..and others are serial browsers...will not do not intend to really engage.
As lady in UK, put it...ye are a woman up on this site..getting loads of mail of cock pics..one liners..insults and guys just looking to get laid.
Are ye seriously going to meet..a complete stranger..who do not know..never met on the basis of a profile..which could be fake or the guy might be fake.
So it is mission impossible.
And the tale of one guy here who mananged to meet a lady....and......crazy...not good....now maybe that be..hope that be the exception rather than the norm.
But if read some of the profiles....get impression that...it may well be that bad.
This experience on irish side on this site..would put ye off...the scene.....altogether.
It is depressing and not only one to have same feeling..also change yer attitude..make you more untrusting and cynical.
Welcome to the scene here.
Now...there are some genuine profiles..a small number but rest......ehhhhh
But have to be kink positive.
So to be positive....the Uk...site is very good..more folks and more mature..open.
So..just to say.
Unfortunate..to say it...but...just too small..not enough people...or right type of folks.
But hey just my view..experience...and others but....maybe others may have better luck.
And it is pot dumb luck.
So if have good few years to waste...then.....by all means. |
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Hello all...in fantasy land.....ok...with a number of exceptions..all know who ye be..but beeen over on irish side of this site...again...and with a few notable exceptions.......it be crazy.
Ok..suppose already knew..that..and standard warning of the site..being full of wnna-bee`s and messers..fakes and findommes...ect.
But some of the contacts..messages are unreal...some of the attitudes..behaviour..and ideas.......and begs question...what kind of relationships...interactions....type of play..do these folks indulge in.
It be frightening.
And...another thought discussing recently..how come..things be soo different in Uk..for 2 islands to be soo close..yet in terms of the scene...and folks....attitude..approach to be light years apart.
So be aware..be warned.......take note.
Now back o the real world..with real folks...and real relationships.... |
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Ahoy..i say..land ahoy.....as the ship drifts slowly across the cm sea....and it appears in a
recession any ehh mug will do.
because looking at some of ads on here thats how low it has sunk to use the nautical
parlance and that be about only nautical thing will find on here.
think its time to send the SOS because the good ship ss titanic has hit the ice berg
and is sinking.
so a good time to rearrange the chairs on the deck...or get the ...... off the ship.
you may laugh but its not funny.
good luck. |
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Ello,...anybody outa here...or just lurkers.... surprised to get contact from this part of the oirish sea.......anyone that knows i be o1er on the loop
before asking it be an enclosed system not a kinda drink.
Currently, i be t1other side of the oirish sea, as tis more frineldly, open, mature, relaxed and do not end up emqailing folks for months..and end up...well with egg on yer..strange but true.
blessed be he or she who knows others..yes indeed but he she who knows them-selves is truely blessed...amen to that.
As for the jike about difference between a scene, in oirish and a scene in uk...listen wha!!! can i say......told yez soo...yes i did..
Listen i shoulda not be on "ere at all but a watchig the worlde cup.
I know..the womens fav-ourite programme at the moment..says he tongue in cheek.
Or as one lady..quaintly put it...a load of balls..again...guys who should know better..chasing a rubber inflated ball around a pitch for an hour or 2.
listen the oirish summer be over..time to start preparing for christmas...only how many shopping days left...
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Ehhhh..... to save many emails..all conttaining the same thange..please note..yes i be over on the loop again after a long absence.
Wofffff..wooofffffff wofff..fffffffff..ooooohhhhhh..oohhhhhhhh..woffff.ooohhhhhhhh
ohhhhhhhhhh...and no i not be pining..or howling..but anyway i be on the loop. |
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Well, the race is run..tis done but in truth it could never be won....or was it a race at all...a contest or just a mere trifle...a dalliance.
Was it serious at all.... i begin to wonder...a mirage of life..love..attraction...but there it is...so soon tis done..and little to show...but a lesson in life...have a care in future..least ye be blinded by such an alluring glow...for all that glows is..not..gold.
Ehhh....the auld dog..is off to lick his wounds and take a different route ready for a new journey..maybe.
