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Male Dominant, 23, West Sussex
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Male Dominant, 24, Surrey
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About NonSadisticDom
Addendum:
Looks like I need to explain the NonSadisticDom tag. Sadism is the need to inflict pain for my own pleasure. This is not true, pain is a tool, a device used to facilitate the reaction and needs I have at the time. Pain is used, but not for pains sake. I expect to receive the control and power I feel from it. It is not the goal, it is the tool I use to express emotion, utilise control or arbitrarily punish.
If being seen and used as a sex object the your of the wrong mind-set. Objectification is not negative. Being an object means your owned, belonging too and that should be something your eager to embrace. You should love the status of sex object, feel wanted and needed when your objectified and really feel secure by the fact that I want you to be mine.
Bondage and punishment is not simply a means to sexual perversion or some form of sexual game. It is also a state of mind and a means of control and physical play that does not get turned off. It is not always serious, but it is always controlled and something that exists to enhance and increase levels of control and mental subjugation. It is not a switch to enable the sub to become submissive, it is a means of allowing her to go deeper into submission. This is something a lot don't get and think submission is switched on by an act or deed that is physical in nature. Full time submissive (I hesitate to use 24/7) know that they are always submissive and do not become submissive through a specific act. Just as I as your dominant don't sudden become dominant, I simply am and expect you to not only recognise my superiority but also my authority to act and take what I wish, when and how I wish.
I'm looking for someone experienced, confident and self assured. Someone with knowledge of herself and an ability to express her needs in the proper way. If your shy, self absorbed or incapable of a level of servile submission that goes beyond just games and into real "deep" and total control then I can't handle you. I get angry and frustrated with the player and I do expect you to start and continue with the knowledge that your a thing of entertainment, please and gratification for a man. If you understand that then perhaps you can create the interest that will lead to long-term, because that's what I'd like to find if - but only if you've demonstrate a complete lack of personal agenda or expectation of setting terms. In the mean time I'm here to get what I need and I want to meet not just talk about this... So, flesh on offer, heart emboldened and submission very much on display?
WARNING..this site or any of it 's associate sites for studies, projects or anything else- You do not have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. |
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