oralmann

I am a top looking for a bottom, a woman who enjoys alternative methods of exploring the mind body connection, the relationship between pleasure and pain and the ability to be a sexually submissive slut. I want a friend and a partner and eventually I want her to give herself to me as my slave. A slave who can still maintain her independence and think for her self, yet take pleasure serving me, anticipating my needs, take directions when necessary and know that I will honor her submission and return the pleasure I recieve but not hesitate to administer discipline if it should be required.

I am easy going, a go with the flow type of man, interested in expanding my skills. I think there are three levels of control. The first being the top and bottom. The bottom wants certain things done to them and the top performs, mutual satisfaction being the goal rather than an exchange of power. D/S would be the next level where the top becomes the dom and takes on more control while the bottom becomes submissive and gives up more control. Finally there is master and slave where there is a high level of trust and skill, control is given and taken and each partner knows what they want and what to expect.

I have too much to learn to call myself a master, I am a bottom learning to express the Dom within me, learning the techniques of B/D, spanking, caning, straping, erotic pain, power and control. I think we operate on all three levels with different levels of ability and I would be interested in interacting on any of these levels within my limits and within your limits. I am not an out going aggressive, stern controlling, man that has to have my way absolutely. I am quiet, layed back, easy to get along with, can admit I am wrong if that should ever happen and compromise when needed. I want a willing partner who can appreciate a low key approach to a Dom/sub relationship. I am not good at role playing and am uncomfortable trying to do so. I am pretty straightforward in my actions, I am manipulating your body and mind to achieve one response, and that is to give you as much sexual pleasure as I can give you while using you for my own pleasure. You don't have to be the "one". We find some common ground and see what developes. We help each other learn, achieve our goals and fantasies, give, take, share, and either we evolve or go our seperate ways until the right person does come along.

I'm looking for fun, I'm looking for the "one" and I want to become a better person along the way.