More importantly away to work on my blog...and yes to yez that told me...yez were right....but had to find out the hard way.
Ehh..no harm..shit happens..only life but the fet-life here is very strange..weird and unpredictable..frightening..or should that be the folks in it.
And yes, will be back on the loop...again..soo...
Tis not great but could have been worse and should have seen it coming.
Though worse things can happen.
If yez want to have a relationship..seriously..need to get out and meet folks in person..difficult here soo all eyes look to across the water..again... |
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Very bleedin comic...we are not amused..in fact we are not easily amused anyway..in the immortal words of Queen Victoria..and before anyone asks ahe not be a domme..well..as far as one knows..she was the Queen of England, in the 1800s.
Now, look a free history lesson..shrrr yez are only spoiled..so yez are...did not even notice it until, i put up a post and then seen, the yoke or avatar, under my name, and bearing the legend curious.
Very funny..how does one do that..espically, when do not know my password..though suppose the techies can....or will rule the world..nay the universe.
Now time to runna-a screaming from the room, for i be in the middle of yoga...as one feels essentially stressed..and put upon.
Tis true life is hard and then.....nearly christmas again....ode to joy...
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Yes and the rant for the day..is..wait before running a screaming from the building it be the bleedin windows installer.
Suggestion for microsoft..before introducing any more windows versions such as windows 10 or 50 or 100..maybe t`would be an idea to sort out that bleedin windows installer or streamline it or get it where it does go off its bleedin head and start running and configuring, when it should not be bleedin configuring..and if it wantss to do such a thange..go do it on another bleedin com-puter and not mine.
And another thange, why is it, when its name is mentioned..that folks, who be technical..who know about com-puters start to scratch their head and ass and.....will tell ya..ohh..ehh now the installer...ohhhh,,,ehhh now..well thats...ummmm have to be careful.
Its a programme but not a normal programme, can not uninstall it or how would install programmes..and if we do uninstall it..have to be careful that when we do bleedin install it again..that it does not cause a breach in the universe, which could lead to an end of time as we know it in this dimension.
Now on another occasion this might be rather witty or even funny but this is fast begining to loose its comic tinge.
As queen victoria was inclined to intone..ummm we are not amused..this is highly unfunny.
In fact one is given to ponder, when i bought this computer it was state of the art and expensive..now seems it be soo advanced that it pretty much does what it pleases.
Soo i be asking it on bended knee..please ohh wonder of the universe..the fairest, the best, the smartest computer of them all..please mightly smite that fecker windows installer and give it a kick up the ass and stop bleedin configuring..or whatever..as i need to download windows messenger..please...
Or should i have put it in binary code.
You know tis true..in 50 years time com-puters will only be a grand yoke..alltogether.
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Just discussing, in the lead-up to getting a photo, had all the big plans, for lighting,, angles, background and all the rest, but when it came to it..in the heat of the moment or panic all that went out the window..and the ethos of any photo, will do providing it be clear and can be seen.
Well..hey life..a bit like some types of play, amke all the big plans, talk it through..have a particular type of scene in mind and then, the mood changes...or decide to go with the flow in the opposite direction..which is fine...people can change their minds.
Hey as long as it be fun for both partners and not breaching any hard limits..why not let yer imagination take over and see where it takes ye.
However i digress, number of subs have noticed, that, most ladies are fascinated by or pay aprticular attention to subs finger nails...are they clean...trimmed and even..do they look nice..??
Though, dirty finger nails are a turn off as indeed is dirty hands..some ladies do not like rough hands...soo look after yer hands and they will look after you.
Recently, discussing, smearing different substances onto canes and how such substances would affect..the cane and its performance and use.
Ok, cream or ice cream..ummmmm, water, would not stay on the surface of the cane as it be waxed and surface area too small, better idea to apply water to the err area ye are going to apply the cane to..if know wha!!! i mean.
Body lotion...vaseline or vics menthol rub, would give an unusual feel to the skin..soo long as does not cause problems, with cleaning the cane.
