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About odetoaphrodite
You can search the world over and you will never find a person more worthy of love than you....Buddha
Brown Eyed Girl Looking For Crazy Love 46F Pagan Goddess looking for a primary partner and/or play partners and Dommes who want to co-top.
80% Domme; 20% erotic sensation bottom, not submissive-love the feel of rope & head space!
Please no married, separated (still married) or already involved men.
Foremost, I love my sisters and I would never want to intentionally or negligently cause emotional harm or engage in deceit. Therefore, if you have to engage in deceit to play or partner with me, pass on by.
PLAY PARTNERS
I am heterosexual and want a male switch or submissive as a play partner. I love my sisters and appreciate beauty in all its forms; no judgment, just no attraction either. I get off by giving pleasure and by getting it. I am not a sadist, but I will use considerable force if it is desired, necessary to get off or you are irritating me in the extreme. I prefer play partners with no back issues as I love to climb men like jungle gyms. I enjoy using Reike and energy work when I Top so chatty cathy subs who interrupt my energy flow are the least appreciated. However, groans, coos and sighs and the like are always fun and appreciated. Men come in all sizes and shapes and all body types are welcome. I’m more interested in the inner beauty of a man, less about the without. Pretty is nice, but doesn’t suffice. I love role playing, bondage, the violet wand, sensory deprivation and erotic toys of all kinds. I dig milking, and strap- on play.
There is no harm in hoping or asking, but if you are merely a play partner, I will not be engaging in sex, fellatio and cunninglingus. These are reserved for my primary partner. We nevertheless, can still have a hell of a lot of naughty fun.
PRIMARY PLAY PARTNER
Although barrier protection is a given, I, nevertheless, require that you have HIV & sexually transmitted disease panel done before engaging in sex with me. Obviously, I will provide same.
Ideally, I want an entrained crazy love relationship with the right kinky man who knows his way around the female anatomy and loves to fuck and often. I am seeking a switch or submissive. Desire Combination of: Merlin/Hermes (my magician who knows just how to mix the elements for any given recipe or spell-the right amount of intellect/action/ emotion and patience; Braveheart (love hot physical men who can get dirty & love kilts); Atticus Finch (His brilliance is only surpassed by his courageous kindness); Dalai Lama (human and Divine-striving for the high road while radiating integrity and unity); meets John Belushi and/or Chris Farley (laughter is my drug of choice and a man who can make me laugh and/or consistently bring me chocolate can be forgiven anything; favorite candy bar-Symphony Bar w/ toffee-no excuses); and last, but never least Pan (1/2 man, 1/2 animal-straight up disgusting and uninhibited in bed with a high libido (no holds [except breath play] or holes barred.) I know that you are out there. The Goddess tells me so.
I am monogamous by nature and an empath so I don’t engage in sport fucking (no judgment though). I tend to choose partners based on our energies and I don’t allow just any energy inside me. I expect as the primary partner to ultimately determine who and when you play with others. Initially, if you desire a primary relationship with me, I expect to be told in advance who you are playing with or banging. I value honesty and frankness above all else, even when same is difficult. Casual lying is a breach of trust that will be punished and not tolerated for long. I’m not trying to hide the ball. I’m an intuitive empath. Suffice it to say that when you lie, I will know and proceed accordingly even in the absence of corroborative evidence. I may not call you on the little shit, but same will erode my trust. I’m also an intuitive introvert so I need inordinate amount of alone time. I am not a demanding Domme who requires a lot of time or attention, so if you do, we will not suit.
I am a down to earth, funny tomgirl (like dresses and pumps-love the jeans) type, who loves the outdoors and nature. I would prefer a cabin in Yosemite over a 5 star room in Vegas any day (but not adverse to dressing like a showgirl -love dress up). l also love animals, plants, trees, lakes, oceans, mountains and forests. Cities are a nice place to visit, but I would not choose to live there. I am usually a kidder, laugh a lot and enjoy joking. I can be serious, but only when it is absolutely appropriate or just kind. I enjoy cooking, giving massages, flea markets, garage sales, gardening, concerts, boating, kayaking, meditating, reading, yoga, bellydancing, traveling and music. I have been reading Tarot cards for 18 years and do it privately and professionally. I am looking for a sexy, intelligent, funny man who is kindhearted, introspective and generally joyous. My spirituality is important to me and I would like to share that with a man, although not a given. I want a man who appreciates and reveres the feminine, intuition and culturally minimized intangible assets. You have to LOVE and value women and worship the Goddess in me, love my Moon as a complement to your Sun.
I tend to use the corresponding face for the corresponding emotion which requires little guess work. I don’t have a poker face so if you can’t read my displeasure, you are either visually impaired or unconcerned (which is not going to fly). Again, I am not trying to hide the ball. I am animated, direct, a Damn Yankee, and a hell of a lot of fun. I am also introverted (not shy-it is about the management of energy) so I require time alone. I love my privacy and my solitude to recharge. I do enjoy going out (but in moderation) and I am gregarious and the life of the party. An extreme extrovert, who gathers energy by always going out and seeking others and always prefers to be with others rather than alone, will not suit. I gather my energy by quiet times in nature or the like. I'm down with whatever you want to do so long as I don't have to go along every night when I need some alone time. When I am with a man who suits me, he is in no doubt that I adore him, I am liberal with my affection (yes-flaming liberal-need I elaborate) and he is the center of my attention. My turnoffs are pretentious men (yes, the man who chose the restaurant table overlooking his porsche and let me know it-1st & last date), uncontrolled displaced anger, passive/aggressive behavior and high drama. Problems, setbacks, misunderstandings, normal ranges of emotions and opportunities for forgiveness and understanding are all good and part of life.
