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no1special85

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Female Submissive, 26
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About no1special85


I have found someone who may well be my 'lobster' (and bonus points to you if you get that reference). I'm keeping this profile up as sort of a place-holder at this point. Still, I may drop by from time to time to check things out.

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Why don't I have a picture up? Rest assured, while I am no supermodel (hey, I actually have hips!) I fall well within modern society's conventions of beauty. Am I your 'type' physically? IDK. But I'd rather get to know someone via who I am first then let appearances fall as they will.

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Your ideal submissive is nude and kneeling before you, her long, thick hair hanging down and obscuring her face.

In front of her is a pile of rope...

... or leather straps...

... or rolls of duct tape...

... or other binding medium of your choice...

Tell me what you'd do.

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I am a submissive, not a doormat.

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I am looking for a LTR, and am more straight than bi. I'm looking for someone I can call Master. Occasional play with a Domme is appealing, but not what I am looking for just now. Unless you just want to chat! I've met some very nice Dommes here, really...

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I don't want to define myself by my limits, but there are a few that I should mention. I don't care to wear any exotic footwear and I'm not especially keen on anal. If either of these are on your "top three" list, then I'm probably not the sub for you.

I am also not interested in "Daddy Doms." I've tried it and found it to not be for me.

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I am looking for a LTR with 24/7 TPE. I am not simply looking for a playmate. If you don't already have some experience with a live-in submissive then I'm probably not the one for you.

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I am not interested in joining a couple or a poly household at this time.

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It is simply not possible for me to give a response to even every decent message I receive here, and for that I sincerely apologize (to the indecent messages, I am only too happy to tell you, "Go to hell"). I do read all of them however.

All I can say is that, if I didn't respond to your initial message, then I thought that you weren't right for me for whatever reason. Please move onto the next profile. I am not all that special that I deserve all of the repeated messages, and it probably won't help your case anyway.
Online late and nobody to chat with. I guess I'm the only night owl on here. *Sigh*
Had a serious safeword issue yesterday. Red means red... STOP... not 'slow down.' It makes me wonder just how capable this Dom really is. It wasn't unrecoverable, but it bothers me a lot when any Dom can't be counted on to listen to his sub, especially in the beginning of the relationship.
Well, I've met someone and it seems as if it could become relatively serious.

So if I'm not on here as much as I was, or am not chatting with you when I was chatting with you before, or you suddenly see my profile disappear, it's nothing sinister or mysterious, okay?

So long as my profile is still up, however, I will be attempting to communicate with people as much as possible.
If you're really, really good with shibari-style ropework and are looking for someone to practice on this weekend, please contact me. I am feeling all antsy and am looking for a *serious* tie-up.

No posers or amateurs please. I am looking for someone who *really* knows their ropes! Please send photos of your work along with your message.
I realize that a many of the guys here on CM may have a relative dearth of experience with women, so let me give you a few basic tips:

Calling me a "bitch" or a "slut," or telling me that you want to "rape me," or tie me up and have your friends "gang bang me," well, that might not be the best thing to say in an initial contact.

Sure, those may be elements of play that will be introduced into any D/s relationship later, but maybe try something else until you get to know me a bit better.

I do respond well to offers of chocolate and flowers.
I was just told that I am a "scum-sucking, mother-fucking scammer" and that I should "crawl back into the shit-infested hole" that I crawled out of.

Just thought that anyone considering messaging me should know that.
To answer the questions I keep receiving, no, that is not me in the pics, but I do have permission to use them. They are simply images that I find appealing and that I feel are representative of me.

I decided against pics of me as most of what I received at my last profile were comments on my pics.


I don't know what I find more amusing: The number of "Doms" here who can't follow instructions, or the ones who can't and have the nerve to continue to message me wondering why I haven't responded to their repeated emails.

Seriously, if you can't be bothered to do what I'm asking here, why should I think you'd listen to my safeword?
The chat feature doesn't seem to work consistently for me. So if you've sent me a chat request and I haven't responded, maybe try again later? I've been trying to respond to all of the ones I've been receiving.

One of the most enjoyable bondage sessions I've ever had was really one of the simplest ones.

My Dom at the time was an older gentleman, married to a vanilla wife with whom he had an "understanding" Occasionally he'd have the use of a friend's house and I'd go up for a long weekend.

One evening he tied me up in a very elaborate and secure rope bondage, but no hogtie or anything, just my arms secured behind me and my legs and ankles tied together. I was blindfolded, and he even tied my toes together, which I really liked.

Then he sat me down in the recliner, one with the handle on the side to lean it back. After doing so he told me to come upstairs when I was ready and left, saying that I shouldn't take too long or he might get bored and masturbate.

I struggled like crazy, and I really enjoy doing that, and I couldn't get loose, because he was very good. After a little while I decided that I would just need to get upstairs without getting loose.

Fortunately, the blindfold was just a silk scarf so that wasn't *too* difficult to get off. But I couldn't get out of the chair! I finally had to sort of roll/fall out of the damned thing... I was glad that they had thick carpets!

Then I sort of wriggled over to the stairs and worked my way up on my butt. Pushing myself up one stair and sat on it, then the next. It was very hard. I was glad I wasn't gagged, as I was really out of breath by he time I got to the top.

I wanted to stand up and hop but, since my toes were tied together, I couldn't maintain my balance very well. So I had to wriggle all the way down the hall. And they had hardwood floors upstairs, and they were very dusty. Bleah.

I finally got to the room, and he was sitting there reading a book, with a raging erection. He just ignored me, so I had to wriggle up onto the bed and give him a blowjob.

At that point I was really, really horny, so I played the "my hands are tingly" card and he untied me. Now I wish I'd had him keep me tied up... they weren't really that tingly.

We only played one more time after that, but this one has always stuck in my mind.

Not many of the Doms who've messaged me seem able to follow instructions. Of those who can, even fewer have anything even vaguely resembling an imagination.

Being a Dom doesn't mean you get to do nothing but indulge your sweaty, masturbatory fantasies. It also means that you've got to indulge me in mine.
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