Clingfilm applied, to the cane, tightly, may affect the dynamics of how it moves through the air, apply, 2 coverings of clingfilm or more and test it each time.
Though the best suggestion of applying, arnica..soo as can address the bruising as soon as..novel way to apply it.
Heating the cane, would have to be done carefully..so as not to crack it or split or break.
Freezing it..again would need to be careful but would give unusual sensations and would affect the dynamic of the cane and the feel.
Applying itching powder..umm do not know but heating the handle or freezing same, would give an unusual sensation to the person holding it and applying same.
However, there is a better way, as in unusual combination of a special type of glove, placed on, the hand holding the cane, or placed on the free hand..or both hands.
Fascinating subject..that be before get to ancillary stimuli or stimilus..even.
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Ehhh... i was not aware, that, my journal enteries, came up in bright yellow..though as one person put it...low key..ehhhh bit late for that..obviously i choose the background, way back..sooo.....
Regarding, some comments, in regard to my procuring a photo....but i digress..hey... some while back, i received an email from one guy, who was..musta been on this site and he sent moi a comment...i assumed it was a jokey email..soo i sent him a big flowery,high flying, elaborately worded email..along the lines..of my good man..dear chap with all the big words..in my best olde english.
The guy went ballistic...who the... you so and so, who do you think you are shakespere..you....ect..of course i replied....ohh my good gentle soul for fear of everlasting damnation..i most earnestly treat ye..do..not ..i say sir...fine fellow.. take the blessed bards name in vain...one must..ect..
Hey everyones sense of humour is different..ain`t that the truth....
Therefore, i proceed with utmost caution as i can not reply directly, to comments on my predicament regarding the delays in obtaining said photo.
However it was a deadline not an ultimatum, deadlines can be set and pass..anyway, i was one day late..due to circumstances outside my control.
When folks, say..ohh he shoulda nota be given a second chance..ect... do they beleive that as a fact and if soo..how since do not know me..soo it is based on what...i was one day late.
Or do they genuinely, feel that...sincerely..again based on what.
Only raise this, in regard to clear communication..and this guy..anyway should have some empathy with a fellow sub..struggling doing his best..and ok...that may be a bit over dramatic..but..see what i be getting at..difference between.. someone saying.. i beleive as opposed to saying i feel.
Hard to know what the former is based on.. in this case and the latter is often a genuine emotion from the heart.
Though he is entitled to his view or beleifs even if they are..in my view askew in this case.
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Yeah!!! suppose, i better wave to all yez who have apparently been reading this..which came as a surprise..or soo one was informed yesterday.
Well, i got the photo...and as for comments about starting a blog..yeah.. intend to but noo ordinary blog..nooo.
See, thange is... was posting in this journal soo a certain person, could at their leisure come over and see how thanges were progressing, without moi having to send numerous mails.
what one did not appreciate that this august journal can be read, by the world and his wife.
Umm am i high profile..??? i be high profile but in a low profile way and fact that someone is documentating this on another forum, is not relevant to the matter.
Indeed some of the more crude mails...enquiring as to how`s she hanging or how`s she cutting..any news yet and such..is not exactly...well a tad crude.
And now quelle sur-prise i am going to use a cliche..yes i know..another..run screaming from the room or building..but i digress.
This nugget of wisdom is..stripping like whipping should be done in private..well mostly..as it can be discomoding for pets and vanillas.
Now it be possible, there are folks in states or outside Ireland..who be thinking..`em folks in ireland are strange..uploading a photo..well if yez had our internet broadband speeds and other obstacles to deal with as well as a very small scene, where it be difficult to find folks, who be discreet, to help ye upload a photo onto a fet site...then it would make sense.
Though i be happy to say there be some very fine people, in the scene here..salt of the earth..all praise to them.. that by the way includes moi.
As to the views, expressed in some mails..ahhh yez get points for trying...asking if and when i meet a particular person and if we engage in play, will i take photos and post them up here.
