Numberonecrush

Disqualifiers (aka, please don't waste our mutual time if this applies):

1. You're married and cheating. Being "the other woman" is a very, very hard limit.Consensual non monogamy is awesome!!


2. You're not remotely local. I am only interested in people near me. I strongly dislike online "D/s". I want to see you, I want to touch you, I want to play (a lot), and we can't do that online.


3. You're looking for wanking material. I will not describe in infinite detail all the things I will do to and/or for you. There's lots of free porn on the internet. I will not make you special porn for free.

That over!

My kink is really “terrible horrible no-good very bad things”. I have few limits and my answer to trying new, weird, scary things is almost always “yes” (usually “yes, goddamn me…”). I try to say “no” to as few things as possible. New experiences are important to me, and I like growing and pushing my limits. Only by being willing to say “yes” do we find things that we like that we may not have tried otherwise. And if all we say is “no” to stay comfortable, we will stagnate and remain the same. I’m quite good at throwing myself under the sub bus, as well. I’m usually the one piping up “oh I really hate that ___ thing” or “if you tighten this/tie it this way I’ll be more stuck and in trouble” or “hey yeah this ___ thing about me is something that sucks for me/something you can use against me”. I like arming my tops with all the knowledge possible about me, even if it’s embarrassing or makes me suffer more. Ultimately, by empowering them, I know that each of us will have a better time and our play will be hotter, more connected, and more powerful. I value bottoms who are willing to do the same for me- tell me what trips your switch, what you love, what you hate, what you secretly with blushing cheeks want to try.

I generally will submit to few people. It's all about feeling the drive and connection with a Dominant partner who inspires that within me. But I like to bottom for lots of people.

I also like to top sometimes. I generally am not interested in Dominating someone, but I like to hurt cute people.