I confess, I'm not very submissive by nature, in or out of scene -- I am a bottom, but not a "heavy" bottom (although I have been told by laughing dommes/tops that I can take quite a bit more than I think I can). I am NOT a SAM, nor a brat; although my warped sense of humor can get me into trouble, I try to be respectful, and don't play games or push buttons. I play for fun, not for keeps, and am better, by far, at sexual service than the domestic kind. I joined this site to find kindred spirits and lively conversation. I am fairly new to BDSM (about 5 years), and still somewhat amazed at my own responses and desires.