What do yez think....is the earth flat..if i was that stu-pid i would likely be residing in a tent somewhere in a large bog...
what i have learned..apart from basic computing..and how to text on a mobile..i jest yez not..also relationships are hard work but basically worth it..if ye get a gut feeling, then go with it..or possibly miss out on something wonderfull.
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Ehhhh never mind the bleedin weather, the economy or global warming..well now global warming...well generally speaking..to-day is the waiting game, when in next few days, i can finally get a photo and upload it.
Not for the faint hearted and do not try this at home, but keeping, a significant other waiting.. because, you be technically disadvantaged, or otherwise restricted is, possibly not a good idea and will lead to a testing time..of waiting and hoping, that the significant other will not assume ye be a messer or time waster and move on.
Though let it be said this does build character and strengthen nerves..so edge play after this will be a doddle because ye will be soo releived..thankfull..feel blessed to be playing at all or in the relationship.
Though if you genuinely, sincerely desire, want something..then get active, get busy getting it and as fast as you can.
Though have to reflect, computers can be sadistic feckers, except can not really submit to them and very little feed-back..just a square screen..though they do allow contacts and a means of connecting with and interacting with...potential partners..which is good, brilliant even..
While patience is a virtue one hopes that one has not pushed it too far.?
Tis going to be a long, edgy few days but hope does spring eternal.
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Ehhhhhh...yes the topic to-day is bleedin com-puters and sods law which says, any time do not need a computer to do something it be fine, dandy..great but when you need it to do, a very simple, basic, little task, it...packs up, goes walk about..jumps the bleedin digit.
And then there be, the folks who made the computer and who offer tech support, so a small task, which may cost 30euro...suddenly morphs into near 200euro for 3 years support, though if you have an expensive machine, it is worth it..given that a small peice of hardware could cost 100s of euro to replace..
The cost is not soo much a problem it is to get them to hurry-up..more speed.
One might be given to ponder, com-puters are sadistic feckers..since many geeks are in the scene one can only surmise that they have created a machine in their own image...a sadist.
This begs the question do sadists have a sense of humour....i certainly hope soo if not a little understanding and patience.
Just been over my, files, documents and error reports and all the rest for the umpteen time, and it is as clear as mud.
While i have a particular software problem, it is not helpful to go up on microsoft support and be told, ..yeah thats the problem,...great..soo where is the bleedin solution..the button.. the page to click..???
Had this happened 3 or 4 months ago, then no problem but of course..sods law it has to happen now..in my hour of need.
In this situation, one can only do ones best, work your way through the problems and not give up..but keep pluging away.
What is it they say grace or composure under pressure..but very sore on the nerves.
So back to the quest..and if want something bad enough then..you get active and get out and do it...which is what i be doing.
Though could be worse and hopefully this will have a happy or sadistic ending.****
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Ummm errr i be a slave if that be the word in this context or should it be subsiverient to others folks schedules, so something that should take a few days, is running into weeks.
Well of course there was, a bit of dithering, ruminating and deep very deep thinking..choices, choices..that is the difficult part..soo the quest for a photo continues.
Can not help but think, there musta be an easier way, the way of least resistance but shrrr as a sub, is it not more fun to do it the hard way..???
Ehhh even at the risk of ruining a potential relationship, even before its got started..this is what is known as edge play not for the faint hearted and under no circumstances try this at home...
But for some inane reason i feel calm, serene even, or perhaps i be entering a fools paradise, the type of serene calm that comes upon one, just before they are whacked by a great big bolt of lightening...ummmm
Looking to the positive..perhaps it be karma, having laboured, long and hard, in horific conditions, having to deal with ignorant, discourteous bluffers, prima donnas and other fakes not to mention the mentally and emotionally challenged on soo many sites for soo long..the shock factor of having found, a decent, genuine, direct human being, with whom may have some connection is indeed a heady mix.
On these different sites, a bit like trial by fire, or an endurance test, to see if you can last the course, though excellent training for play and the sometimes tricky waters of a relationship.
Though before one gets to euphoric..never take anyone or thing for granted, proceed carefully and in hope..one step at a time.
