I am a very clean cut professional male that is well educated and well traveled, I am also safe and sane, D&D free and expect the same.

I have been in the lifestyle for a number of years now, not that I live it day in day out like some claim to do, but I am very experienced when it comes to a D/s relationship.

Why am I not into it everyday, well we all have our normal life too, which frankly I try to enjoy to the fullest. That is why my ideal sub would want a little more than just D/s lifestyle in the bedroom. I want a sub whom I can take out for dinner or catch a movie with, of course I will still work some D/s control into those meetings, after all you will always be my sub, but you must also have a mind of your own.

There is more to a D/s relationship that just restraining you and spanking your butt, fun though all the same. I prefer to also control a subs mind, have her not really knowing what is coming next, always a little on edge wondering what her Master will have her do next, or what I will surprise her with. In a true D/s relationship, mental control is as much of it as physical control.