I can fit in anywhere and with anyone. I can be comfortable and hold my own in a remote camp site with your weirdest most obnoxious friends skinny-dipping in a lake or on the congressional floor with your obnoxious pretentious friends. I do prefer nature and camping over pretense especially if you happened to be before Congress to testify (that would suck). LMAO
My spirituality is the most important part of my life, above all else. I am Pagan/Buddhist and while my primary partner need not share my beliefs, he must respect them. I see sex/making love a form, rather the highest form of prayer and/or spiritual practice. In particular, the energy and power exchange created in the sex act when male and female unify fascinates me. Much like a single negative or positive person can change the energy dynamic of a boardroom and systematically diffuse situations, there is no greater positive energy or vehicle to send forth love into the world than through entrained lovemaking. So it is the biggest magic. It is consistent with tantric practice in that it can deepen meditative states and Buddhist/Taoists used it as a fast track to enlightenment. So highly charged sexual states approximate Bliss states in meditation and if you can control them, deepen them, you can reach high spiritual states. So my interests in BDSM are many: spiritual development, pleasure, psychological fascination with the interaction of the partners in the relationship, (LOL LOL, LOVE ROPE), love the freak flag stuff, character softening and development, run of the mill oral fixation (mother stopped breast feeding too early-that is my story and I am sticking to it), libido of a 13 year-old boy (sense of humor too)...lots of reasons.
I would prefer a sub without back problems because I enjoy putting him on spanking bench ...then climbing him like a jungle gym! If you do have back problems, obviously, I will forgo doing downward facing dog on your back. Please be attractive, intelligent, and funny. I have a preference for athletic, husky men or w/ few lbs so if you have thin or runner's build, no offense, just no attraction.
I have come to adore strong submissive men. I want a very intelligent man who can hold a conversation, and is fun to be with when not playing. I worship the Goddess and expect to be treated like the Goddess I am. This means, I expect you to think of me and others, as well as, yourself. Please already know that everyone should be treated with consideration, respect and kindness. I’m watching. I honor and worship the masculine in its benevolent form only. Thus, I want a strong, confident, kind submissive man whose ego is not threatened by mere disagreement and has spent considerable time working on honing his character, not just his pecks. I would prefer a sub, who is contemplative and introspective by nature. However, I am not interested in door mats or those who are submissive to everyone without discernment.
Please also know that if I see that you are a brat, drama queen or insensitive to your primary partner, while playing with others, I am not going to want to play with you again. If you have engaged in a pattern of mean spiritedness , gossip, back biting and revenge in response to misunderstandings or even provocation, pass me by. If you enjoy posting hateful comments or mock others or engage in public battles regarding private matters, explore this brand of sadism elsewhere.
I require my subs to consider their motivations before speaking, i.e., to be right, to wound, build my ego at the expense of another, to comfort, to inform, to unite, to compliment, etc.
To partner with me, you must agree to implement the following:
Before I speak, I try to ask myself the following questions:
1) What is my motivation for saying this? ; and if it is not positive or constructive-shut up; 2) Do I know it to be true? 3) Is it kind? 4) Is it necessary? 5) How will it be received?
I am not accustomed to repeating myself and I don’t intend to become so accustomed. If I have to tell you the same thing over and over, I will find an appropriate punishment to fit the offense as I find this tedious. I may not raise my voice or sound demanding, but I expect compliance. However, if you want to be cute and find creative ways to violate the spirit of simple and easy requests, save it for another. My strongest archetype is Demeter, The Empress and Mother- www.theoi.com/Olympios/Demeter. I will not positively reinforce negative behavior, so if you want more attention or harder play you have to be articulate and verbal enough to say so without engaging in bullshit machinations. Foremost, play should always be safe and fun. If I have to repeatedly punish or socially sanction you by not playing, you will be a colossal waste of my time. I want to have fun, not adopt a 250 lb child that has to be re-parented.
I study Tantric and Taoist sexual practices and ultimately, I will be teaching sexual energy work. Accordingly, my primary partner needs to be down with that. If you have significant trust issues and run extremely jealous, I am not a good fit. I am honest to a fault and I will be playing with other men, however, sex, fellatio and cunninglingus is reserved for my primary partner or disclosed and/or agreed upon in advance.
Do let me know if you have any unusual hobbies, skills and/or interests. I am very interested in world religions so I would love to hear from you, if for example, you have accomplished any degree of Tumo meditation, train in any martial arts, know the Kabbalah, breath work, Karuna trained, Tantric master (formally educated only-no utube home instruction), read any of Mantak Chia’s books, specialized in any form of energy work, interested in the Tibetan Book of the Dead, Gene Keys, body work, I-Ching, Shamanism, divination forms, and/or Jungian Depth psychology. My interests aren’t limited to spirituality so if you ballroom dance or want to learn, love finding waterfalls or beautiful places in nature, play a musical instrument or any other interesting hobby that you have and want to share, include it with your email.
Must not hate Van Morrison or I will think you are a pinko subversive.
If you have ever had an order of protection levied against you, pass me by. Wrong girl! I don’t go to crazy town often, but I still remember the way.
Thank you for reading. Yes, I am also verbose. Sorry about the treatise.
OH, Great Hermes where is my magician, my magic man? He is a magic man Momma, he has the magic hands!
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