Thus an intresting junction, soo close and yet soo far..nearly but not quite and it has come to pass, that some guys, who say they be subs and indeed they may well be, often comment, quelle surprise.... that many women are very cynical...really one wonders why, espically when one guy, stated, that he had sent any number of ladies, emails, written in text speak and usually consisting of 1 or 2 lines..to keep it simple and on advice from another..sub had recently started sending, full frontal nude photos with the 1 or 2 line emails.
He then wondered why he was not having any success..when i jokingly suggested to him, that maybe his dick was too small..it was a joke, he contacted me, all earnest, thanking moi for the advice and stating he was going to get some err equiptment or potions or whatever to increase his dick size.
And hey presto, by his thinking that will solve all his problems, the ladies will be swamping him with contacts...perhpas on a swingers site.
Not sure, wether to laugh or cry..or run screaming from the room, the padded one of course.
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Ehhhh digital cameras..grrreeeat, fantastic, invention and then there be the instructions how to use the yoke..and the even more intriguing instructions on how to upload or down load, the photos onto yer computer.
But before ye get to that stage, taking a photo of yerself, without a tripod..is tricky and could be blurrey and look real bad..also, where to take the photo, in the garden, the kitchen, outside the front of the house, maybe not, hall, living room..while this would speed things up..and supposing could upload or down load the photo...how would it look,
would it be ok..or a minor disaster.
So will play it safe, take my time, get someone to take it, and make sure it looks half way decent..rather than looking as if had few drinks and then a few more and then decided to take the photo...might not look too impressive.
Best to take ones time and get it right.
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Ehhhh light at the end of the tunnel, feckless and gormless maybe not soo as the name might suggest..let moi tella geting a photo in this town can be tres expensive..not that would mind paying but just get a vibe that some are not...exactly kink friendly.
Thankfully there be others who are, now just a case of hopefully arranging a suitable time
and hey presto..a photo, just thinking will possibly need more than one and maybe different types...dunno.
Ehh computers for slow learners or the technically challenged..of course tis a fact, most folks online or majority be geeks, tech-heads..is that good or bad..???
However progress particular task is good and hopefully will bear fruit..well never take anyone or thing for granted..but hope does spring eternal.
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Diddly-de-diddly-dum.um-tu.tam.tum..its the feckless and gormless show..if one may say we have been brain-storming..shock-horr-eur we have come up with some solutions...i can hardly beleive it.
Now we are faced with a series of choices and the dilemma is which one...ehhhh..????
But this is an interesting topic...photos, as most folks only speak of photos in terms of..1.do you have a photo on yer profile or can send one..or...2.the dick photo beloved of
male subs the world over..mind ye..would ye not need to have a large dick for that as the smaller models might look...unless ye be into public humiliation or are an exhibionist.
Will not go into this in detail as i will raise it in my blog..but if a picture is worth a thousand words, then should ye not take care to make it a good photo, in terms of what ye wear, pose, lighting angles, expression..ect.
Apparently on one contact site, there be a guy..who claims to be a sub..he has an err umm interesting photo..let moi say, maybe best not to take a photo while drunk or with yer friends, or while wanking or both.
Anyway he has a photo, showing him, leaning into the camera, big cheesy grin, wearing a mickey mouse hat, holding..yes thats right a beer can, with others in background, one presumes his friends.Ohh and giving a thumbs up gesture with his free hand.
Now i be only guessing here but tis likely a lot of ladies might see that photo as someone
to put it politely who is less than serious.
Unless they share a fetish for mickey mouse, beer and like spending plenty with him and his mates, boozing..
Though it would be ironic..very cruel and unjust..unfair in the extreme and i might get up on the soap box if he were to find a dominant parrtner, while other more serious souls continue to labour on in despair.
But tis an adventure..a journey and always interesting to see where one ends up if indeed there be any end..the key to a good relationship..it never ends.
Now i must away and review my options, this is possibly the tricky part of this task..to choose from a list of options.
