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Male Submissive, 51, Dubois, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 36, Columbus, Ohio
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About notsquare
I am attracted to submissive and slave type ladies...because I have always experienced true happiness in relationships with women that can honestly say they enjoy pleasuring and serving a man. The reason I am polite, respectful, and still confident, is that my parents raised me to treat women with respect....and they must have something that works...since they are still together after 40 years. There is something about the dynamic dominant male/submissive female...and it seems to work.
Physically I am tall, with brunette dark hair that lightens with sun...and sometimes a neatly trimmed goatee...I've been told that I have an athletic build...my butt and legs are a little thick from years of biking and running. I love to stay in shape...and will resort to swimming laps at the local Y whenever I get the chance, and eating low carb foods. Being healthy is important...and I like to keep life easy and stress free...and a household based on that is probably going to work out. I have to say, it is more fulfilling coming home to a person that is fulfilled in doing this for her family. I don't have a problem with children, my family is very strong in childraising and education.
My interests are much more geared to a submitting of a person to a way of life than dominating...I can be dominant...I know what I like to see done as a household...and it doesn't necessarily involve sex. I do have a small sadistic streak...but I think it is more an urge to appreciate predicaments....bondage seems to bring out the best sort of scenes...and I have to say I laugh inwardly when I see a sub for the first time realizing she likes being exposed and vulnerable...most of the research on interpersonal dynamics with male/female relationships indicate that most females inwardly desires to feel this helplessness...if nothing else than to explore the submission and trust a guy like me lives for:)
My kinks like most dominants, are usually involved in some sort of visual stimulation...the visual of a loving sub cheerfully clanking pots and doing dishes in the kitchen in a French maid outfit gets my motor running:) I do like lingerie, and fuzzy cuffs..blindfolds...and maybe more...I like to keep it classy until it gets behind closed doors...I don't have a problem dating an exhibitionist...but I think some things are better behind closed doors...at least initially:)
I am curious about bifemales...I don't have a problem with a poly type play...most girls are socialized to enjoy being part of a group...and the experience of submission is one of those things that I have found can be enjoyed without any pressure for anything else than a few knots or cuffs...and maybe some giggling. Females that want to express their affection toward each other isn't a bad thing...just no drama....noone "owns" anyone" and can come and go as they please and pick and choose their life experiences.
I think things can always be fun, and most of my hardlimits are in the realm of what I consider reasonable...I am not interested in cutting/bloodletting/needle play...I just don't enjoy this. I also don't use anything that will leave permanent marking/bruising...I don't think a barehanded spank is the same as a cat-o'nine tails...so I am more the sensual gentle daddy dom than the abusive jerk that seems to go with the territory. I do have a background in training and behavior mod...but I am not into hypnosis or doing anything to someone without their consent...I like to be "task" oriented....and I am known for my behavioral schedules and reinforcement ideas...if you are interested in exploring this route.
Thank-you for checking out my interests...and if you think we might be a good match, I 'd love to hear from you....
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I am currently working on research for a novel that I am planning on writing for a writing contest in November...called NaMoWriMo. It is a nationwide contest of all age groups and I have chosen to write a 50,000 word novel based on my past experiences in relationships...I think most people are trying to imitate the 50 Shades of Gray Trilogy...but I think it is refreshing to view things more as a lifestyle...a couple that has been married for 50 years that also based their relationship on the traditional male-led relationship...that might involve some experimentation or exploration to keep things refreshing and exciting.
I am thinking of ideas for the different chapters...I hope to average at least 2000 words a day during the week..and maybe push the average up to 5000 words on the weekends...to complete the contest. My idea is to start with an introduction of the characters and the setting in the first chapter....and then go back to flashbacks from their younger lives....when they first met....how they knew they were well-matched. Then, the submissive/dom dynamic...subtle but still there, is going to be woven into the theme of the writing...I hope I can pull this off...and I am always looking for noncommittal conversations from the opposite sex on ideas from their perspective....and I usually bribe people with coffee and treats at public places like McDonald's or Tim Horton's:) |
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