I'm a very compassionate, open-minded, empathetic and caring sort of guy. If you want someone who truly cares about you, wants the best for you and is willing to help you with areas of your life in which you need guidance and discipline and more self-control, then let's get acquainted. A quality relationship cannot happen overnight. It takes time.
You must be reasonably fit, slim, local to the Miami/Homestead Florida area, and be willing to have a part-time relationship. Just because it will be part-time does not mean that it will be low quality. A high quality relationship can be built on a part-time basis, if you are diligent. This means staying in touch by phone when we cannot be together. I know this is possible because I have done it and am doing it at present. I am unable to do 24/7 at this time due to family constraints. Yes, I said family. I am married and also have a girlfriend. I am a polyamorous gentleman, with no secrets, and intimately involved with both. My wife and girlfriend both know what's up and they are both OK with it. They know that I am also looking for an additional intimate relationship closer to home, since my girlfriend lives many miles away. Will she disappear from the picture if you and I make a go of it? Not likely. Neither of us wants that, but are willing to be practical in our relationships, granting what we can of ourselves to each other's lives.
If you have been treated poorly by past Doms/Masters, you will find this to be a breath of fresh air because you will receive the honor and respect you need, even when/if you need discipline, including a good spanking.
You can learn more about me by viewing my other profile on collarme. Look for "electriclove". And for the record, the name has nothing to do with electrical play. The inspiration for the name comes from another source. Details available upon request. #];o)
I am not a player. I am for real (and that includes a sense of humor), so you should be too.
Transitioning
Love
There is a
process in my heart that I have had difficulty describing to others, but I need
to talk about it, and hopefully once I?ve described it, you will understand
where I?m coming from.
I care about
people. I may not like everyone I meet,
but I do genuinely care about people and their individual needs. Everyone needs love sometimes and I try to
love others by showing them respect in my interactions with them. That is one way to show love to others. So every person that I meet, I start out with
them having a clean slate on the blackboard in my head. Then as I interact with them, I take notes,
writing about them on that blackboard in my head. Some people, when I meet them for the first
time, come out kicking and screaming and I have to duck as soon as I see them,
because for some reason they don?t want to have a peaceable conversation with
me. Their names get ?written down? along
with what they did and a strong note to be cautious around them in the future,
if not avoid them altogether. Others are
receptive, showing the same respect that I offer them, and we can interact
together peaceably. And then there are
the ones with whom I immediately feel a connection and I not only interact with
them, I interact with more depth and feeling than those who are simply
receptive of me. Those are the ones I
like to get to know in detail, filling up my blackboard really fast in
multicolored chalks. With those people,
it doesn?t take much time before the relationship I have with them goes from
being polite and respectful to having a deeper feeling of caring for them and
their individual needs. That feeling is
a different, deeper and more intense feeling than what I feel toward most, and
that is where my heart begins to build a personal relationship with them
feeling a closer kinship to them.
Now if that
person happens to be female and if I also happen to be sexually turned on by them,
I begin to feel a love growing toward them that makes me want to be with them
at close range, vulnerably showing them my heart, and learning what is in
theirs as well. Romance is a part of
what I feel at such times and I call that being in love.
As I get to
know someone, this whole process of getting to know them transitions from one
level of relationship to the other. If I
see a reason to limit the development of that process because of protocols or
necessity, I limit how far things go, but doing so is not always an easy thing
to do. Some people just draw me in by
the connection that I feel toward them. It?s
a lovely thing when that connection is realized.
This process
occurs naturally for me. I don?t have to work at it because it comes easily,
almost like breathing.? But for me to act
opposite of that behavior, I have to work at it.? Those are the different levels of relationship
that I have toward others I meet and interact with.? No one is exempt.? You can get along with most of the people you
meet everyday, but you can?t get along with all of them, it just isn?t meant to
be?