However i digress once again but only in order to progress.
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Ehhhhh..weeeeeee the continuing adventures of feckless and gormless as they manfully strive to upload a photo onto a com-puter,,one small step for man..but one giant leap for..well the non geeks, nerds and other techies.
We are agreed one one if in doubt rina a screaming frome the room..talk about laying on the jargon with a bleedin shovel..even when they are trying to make it easy and simple.
Can just not hold the bleedin photo up to the screen and click a button and bobs yer uncle and..no hassle.
Have agreeed on one thange, like when i set-up this computer..thats right i not be stupid i got someone else to set it up for me, otherwise, it woulda been obselete before i got online.
Indeed feckless has not been idle either ohh noo..as in.. a photo, what type, who shoulda take it, where, natural light or artifical light, face or just body, close-up or background set-up..angles, clarity et al...
Simple rule of life..if in doubt..espically with a com-puter..always play it safe and get someone who knows what they be doing to do it...
That is my next line of action to find, someone who can take the photo and then upload it..why did i not think of that in the first place.
And os bravely feckless and gormless battle on in the never ending quest of..upload a photo.
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ello, yes the weather is quite fine and might say, thanges could be worse, this despite the fact we be in a recession/depression..but i digress.
Thought t`would update this..ehhh meeting folks, tis not easy, bleedin computers, why can they not be like photo-copiers, get the bleedin photo, place into a slot, press a button and bobs yer uncle.
How can it be, that soo many people can have soo many different ways, ideas, procedures, advice on uploading a bleedin photo.
Whats the saying, my kingdom, my kingdom for a horse, no shoulda be the world, the whole bleedin lot for a bleedin photo or how to upload the bleedin yoke.
Did i mention i am not a geek or techie and the procedure for uploading a photo from a mobile to a computer...ehhhh..would be easier to dismantle the com-puter and reassemble again...ohh what fun....
Still could be worse...still smiling at the moment anyway.
Some advice, always make sure to write yer pasword and user-name on a peice of paper..write it down...but do not loose that peice of paper.
Someone was just saying..did i know com-puters, can be quite stressful....noooo surely not.. mans best friend, unless they go walkabout, jump a digit or do not bleedin know how to operate...than the stress tends to kick in.
Know wha!!! yes in fine traditional style i blame the bleedin computer..or rather the folks who designed it..i know they say they made it simple..but...but coulda they not have made it......simpler.
Why is it one wonders, when type in on some search engines, about uploading a picyure, apart from the high tech jargon..the assumption that ye want to upload a porn picture..is....ehhh.
Of course the numbers of guys who use computer to upload pics of their dick..total wste of time..well just assuming..hey!!!
And the advice to read the manual..ehhh great but do not have a few months to decipher that.
Just thinking...when get a computer, should not get a personal file or whatever with a portfolio of yer photos..until that happy day back to the drawing board or photo jargon. |
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Ohhh dear..ohh dear ohh dear... i be laughing now, but i may cry in a moment or feel the urge to runneth a screaming from this room.
Just had contact from a very nice lady in UK,
she is not a fake .
Meanwhile on the irish section of this site, seems have more fakes.. just wondering is it april fools or a big joke,,,, maybe tis but a dream.
Question are their any real, sane, genuine,
honest dommes on this site from ireland, ok i know there be a few but the rest.???
It gone beyond a joke and not just poor moi but talking to others who are or have been on the site, who have had same experience.
Meanwhile back at base so to speake, have usual infighting, bickering, in the online scene with many folks leaving, one of big yahoo groups because of bullying, censorship and jack boot tactics.
If do not beleive moi, then check out this blog.
www.ladylubyanka.wordpress.com.
It is a shocker and does not make for good reading or inspire confidence.
Just thought would come up and post this,
since little chance of actually contacting anyone on irish section.
One lady in UK, was asking me...is there a scene in ireland..err errmmmm well kinda
bdsm for slow learners.
As soon as we manage to get over our religious mental block and history, and the recession we will be err umm fine..???
