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| Dominant male, understanding, believe in balance in relationship, communication, informed consent. I am creative, intelligent, friendly, good natured, writer, musician.
There is honor and beauty in submission. It is a very high form of relationship when it is honored in a sacred way by a dom. Without the paradoxical honoring of the needs of the sub, a relationship can be easily degraded into a pure ego struggle and power trip that cannot really last.
The dom sub relationship is first of all a relationship. It is not just a dom dominating and subdueing resistance. It is the sub choosing and giving her consent, offering herself to the dom.
In a real dom sub relationship there is a two way flow of energy. What the sub gives to the dom is a beautiful and exquisite privelige of complete trust, allowing him to take her to her limits and to extend those limits as they grow together, for each sub is a unique and sacred being whose needs must be understood and honored.
Here is my credo. I wrote it many years ago. Now it is more true than ever before:
Love Prayers
Have no part of that which does not please you. Clothe your thoughts in beauty that you will love them.
What is important is to feel the repose, relaxation of the mind, and to feel, breathe and swim in the beauty and quiet that naturally form around your soul, that this shall become the center of your patterns, the quiet loving that underlies your conversations and the way you touch another, in love and tenderness.
Let me pray for the rest of my life. Let my every word be a prayer, my touch a prayer, and my seeing be a prayerfrom the depths of my soul.
I see distances between myself and the things I see. The phenomena have not all been seen and I am a wonderer, a beggar in love with the mysterious future.
Love descending to the depths of our souls makes us see correctly and speak from love. Wisdom becomes a care and a tenderness, not a righteous thing.
Our hope is to be able to love. It is to feel from the heart the joy we know is possible. It is to cup the hands on the cheeks of a loved one, to look deeply into the eyes and to discover resonance, a long and beautiful sound that stretches into lasting love.
Work is done out of love. When you work, ask yourself, "What love makes me do this?" Find in your mind love that motivates and let your work be done by the energy of your love.
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