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About notsquare614
I am a computer/IT professional by trade...I work with blanking lights and whirring fans. I have a college education, and I like to think I have an above average intelligence. I have played sports.
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I dated mostly vanilla girls in high school and college, and discovered by accident that I really liked being the dominant type...not a mean person...just a gentle guide to shape the relationship dynamics with an occasional rough romp in the hay...hair pulling and back scratching optional.
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Sexually, I am attracted to women that are submissive in the bedroom as well....and possibly enjoy a degree of exhibitionism, but also realize that in the professional world, there is a unspoken rule of modesty...so a person that can live their life as a princess by day, but loves coming home and being a loving sub with no qualms in sharing their bodies to please and sexually satisfy...behind bedroom doors. I have experienced a divorce, and the root of the problem was the fact that this dynamic didn't work well for her. I think the sexual act is over emphasized on sites like this, so I will say that most of the sexual energy begins between the ears.? I think most of my "play" is more geared toward behavior modification...there are always rules in a good relationship...and the pleasure part is sensual...exploring the things that are pleasurable...furry fuzzy things...fireplaces with nice hearths...and big blankets to cuddle.....romantic music...flowers...aromas....bubble baths for two...etc...but that is for the long term relationship.
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Submission as a sexual act is more an enjoyment in submitting and trusting a dominant man....whether that is in assuming a predetermined position to allow him to experience the most pleasure.....or to prepare for an evening of hedonistic abandon by bathing, painting nails, perfuming, and all those things that are going to show a commitment to pleasure with a dom. Bondage can be used to heighten the experience....rope isn't my first choice, because it usually leaves marks and can be harmful...if it is done improperly....so I would say that maybe a spreader bar/leather cuffs lined with rabbit fur or sheepskin would be a better choice....
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I have experienced a relationship with two women at the same time, and the dynamics are interesting....but I don't know if I would be interested in repeating this....it takes a submission to the dom by both....and a sharing of the sexual pleasure....which is hard for people who might feel jealous.....but I am still open to this possibility. The practical side of poly is that it is much more financially easy to do...everyone sharing the burden of living expenses...and work equity ...so if it is for a long term...it could be a path to living quietly and comfortably.....
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Some of my fetishes are exhibitionism...I love short skirts and no panties, fishnet things, lingerie, voyeurism(I love to watch others kissing-strange turnon), outdoor nudity, bondage that leaves no question as to the sexual submission....and maybe a few other things that are strange, but make me unique. I love the arts.....so ballet dancers, artists, photographers, models, and clay artists....all give an outlet to those sublimated sexual urges...when immediate satisfaction isn't an option.
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Hard Limits for me: sex between men, hypnosis, bathroom games, cutting and blood, animals, children, diapers, and cock and ball torture.
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