Until that fine day, fakes unlimited and other sorts of funnery and games and labelling and name calling.
Ahh greeat fun only trojan.
Will this little rant help moi to contact dommes on irish section..will it fe.k..
Maybe they are on holiday..well a long bleedin holiday.
But in our finest traditions, big sloopy grin, say cheese, grin and bear it shrrr it character building..for yer old age, when if ye be lucky
and fortune smiles ye may just get some contact.
And as one guy here puts it, by time that happy events occurs we will be in regualr contact with the moon.
So would that be a couple of years or a few years or 5 or 7 or...?????
Over to the UK, me-thinks..
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Ello, folks..spot the fakes... i be in Ireland here and yes not exactly famous for bdsm, unless ye count our history..well maybe not.
However the number of fake profiles here is only trojan, legendary, that includes the women.
It is beyond a joke particularly relating to Ireland, it has come to a point, where apparently some do not bother to reply to profiles because can not spot the fakes from the genuine ones.
Alas some of the ladies not all but many are novice, inexperienced, simple and do not have a grasp of bdsm or safety.
When replying to profiles on irish part, not talking one liners but detailed, thoughtful replies, ye get no reply mostly or crude ignorant ones telling ye to get lost as it appears they are seeking messers, or novices or jokers.
This is not just my view having talked to few
others they have experienced the same, in fact most of replies i get come from states and UK, which is fine as Uk is just across the water.
Alas the scene here anyway appears to be in melt-down mode, recently reading, a blog by
a lady lubyanka, which deatils her experiences on the main bdsm group and at one of fet parties nimhneach which is horrific.
Censorship and silencing folks on a bdsm board
simply because have an issue with them looks ignorant and stupid but folks on this blog raise issues regarding safety at this party and excessive drinking.. unsupervised play..and more.
Honestly it be embarrasing an embarrasment,
so i guess, no wonder that there are so many fakes on the ireland section of this site and
most do not reply.
One person has made comment if many of the folks on that section are actually in the scene at all or genuine, simply gawpers..
Ehhh now there is a cheery thought.
This is like a game as one guy was telling me..spot the fake,
Since most irish folks are soo religious maybe i shoulda start to pray...hard..i dunno this looks like a joke.
Just to say - now obviously this will do no good but it be very funny and sad and actually tragic as well as embarrasing.
Enough said.
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ummmm, yes tis mid august and de summer is
over, it willa reappear as a mild winter - no joking.
It is very quiet, on this site, forum, as in nothing, null, nil, zilch, nana - however if one is dexterous, innovative and with extreme patience, then one may connect, with a significant other.
Personally i do not know, am afraid looks a bit barren, bleak as in a waste of time and effort.
Though one never knows, which is why i still be here..but it ai`nt tooo inspiring, to be brutally honest.
Some of de debates here are a bit sterile, wooden, sterotyped. like going around in ever decreasing circles.
Maybe one willa learn something, well yes
possibly..though not much from wha!! i have seen.
Now in this damp, cold, cloudy day there be something to cheer yez up...or maybe not.
De weather is like bdsm, unpredictable or maybe like dommes, take each day as it omes, do not get ahead of yerself.
Though for de day..there.
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Yes, indeed how time flies - summer or rather
mid-summer already.
Some iteresting debate on de clubhysteria forum, some flaming to start with, usually gets most folks heated up or stoked-up ready for
some discussion.
This revovles around de thorney issue of parties of de fetish type.
This has been going now for years, since i raised it over on a main forum years back.
So now have 3 fet parties on de cards and some, competition but de trick is, not to have
one partycancel out de other one.
So we are left with just one party again.
Personally, and other tend to agree, not sure
if folks here - in Ireland, on de groups at least
are totally open minded, or tolerant, can
see de bigger picture..??
Still many folks prefer to travel across de water to fet parties abroad.
Meanwhile back at de ranch soo to speake,
not a lot of activity regarding meeting folks,
here on this site - but seems some views, that ye need to give it a year at lest or maybe 2,and then see....
