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I have always been curious about BDSM. I am not looking for 24/7 lifestyle but more of a kink behind closed doors. Picture will not be posted but can be shared if I trust you. I am reserved as I have never done this but fantasize about being spanked. I am not interested in being someone "slave", I am not interested in extreme pain, and I really do not want to be owned. I also have an opinion and if you are looking for a doormat, look elsewhere. Thank you!   So here is what I don't want: >someone 10 yrs older, so if you do the math (27+10=37) >someone that isnt old enough to drink >someone not from the SW OH / Northern KY area. So if you are more than an hour away, dont bother. >someone who is married, in a relationship, or has a submissive or whatever >someone who has no job and lives off of others >someone who doesnt have a college degree (a girl has to have standards ya know)   In a perfect scenario, I would meet a guy and have a few normal vanilla dates. We have normal conversation that revolves around work, school, life and not fetishes. If we both feel there is a chance of it working out, then we go to next step. There has to be mutual trust and attraction (Im no *insert hot actress here* but I am not hideous by any means). Essentially, I want a vanilla relationship with a kinky bedroom side. If you take the time to write, I will always write back (putting as much, or little, effort as you did). If I dont reply its because a) you were rude, b) didnt read this, c) are old enough to be my dad or d) it got lost in the myriad of emails I get and for that I am sorry.   Remember before you email, common courtesy goes a long way!

5/27/2012 8:13:03 PM Does anyone ever meet anymore? Is everything via text/chat? What a waste of time especially if one party isnt up for games... Whats wrong with face to face chat over a drink or dinner? Please do not email me unless a) you read my profile b) are in my age range give or take 2 yrs, and c) are willing to go out this week and not busy with whatever. If you are too busy to date, then you are too busy for a relationship. I do not expect (nor do I want) a guy 24/7, but at least getting together once a week is a good starting point. Thanks