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Update: Feb 12th 2025 About Me:

New to Titusville/Cocoa area but have been in Florida for over 30 yrs (previous Tampabay). There is much more to me than what I can write in here. That portion is for someone genuinely interested in me and usually will share in person. If you Ass-U-Me anything based on this, this ignorance is on you not ME. I welcome questions, comments and concerns but be polite and don't waste my time or your time if you are not serious about relationship. Please spell out your intentions and I'll be more than happy to entertain.

I'll share my pics once we connect due to my profession. I am Asian Indian (Perfectly natural tanned skin), 5'10", husky teddy bear built. I am NOT suit and tie; I prefer to dress comfortably (mostly shorts/Ts) when not working. I do have a professional career in healthcare.

I am not the type to pound my chest and claim to be a Domly Dom, I do have dominant personality in all aspects of my life and thrive better on this spectrum. I grew up in very conservative and taboo filled environment, so had to keep this side buried deep within until recently. I discovered I was always this way, just never embraced it before due to expectations from family, society etc among other things. For me DOM is not about power over submissive, but about trust and respect that an independent and intelligent woman of today's age bestows in me. This belief was always there even before knowing of this lifestyle.

I am interested in serious relationship with my end goal to be in a Throuple D/s relationship, lead by a Dom (ME) and two female submissives. Yes this maybe the unicorn but after giving it much thought this is a MUST in Long-Term lifelong relationship. For me this is not just about sexual but for much deeper relationship dynamic. In this relationship, I will be faithful and loyal to both of my partners and expect the same. End goal is to organically grown into much deeper D/s relationship where eventually will grow into Master/Slave dynamic. Regardless of label of our relationship, I will always value your opinion and encourage open communication. For me communication is one of the pillars of strong and healthy relationship. I don't want my submissive to fear even to express something.
Happy New Years to all you "fucked up" Kinkesters (Don't get mad, I am one of them, lol).. Yes even to you folks who are trolls, "fake" profiles and phishers..... Be Welll...
Many wonderful ladies on here have issues with "DOM"s on here that they don't read profiles or understand what's written and still take up space in their message box. While I agree and underdtand your frustration; Here is my take on it to minimize it: * Submissive's profile: "I am NO limit slave/submissive, but NO to scat, blood, needles, golden shower, animals, collar, NO submission out of bedroom......" Okay you are NOT no limit slave and thats perfectly okay but please don't put NO limit then. Everyone has/should some limit. * THINGS CHANGE everyday. I've personally chatted with several young ladies and what it says in the profile is different then what they say today. I understand since everyday our life is altered in some ways and our situation changes over time. Its very difficult to know when the profile was last updated. So there are many DOMs including myself who will still take up your valuable space in mailbox to avoid ASS-U-MEtion. * I contact many potential submissives in hopes of finding the ONE (NOT desperateness). I know from my personal experience that there could have been a great potential if given the chance and had patience. We are too judgemental at times and lose out on great opportunities. Communication and giving benefit of the doubt. * I think blocking tab is a great feature but for god sake grow up. If someone is not "abusive", don't send them an aggressive email attacking and just block. Goes back to communication. Use it to make things better for next potential partner. This is just my take, go ahead and PM me with your frustrations and disagreements. (I'll use it to educate myself better) lol
Anyone having trouble sending/replying to messages?
Visiting Miami/Kendell 10/19 - 10-21. Anyone interested to meet in the area? Yes for a fine coffee and nice conversation to start with.
*One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (to my inbox). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy dirty or wrong it is. Only catch: I dare you to post this on your page and see what others ask you!
JUST TO CLARIFY: I am looking for a playmate but does NOT mean just that. I hope to convert that into longterm relationship. YOU CAN'T EXPECT A LTR ON DAY ONE. I am NOT looking to sleep around. I am open to explore with all LEGAL age, shapes and size female submissives. I CRAVE for personality above anything else.
Just signed up. May not be able to write or reply I guess.