Might say de level of debate is a bit sterile,
just raising topics, for de sake of raising them and then most folks repeat almost same thange...
Though some unusual topics, that i be getting
in private mail, as in one guy asking how do ye
make yer cum thick and creamy..??/
And another asking do dommes fart..???
And of course de olde favourite, does cock size matter in finding a domme..
Well may be more a case of what be between yer head rather than yer legs..
But hey who be i to say..???
This week `ave learned something new, yes
indeed, which is, there are lots of dominant ladies across de water, but few here and i be
here../ soo...
Watch this space....
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jUST BEEN over on one of the forums, here in Ireland and tis depressin, if not embarrasin, a kinda postings, which amount to no more than frantic negative rants.
Heavy on assumptons, presumptions about others and plenty of labelling - flaming.
Now do hope the new fet party takes off, but if the kinda debate or flamin carrieson, it willa take off alright as in a flying leap off de edge,
kinda thangey..
Been on CM, now for number of weeks with updated profile and, ti actually boring, the debates are a bit cheesy, jokey, small clique who seem to post to one another.
So far i see no one on this site from here, who i would like to contact and none of de folks who `ave contacted moi...appear compatible
or interest moi.
Soo i guess i willa be travelling again.
Just shows how small de scene here is and in many ways inward looking..
Anyway i shall press on - hope springs eternal
but maybe shoulda not depend on hope alone.
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Greetings on this fine day, perhaps de first and
maybe de last of summer, given our summers.
Just had a contact from one guy who has been up on this site and others for over a year and more and still has not met anyone.
To clarify, plenty of contacts and chit chat, little exchanges but no real relationship.
And a recent discussion on de boards here, about attendingmunches, events and geting out and about if ye want to meet folks.
Soo, a real tonic for de troops so to speak.
Thus far ave been on here with my revamped profile, journal, partaking in discussions for near 3 weeks and so far just polite emails,
asking how are ye..and to join friends list.
Of course early days ye but am begining to wonder, not exactly a lot of folks on here from Ireland - small number.
Maybe a case of seek and ye shall find.. but
exactly what..??? is de other problelm.
And de advice to look harder, be more active,
as in email all de ladies on this site... yeah
great advice..???
And as one lady here observed, ye did`nt think it was going to that easy..did ye..???
Well actually no.. but did not think it was going to be that difficult.
However onwards and upwards de auld dog for de long road...
www.clubhysteriadublin.
www.nimneach.ie
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Ahhhh summer is here and of course it is wet, windy, cold, and... who said summer has to be hot and sunny and winter cold and dark. de yez think de planet is trying to tell us something..????
Personally i blame humans..seriously, hard to beleive but..
On a more cheery note, new club night or fet
party event opening here soon.
www.clubhysteriadublin.com
There is no actual dedicated club for fet folks
here, not enough folks or maybe they be too shy, or maybe they are all up on the
internet on de porn sites..???
How perverse...
But a new event is welcome and hopefully
will be supported.
Start small think big.
If we not be careful my end up with 3 fet
events or even more..hey????
Though a lot of folks travel to events
outside ireland.
Interesting question posed by one person is this site more a social site than a dating one..????
Kink positive....
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Hello,
Yeah!!! a journal, this be unique - used to have a diary on a site way back but it folded, the site not de diary,
This is a big site with a lot of people on it, for someone like moi, who is on de edge of de known scene here in Ireland.
At least have made contact with a few, people who seem, balanced, friendly and sane.
Next is how to figure out de chat rooms.
What to say or chat about - yeah de weather is quite chilly for de time of year..or maybe not.
Just discussing feng shui in basic dungeon design - interesting.
The other argument, dungeon, play room or play space or play area - yeah!!! there be big brains at work here - don`t ya know...
Suppose many of ye are asking - and is there a scene in Ireland - is that not supposed to be catholic and suppressed like..
Well tis a bit better now, 21st century and all that - but jaysus it still be hard work here
in relation to the scene.
Finally, a little thoght - we are all in de gutter but some of be looking at de stars.....
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