For a 'normal' male, chastity seems the most cruel torture. For an inferior male who accepts his submission, chastity is his pride. he knows his chastity is an ultimate tribute to his Mistress and an asset in serving Her.

Chastity as a tribute to the Mistress

Female Supremacy is the philosophy that make both Women and men as happy as they can be in this life. It defines clearly the Superior position of all Women and hence the inferior position of all men. Once a community or society governed by these principles is established, truly human development takes place. Women begin enjoying the world with all their senses and their total mind, men grow in servitude to this needs of Women, so that They can enjoy even more.

Of course, if there is Female Supremacy there must be a philosophy and power system based on the male principle too. i hesitate to call it 'male supremacy', because unlike Female Supremacy this philosophy doesn't lead to (real) human development. Instead of leading to the expansion of all the senses, it leads to concentration on the phallus only. First it is 'man' who governs, after a short time it is his penis. In popular speech this truth is reflected in sayings like 'his brains are in his penis' or 'this is not a man with a penis attached, this is a penis with a man attached'.

The results are devastating. First of all for Women who become no more then a hole to fit the penis. men even forget 'there is a woman attached to the hole'. But also for society at large the consequences are severe. Aggression is the logic of the phallus, aggression against Women, aggression towards other men, who chase the same Women, and this translates in war as the guiding principle for society. The phallus is the symbol of the male power system. But it is more then a symbol. It is really the biologically determined 'logic' of the phallus that brings the evil of a society or a relationship governed by men.

So, there you are, a man, biologically determined by the 'logic' of your phallus. The best thing in life you can do is to admit that you are inferior to Women, and accept that this inferiority means submission. A Superior Woman had mercy upon you, She trained you, She had to support your phallic behaviour over and over again, and never gave up disciplining you to withhold from your penis. Her greatest gift to you is that by directing your attention to Her needs (the rich development of the five senses and the mind), She directed the attention away from your penis and its low phallic logic.

And then such a man dares to say: 'Okay, maybe this is right at the philosophical level. But a little bit of play with the little thing between the legs, the little pleasures it gives to a slave who suffers the hardship of serving his Mistress... that cannot be wrong.'

If you think that way, you didn't understand anything of Female Supremacy and the dangers of male phallocracy. That little thing between your legs is the devil. It is there to lead you in temptation. And of course it tries so with a 'little play that doesn't harm anyone'. (It's the same way kids are talked into taking drugs the first time.) Don't underestimate the biological and most addictive- force of the phallus.

And if you climax, consider it as spitting in the Face of your Mistress. You are saying to Her: 'With my words, i am serving you. But with my hands that should be there for serving You- i serve the devil and the enemy of Female Supremacy.' As a slave, you cannot be serving two Mistresses. Far less you can serve at the same time Your Mistress and a master who is your Mistress's greatest enemy.

Chastity is the solemn promise of the inferior male to the Female Superior to stay away from phallic logic. he gives control to his Mistress of that what otherwise would control him. Keep to your promises, and you will stay happy.

Chastity as an asset in serving the Mistress

The final goal in a man's life is serving a Female Superior. male submission is not about saying a prayer to your Mistress and staying away from your penis. male submission is about being a slave to your Mistress's needs.

The Mistresses of the AcademyForSlaves.com are very clear about what 'really' is a good slave. A good slave is someone who anticipates the needs of his Mistress, who actively discovers the needs of his Mistress, who is self learning about how to serve better. A good slave is a slave in every situation, at home and in public. A good slave has the highest respect for the personality of his Mistress, respecting Her privacy and accepting Her tantrums.

It asks the effort of a life time to achieve such high level slavery. Above all, it asks constant attention. Every junior slave thinks: 'Ah, how wonderful. Of course i will be always attentive to my Mistress. She is beautiful, She is powerful, She is delightful. She will be always on my mind.' If you say so, you even have not began to understand which kind of attention your Mistress need.

It is the right and the goal of every Superior Woman to enjoy the world with all Her Senses and Her Total Mind. An experienced Woman is thus literally very 'sensitive'. Her Senses and Her Mind are highly developed, She is very aware of what worldly pleasures make Her happy, She has attained a high level of sophistication in enjoying the good things of life.

Know, slave, that by nature and by experience you are far less sensitive than the Mistress you are serving. So how can you pay the right kind of attention to Her? This is not about 'the Mistress being in your mind'. That is easy, because She IS beautiful and powerful. This is about 'you being in the mind of Your Mistress, close to her demanding senses'.

If you want to serve your Mistress right, you have to shift focus from your inferior self to Her Superior Self. In its biologic development, every human being reaches a kind of 'self': an awareness of 'completeness' of body, mind and environment. Female Supremacy takes into account that the Female Self is superior to the male self. So, if a man achieves a shift in focus from his own self to the Superior Self of his Mistress, he not only creates the conditions for servitude but also reaches a higher level in his own development.

This isn't easy, and this focus to the Self of the Mistress has to be re-established every moment of life. By contemplation, by punishment, by reward. And at every moment of the day, the slave is confronted with a lot of temptations that withdraw his attention. Therefore he have to ask permission for every pleasure.

The greatest temptation for the slave is his own penis. It is always there, asking 'play with me, i'll give your pleasure.' Know, slave, that when playing with your little thing, you draw away your focus from where it belongs. Think of yourself when you masturbate, remember how you mind narrows to the stiff flesh you are holding in your hand. Remember how all your senses collapse to a very short and very located orgasm. And remember how, once you start to masturbate, only one thought occupies your mind: 'When will be the next time, where will i do it?' And remember how fantasies are constantly building up in your mind. Maybe we can call the phallus the subself of the male being. It is not the 'completeness of body and mind' it is the 'collapse of body and mind to the phallus and its logic'.

A male inferior can make a choice in his life. he can choose to focus on his subself, making the penis the master of his life. Or he can choose to focus on his Greater Self, the Self of the Mistress he is serving. But by definition the focus can be at only one place. He cannot focus on his Mistress and his penis.

The male being who has the insight and the courage to focus on the Greater Self of his Mistress understands that he has to say farewell to easy phallic pleasures. he understands this isn't easy. he is thankful to his Mistress that he can promise Her his chastity and is grateful for Her efforts to control it. he knows his reward is a greater focus on the needs of his Mistress and the knowledge he is a real asset to her. he is proud of his chastity.

In everything i do, i must be serving My Mistress