NihilEternal

SHAMELESS SELF-PROMOTION:
I am an open-minded and compassionate explorer, consistently seeking to evolve and improve myself; socially, emotionally, professionally, intellectually, spiritually, sexually and romantically.
How can one be easily pigeon-holed? I am both masculine and sensitive, creative and rational, assertive and receptive, serious and playful, profound and absurd, simple and intricate, literal and poetic, mountain-man and street-smart, meek and outspoken, active and still, independent and inter-connected, plain and exceptional, quiet and communicative, spiritual and grounded ....

I was born on The Day of Sensual Charisma. I've been told by a few ex-girlfriends that I have essentially 'ruined them', in the good way. That sex with others will never compare to what we had. Intense energy and playfulness, yet very mature, with experience and forged skills. IQ of 145, and fairly educated, with a degree in Human Physiology. (So I DO know how to find a Clitoris and a G-Spot;) I LOVE a sense of humor.
But there's much more to being Alpha than brains. It's both Nature and Nurture. I'm told I have a calming affect. I am Attractive in the true sense of the word. I am Far From the best looking guy, but if we meet, you'll see that my pleasing appearance isn't what's really Attractive; I'm told it's a certain Erotic Charm.
Physically, I am Capable, Clean, Hygienic, Fit and Healthy in Both Body & Mind, thus Free of STDs and mental illness. . I Neither Smoke nor do I indulge in Drugs. I respect an individual's choices, as long as they do it responsibly.
I am a respected professional, and live with my dog, in a Cool and Private House in downtown Royal Oak, and I am Totally Single and Available. I have Never been married, and I do Not have any children.
[My "Self-Promotion" may sound crass, or as though I am arrogant or snobby. That is not the type of person that I am, nor the type I am attracted to. I am attempting to covey some of my attributes that might interest you. It is promotion. I know that I am NOT better than anyone else. We are all just different. I mention that I'm smart because it's a part of who I am, not that it makes me a better person, but because it makes me a better match for certain individuals. I value a sense of humility, gratitude, simplicity and down-to-earth. I appreciate any feedback or questions. Thank you :]

**Dominant, Submissive, or Switch:
I have chosen the title of Dominant on this site, rather than Switch because that is generally what I am interested in, and because, quite frankly, I embraced submitted to a Domme that merely acted more dominant than myself. It's only only fun for short bursts. However, I feel that fundamentally I am always trying to please my partner, whether I am exerting my natural dominance, or my submissiveness, ultimately the play should Transcend those titles. We are actually a YIN & YANG. Visualize this symbol: Where does one end, and the other begin? Both feeding off of each others' energy, responding to each other's verbal and non-verbal queues.It is as though we are dancing, and at some point the Leader becomes the Follower, and Follower becomes the Leader, until there is no Leader or Follower, and We are simply left with the Dance.
I began my exploration of B & D 10 Years Ago, with Dom/sub Role-Play as a Submissive, and It Changed My Life!
If you're an Alpha-Female, I am willing to be the submissive. However, unless we are in a serious, romantic relationship, I don't think I would play both, or switch with you. I may be the corporal, or the General, but I can't just switch on command. It's not "acting", nor pretend, nor "playing a role", as in a theatrical performance. It's who we are, our Innate, Human Drive for Order, for an Inter-Personal Higher-Achy. Some believe that an individual has to be one thing, or the other. To me that sounds like a shallow existence, overly-simplified, compared to my experience of life.

YOU:
I would hope that she would: Surprise, Challenge, Enhance, Compliment, Augment, Teach, Fascinate, Stimulate, Accept, Love and Desire Me. A woman that is both mature and playful, has her priorities in place, yet is still learning. She should care about herself, but not take herself too seriously. Paramount that she be Intelligent (education does not equate intelligence), Funny, Warm, Compassionate, with some sense of Humility and Gratitude.I am attracted to Women with a Balance of Yin & Yang. Certainly, she will be Beautiful in her own way, and if she is proactive and messages me first, that might be useful.

I am only interested in REAL LIFE RELATIONSHIPS. Besides simple, friendly conversation with those too far to travel; Our correspondence is designed to determine our compatibility and to arrange to Meet In-Person. If you're into rubbin' one out in front of your computer (*Yawn* Boring!) Seek stimulating Chats elsewhere.

+ I am a Trained and Skilled Masseur, I prefer Swedish and Deep-Tissue Massage, coupled with more subtle Energy Work. I do not choose to make my living from massage, but only perform them for Friends. If you are interested, please just let me know.