NYCSub1960

I have been looking for a dominant woman for sometime now to no avail. What I am looking for is simply a dominant woman that may lead to a female led relationship. In my everyday life I am just an average masculine take charge type male, but behind closed doors I long to be with a woman who is in charge and who always has the final word. Someone who will make all decisions for both of us and also as to the relationship. I may need some training since I have limited experience and fully understand that discipline is an integral part of training, but I am also not looking for a sadist that wants to beat me just for the thrill of it. I have always been attracted to strong dominant women, but have not been fortunate enough to have a relationship with one. What I am not looking for is any kind of financial arrangements. I am looking for someone who is truly into the lifestyle. Someone that is willing to teach me to be the best possible submissive I can be.