a slave who knows what he wants is no less submissive for encouraging the woman of his dreams to take control of him. and that is what I am looking for. someone who will bring out only the most dominant and sadistic side of me. who will be my whipping boy, lover and partner in crime. how will you convince me that you are really worth having? if you expect direction and guidance in all walks of life, I am not the Mistress for you. No. I want someone who will push me to the edge, challenge me, and offer me power. Who will show me more of this delicious nectar........ that is control..... hmm no if you sit around waiting for me to take control, you will get nowhere.... you must convince me to take it from you. give it to me ... and if I reject it, laugh in your face, or tell you there is no possible way I would ever consider owning you, don't just accept that! the day I chain the slave to the wall I will only do so because he has earned it. because he has so much power to give that I cannot help but lick my lips, salivate and soak my panties at the thought of owning him. he will be a beast turned complete bitch.

None of the messages in my inbox have done anything to make me laugh or smile. I am tired and weary. Bored--and so horny by my lonesome. Where have all the good sluts gone?

 About Me;

My name is Jessica and I am a nineteen year old dominant female BBW from Fredericton, New Brunswick. My academic interests include: psychology, history, and politics. My "professional" background at this point in life is not only nonexistent, but irrelevant. The fact that I am a sadist is rooted deep in my personality (back into my childhood)... A trait that I developed gradually over time, thanks to exposure and other external elements. You can expect me to be any one of the following: silent, mocking, impatient, observant, brutally honest (realist), irritable, standoffish, cantankerous, "hard to get" (cat and mouse), difficult to impress, elusive (I am spontaneous and often do things without any explanation as to what my intentions are) but so, so, so very worth it. It has been said that I love as hard as I hit. Oh, and that I bark as loud as I bite!

As far as my experience in BDSM or how long I have been in the lifestyle (approx. three years)-- I have owned several slaves, mostly at a distance, and played with a handful in real life. But I am no expert. I am always learning, just as you are always learning... and ultimately, I would like to find someone with whom I can explore and grow into the Goddess (think Venus in Furs) that I am.

I am not a sports fan, nor do I engage in any such activities myself but I am an admirer of those who do. Men with long hair (or dark hair, light eyes) tend to draw my attention before those with short hair, and I would not put "selecting a submissive slave based on his appearance" beyond me. While I may be a big girl (a very strong one at that), I am not interested in owning a "larger" male slave unless he is willing to submit to a strict regime of fitness training.

Personality traits I look for in a male slave would include: a fine (and similar) taste in films, music and hobbies. Quirky, individual, temperamental, determined, love and/or understanding of masochism (emotional and physical), receptiveness (the ability to listen, rather than try to "solve my problems"), eagerness to offer his services and provide, a creative streak and wild imagination (ability to dream, "head in the clouds", idealist), shyness, optional dominance towards others (alpha submissive).

In a Female-led relationship, I am:

Dominant/Domineering.

Strict.

Commanding/Demanding.

Cold.

Loving/Nurturing.

Gentle.

Sadistic.

Hypersexual.

My Kinks;

First and foremost: emotional control and power.

Secondly: Intimidation/threats and fear, pet handling/training (male DOG slaves), watersports/bathroom use control/restriction, speech and eye contact restrictions, smoking, restraints (shackles, cuffs and chains), edge play (pushing limits and boundaries), verbal degradation/humiliation and abuse, mindfuck and mental bondage, "forced" bi/polyandry (one dominant female, multiple submissive males/"dogs"), knife/blood play, micromanagement (I dress you, feed you, decide how you will wear your hair, wax/shave you the way I like, etc), body mod, collar and lead, orgasm denial, foot/boot/heel worship, ass worship, rubber and leather bondage, breath control, rough sex, cock and ball torture, sensual sadism/malicious seduction (doing cruel things with a soft, teasing voice or gentle caresses with the hands, lips and fingertips), cock milking and forced orgasms for men, moderate-heavy impact play, objectification/human furniture (benches, ashtrays, 'living sculptures'), posture training, progressive protocol (becoming more rigid with time as my demands begin to increase), issuing punishments and more.

Please note: I do this only for myself, and for my pleasure. I am a dominant female because I enjoy it. I find it emotionally, intellectually and sexually gratifying and it is who I am. There are certain things however, that many submissive males are interested in that I do not care for or have no particular interest in and will not do until the mood strikes (IF the mood strikes), such as strap-ons, cuckolding, and forced femme.

As you can imagine I have become bombarded by messages ever since opening this profile. So I think it is high-time I specify the clear difference between what I am looking for, and what I am not looking for.

Do not contact me if:

You are a man over the age of 45

You are married.

You are a single parent.
Your English skills (or lack thereof) would cause a language barrier between us.
Your cock is under 6.5" in length.
You are circumsized.
You are bald. (Yes, I'm serious.)

You are a BHM.
You are a sissy or CDTV.

You are incredibly short.
Your lifelong dream is to be kept in chastity forever, strictly cuckolded and/or never allowed to cum.
You are not willing to meet or relocate anytime in the future, ever.
You are not financially stable/independent.

The question that remains is: Well then, what do you want?

Answer: I would like a slave who knows he is a slave. It is not just a role he plays, but it is who he is and he cannot deny this part of himself. He needs a Goddess to serve, her valet, her chauffeur, her butler, her maid, her shopping assistant, tripping all over himself to try and please her. Without it he drifts, feels empty and longing (just as I do for him, without him). He longs to live his sorry life at the heel of a superior woman, curled up like the weak and pathetic dog he is. He secretly fantasizes about not only the texture of Her collar around his neck, but its tightness when she is tugging on it in public before a crowded strip of people. He can feel their eyes watching T/them in the park as he falls to his knees, gently clasping her heeled foot in his hands and as he leans down to caress them, kiss her heels, he knows he doesn't care who sees: in his mind, he is the luckiest man alive.