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onlytoserve1

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Male Dominant, 40, raleigh, North Carolina
Male Dominant, 56, San Diego, California
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onlytoserve1 - Male Submissive, Denver Colorado | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About onlytoserve1

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I am genuine, intelligent, masculine, well mannered and seeking to further explore submission. Navigating this alternative landscape can be challenging and it's not possible to present every facet of me in one introduction. Read into it what you can but do please feel free to ask me anything you like.



I have had several real time encounters as a sub over the years so I'm not really a newbie... but it has been awhile since i last served.


The connection I seek is one that promises to foster great depth and holds the intention to benefit all involved. I'm not here to "want" from you, I am here to explore, serve, play and indulge in the taboo with you. Life is too short to spend only dreaming of what could be... and fantasies don't become a reality all on their own.


Know that deep down I'm a sensual and giving creature who adores pleasing the Feminine. Serving as a submissive rewards me with an opportunity to learn more about my own process of giving up control on all levels as I commit to pleasing another without an agenda of my own. The thrill often comes from not knowing what to expect or to what degree my willingness to please will be tested.







Some people used to actually try to be creative while putting up FAKE profiles on this site.

But I just ran across 6 profiles that all have the same cut and paste introduction page. Occasionally they put up different pictures and sometimes they put the same one up over and over. Here are some "New" profiles that all reek of FAKENESS....

Bekat69, Boliz601, Keepoy91, Labos01, Popels12, Kwatogs

I am always available to professionally video tape and/or edit your kinky adventures!

If you've spent enough time orally worshipping a woman or you payed proper attention in biology class, you then realize that a woman's Clit is very much like a little penis… an uncircumcised penis at that. What then you ask is the male equivalent of a woman's vagina? His prostate of course. Yes, both sexes have a "G" spot and most studies show that up to 60% of a man's full orgasmic potential is never reached if the prostate is not included in the stimulation. The moral of the story? Most men, despite being able to, have never had a real "vaginal" orgasm either!

i know that numerous men on this site spend most of their time "annoying" the female members. So i thought i would try the quiet sub in the corner approach... you know, waiting to be noticed by the searching Domme... but apparently some rules never change, as in it seems to remain an unwritten rule that the men must always approach the women... no matter the role. Funny because i kind of like it when a Woman comes along and requests my attention... seeks me out as a candidate to become Her property. That's truly the more the Dominate thing to do isn't it?

Oh my! I clicked on the BDSM Gear button and did some browsing. It's been awhile since I investigated the latest and greatest stuff. This item is technically in the penis jewelery category but probably belongs in the short term Chastity device section. Oh my! was my initial reaction... Talk about being under control... Check it out:

http://www.extremerestraints.com/cock-rings_34/anal-intruder-cock-ring-with-urethral-plug_6073.html

Here's a fun joke:

Superman is flying around the City and he finds himself hornier than ever. As he passes over the Justice league he sees Wonder Woman on the roof sunbathing naked. Superman thinks to himself: "Holy shit! What an opportunity! I am faster than a speeding bullet right?... I could just swoop in real fast, do her missionary style and be gone before she ever knew what happened!" So Superman swoops in, does his thing and whooshes off.

Then Wonder woman jumps up off of her chair and screams, "What the fuck was that?!" Then the Invisible man says: "I don't know but my asshole sure hurts!"

I think this was in a movie... probably Hollow man.
Hope you got a chuckle!

Found this post the other day on another site... I think everyone should read it and there are many individuals on this site who absolutely NEED to read it.

 

The Secrets of Being a Good Dom
by: MstrJames

 Domineering:
Many Dominants don’t know the difference between being dominant and being domineering. A domineering person thinks that it's all about being in charge. Domineering people are often overbearing, loud and tyrannical. They exercise control in an oppressive way.?They are unjust and severe in their treatment of the people around them. Their control is often enforced with threats of physical punishment and with no thought for anyone but themselves.

 Dominant:
A Dominant exercises complete control in a more subtle way, with influences and thoughts rather than threats and physical punishments. Dominants care about the people around them. They can be authoritarian and powerful but have the utmost respect for others:

-A Dominant loves and cares for his Submissive. Submission is a gift freely given and domination is the loving return of that gift.

 -A Submissive responds to a Dominant if he shows himself worthy of respect. Compliance is wanting to please, not fear of punishment.

 -To win a Sub's heart you first win her trust. Through honour, truthfulness and kindness.

 -A Dominant takes full advantage of the power that’s given and knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that gift.

 -You must be in control of yourself first before you can exercise control over others.?-You understand the difference between sensation and pain and the gap between guidance and force.

 -At the hint of a safe word or gesture you are quick to leave the roles behind and be a supportive and caring partner.

 -You know that punishment and sensation play are different things and never raise a hand in anger.

 -You show your guidance is worth following and your knowledge is deserving of her attention.

 -The worst punishment for a Submissive comes in the form of the Dominant's displeasure.

 -You understand the dangers in sensation play and assist if distress arises. The body and the mind are fragile and you are careful not to do serious harm.

 -You use sensation to push the boundaries of pleasure. You can bring your Submissive to new heights of passion and then mould it into something akin to fire.?-You know communication is the most important aspect of the relationship. You always listen.

 -You must know your Sub's mind and body and strive to know her soul.?-You have patience. Knowing that as her trust grows, so will the closeness of the relationship.

 -You are courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Knowledgeable enough to know that there is always more to learn.

 -Your tools are your mind, flesh, spirit, soul and love, with a little help from the flogger, paddle, cane, rope, cuff and blindfold.

I work in Video Production and the other night a friend of mine was showing me this new toy he has.... Video toy you pervs!  

Well actually the point I'm about to make is how this video toy could be put to excellent use in the Kink Realm.  I'd call it VI or Visual Intensification.

Basically it is a set of video monitor goggles that steadycam operators often wear.
You send the camera signal through the wire to the goggles and whatever the camera sees is what you see.

Now being that we are all such visual creatures... but with only 1 pair of eyes forever attached to our heads... I got to thinking about what sort of other ways we could use these video goggles. Immediately I thought of how they could be put on a bound submissive while being flogged, penetrated etc. and the camera would then be pointed close up to wherever the true action is happening. Imagine seeing the whip coming at your butt through the goggles and then actually feeling the impact as you watch it strike you. Wouldn't that be fun!

But the fun is not just for the dungeon.... What if Mistress wore the goggles while she was being orally pleasured by her sex slave? The camera could show her exactly what was being done so she could better direct her slave to improve upon his/her technique. I think getting to watch from an alternate perspective would be very erotic and applicable to many situations. Go ahead, take down the mirrors over your beds. You won't need them anymore as long as you use VI glasses! Coming soon to a store near you.

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