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| Hey all, I'm Nicole, 23 year old newbie. I have had a passive interest in BDSM and the whole lifestyle in general since my early teen years. Actively pursuing anything within the lifestyle is completely new. Some consider me a brat. Well if I am a brat just because I know enough about myself to know what I like, what I'm looking for, what I don't like and what I'm not even open to consider, then so be it, I'm a brat then.
I haven't decided whether I am looking for a more D/s experience or whether I like the idea of th S/m side better. I am definately a masochistic painslut. Pain, the sensation alone and the pleasure I am capable of turning it into, is far too important to me to turn away from.
I am looking for friends in the lifestyle. I am looking for play partners. I am looking for the possibility of something more long term. What I find will be contingent upon the person and their wants. Nothing in life works well without some form of compatibility so compatibility, as both, two people together and the interests we have, is important.
If you don't know what you're doing, have no confidence in what you do, are not responsible and accountable for all actions you make in life, or if you don't have the compassion that is needed to maintain this type of relationship or compassion that is needed to follow the pain you inflict, you are not what I am looking for. I want someone who has experience enough to know what they are doing, confidence enough to know that they are good at what they do(confidence is important), and enough common sense to know that compassion following your actions and compassion towards your partner does not make you weak or mean you have soft hand. Most of this is going to be the basis for trust, I don't know about anyone else, but I require some form of trust before I can ever do anything. And I expect the same from you, know that trust is key and be willing to to trust me as well.
While appearance is far from everything, I have always been attracted to the bigger guys. Taller is also a bonus. I have no qualms befriending those who are older than me, but that's as far as that will go. I can't really justify to myself that playing with someone my parents age is something I will be ok with. Not trying to knock those in the middle age range, but I just can't do it. With that, age play, is not my thing, nor the Daddy/little girl roles. I would like those who are interested to be in the 22-35 age bracket. As I said before, I will gladly befriend those who are older or younger.
Feel free to send me a message, always looking to meet new people with shared interests.
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