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Dominant Couple, 40, Foley, Alabama
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Male Submissive, 45
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Female Submissive, 29, bruseels,BE
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About onelostlilgirl
Is there anybody out there willing to be close to this mans opinion?
Being a Master in a D/s BDSM relationship comes with its share of responsibilities and expectations. When you claim another and place your collar on them you are signifying your commitment towards guiding another soul through life. This commitment does not begin and end with what society’s idea of the lifestyle is or represents. In fact being a Master means different things to different Dom’s. For me it means the following. It means I’ve committed myself to being a protector and not just of what some perceive as property.
For me it means protecting someone from not only the day to day agitations but from themselves as well. To protect another means to teach to guide and yes if necessary to punish. But it also involves trust. My slave by choosing me as her Master is showing not only devotion and love, but complete and total trust. This trust is placed in my hands in the form of her entire being. She trusts that I will be there during any strife that comes her way and to share in every joy as well.
It means I have vowed to guide her in the ways that I expect her to be through allowing her to be totally true to her nature. Her expectations of me consist of insuring that wrong choices are not made and conflicting emotions that would stagnate the thought process are separated and labeled for what they are, distractions. It is that muddled mind that I’m committed to clear. It means that I will treat her as I would a rose in that I will administer the proper care and encourage her to blossom into the beautiful garden that is desired. It means I have accepted the responsibility in making sure that she is healthy and happy by giving her the dominance she desires. It means I will weed out all the bad habits that in the past have led to negative and irretrievable consequences. From the moment a decision to enter this is made I committed to shaping her into the woman she desires to be. It means control. Control of not only her but of the shared destiny we both crave. To take control of another being brings strength to me in the form of an example. It causes me to reevaluate my own life and my own choices and to transfer those to her so that she may benefit from them. It means I must now lead by example. And never falter in any endeavor that is undertaken. To gain control like this brings power to me. The kind of power needed to be strong in my convictions and grants me the freedom to truly be who I am through all of this it is she who has given me that gift.
If so, contact me. If not, than just keep walking. |
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Discouragement again. I come back to this site after being away for almost a year. I went in with a good attitude about finding my man. I dip my toe in the water and find a person with good possibilities. We had a few email exchanges. A long conversation on the phone that went really well. I found a bit of spark in my heart. Some would say a glimmer of hope.
We make a date to meet.
When the day of the date comes, I get up and shower, shave, do all the things a girl does to meet someone for the first time.
I go to my room and turn on my computer and start looking for the perfect outfit to wear on the date.
My email beeps.
Change of plans, going out of town today after work, my buddies want to meet up at noon, and leave then, can we try to meet up on next week? Notice your phone came in with a no caller ID number so I do not have your number.Have a great weekend!
Ok, I can accept this. He gave me warning. We talked after this email and made plans to meet this week. However, I have sent him two text messages and have not heard one word back. I just do not understand this. If you change your mind about meeting, just let me know. What is hard to accept is wondering why there has been no response.
Just flat out rude to keep a girl hanging. Ugh! |
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What is up with the Doms on this site? If I have turned you down in the past. ... Why do you think months later when you contact me with a different profile that things would change? It wont. I still wont be interested.
STOP THE MADDNESS. I have better things to do with my time, than waste it on you twice. |
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Not currently looking. Hold your submissive close. Hold them as though they could break from incorrect handling. Love them as though they could leave at any moment, their presence fleeting. Make them cry out in the night.
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I do enjoy a Dom with a sense of humor...
From: Newz????
Dated: 1/26/13 6:25pm
Hey. Why dont you cum fuck me in My Nigerian hotel room? |
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Things I wont respond to:
Chat requests. It never works on this site, stop wasting my time.
Messages consisting of: "hey,nice photo,come fuck me in my hotel,car,im in town." Things of that nature make me dry as the Sahara.
I dont give my phone number or my name on the first few discussions. If I feel We/we have a connection, then I will give you an im address where We/we could chat better.
Nothing from Nigera, Africa, Philipenes...you get my drift? Go away.
I take this journey seriously. So, if you dont....keep clicking. Im not the girl for You.
Im looking for a one on one situation with a True/Natural Dominant MALE.
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