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Good day to all. I hope you all will take the time to read what I have written, as it will provide clarity as to what I am seeking as well as to who I am. I have tried to be as open and honest as possible to ensure that you know upfront so there is no miscommunication.

Who I am
I am a well educated and well travelled submissive woman. I enjoy many activities, both vanilla and bdsm. I will not list them all here. I consider myself both submissive and masochist. Occasionally a babygirl side comes out. Happy to discuss details at a later time. I also have other pictures. I am a plus sized female so if that is not an issue for you, then please keep reading.

I am a big hearted and caring individual. I enjoy taking care of someone just as I want to be taken care of too. I have a good job and do not need your financial support. I mean the emotionalmentalphysical kind of support one finds from a partner. I am very respectful of others in my sphere, and I require the same in return. I am a lady and deserve to be treated like one.

I also deserve to be treated as a woman, whose wants and needs are looked after just as I look after someones wants and needs. This is not a one-sided type of relationship that I am looking for. I am no doormat. That being said, I can be forgiving, but if you break my trust you will be hard pressed to earn it back. I am not afraid of walking away or standing up for myself or what I needwant in this life. With age comes maturity and understanding.

Hard limits these are non-negotiable.
1 Poly. If you desire more than one person to serve you, I am not for you.
2 I have a child, thus certain types of play must be relegated to those times when my child is not with me.
3 Usual suspaspects of anything illegal (drugs, prostitution, abuse, kids, animals, etc), as well as no permanent harm such as scarification and mutilation. Certain s of degradation and public play in which the vanillas would be scared.

I have been in and out of the bdsm community for over 10 years. I have my own toys, and I know how to wield them and how they should be used on a person. I am continuing to get back into the community at this time and it will be a part of my life moving forward.

What I am seeking
One man for a eventual long term Ds relationship. Someone that enjoys my servitude and taking care of them, as well as enjoys taking care of me as well. Someone that can be both a sadist and use a soft touch. Someone that can take the lead and make decisions while taking my opinion and desires into account. Someone capable of listening and communicating with me and who can enjoy both vanilla life and bdsm activities.

Preferences would be for someone in the 35-50ish age range, as would have the most in common from a cultural bacground perspective. Also, please be within a reasonable driving distance, as meeting in person on a regular basis would be desired in order to a connection andor relationship. I do not have a passport and will not be obtaining one in the foreseeable future.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. If interested, please feel free to message.