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Male Switch, 27, Southeast, Illinois

Female Submissive, 34, Allentown, Pennsylvania

Male Submissive, 32, shrewsbury

This is my personal point of view on respect and I have to explain by using examples. Just recently I was talking to a Dom on here. He asked me to call him Sir. I am perfectly fine with that. I have no problem calling any man that asks me Sir. I personally wait for a Dom to ask me to call him Sir because that starts a little line of respect between the two people. It is respectful and I was taught to give a certain amount of respect to people in general. For example saying yes and no Sir/Ma'am, holding a door open for someone, helping an elderly person. These are examples of things that I try to do as often as I can because I would like someone to think even for a second that I made their lives a little easier. I am still talking to this Dom and we had done most of our talking in a 24 hour time frame. So I didnt really know the guy well to say the least. I didnt even know if he was being honest with me. I hadnt seen a pic of him or anything. It felt like he was being honest with me. But i dont always rely on my feelings because they can get me in trouble. I start talking to another Dom who was being an absolute jerk to me. And I tell this first Dom that I am talking to another Dom. At that point he decided to demand that I only talk to him when I am talking to him. I ended up waiting alittle while and thinking about the conversation. And then I go and leave him a message just saying that I am not interested in him anymore. Then i click delete or ignore. I have no problem clicking ignore, because I believe that if any man just has to demand respect from me like that then I will not want them to be my Master.? I am looking for a r/l time 24/7 slave relationship. Meaning that I am looking for someone who can dominate me mentally,emotionally, and physically. And we all know that this takes time. So many people on here are just looking for a hook up. This is not cool, woman need a man who can take things slow when necessary. This is the online world and most of messages people send are just going to waste your time. Im asking both men and women please try to be respectful. When your talking to someone you dont know what kind of things they are going thru in their life. Make sure that you realize respect is earned. I know that the easiest way for someone to earn my respect is by being completely honest with me. By telling good things about their life as well as the bad things and the mistakes. I dont want a Dom who cant admit and tell me how he is wrong sometimes.? Everyone makes mistakes and everyone is wrong at some point in their life. Respect is not a double standard. Dominants dont deserve more respect than submissives do. We are all people. Please try not to ask for or demand more respect than you deserve. Im writing because Im hoping that seeing things in a different perspective might help people realize or learn a thing or two.

Thursday December 31, 2009 Today I want to reflect upon submission and how that I know I am a sub. I know that I am a sub because in my heart I truly want to serve. I want to bend down at a mans feet and give him whatever he needs wants or desires. I want to show him respect. I want to love and cherish. I want to be the one he relies on and comes home from work and complains to. I want to be the one who fills his cup. I want to share my most intimate feelings, the most important parts of myself and see him share himself. I want to see the look in his face when he sees that I?ve done well or done something hard. I want this to be in my real life.? And things can be tough. But when you have each other and when you are in your roles the most. I think it would be so thrilling! I cant wait to find out for myself. I want someone who supports me and the things I do with my life. I know that I would support him. I want to love and trust and respect. I want to be happy. Something else I want to do is have better speech. I know that I say umm a lot when I cant think of anything to say. I want to stop doing that. No one is perfect and I cant be a perfect slave/sub (that might get boring anyway) but I can do my darndest to be all that he wants me to be. To bring his food to him and smile and say here?s your food Master. To sit at his feet and show him that I am there for him when he needs me. To constantly think about someone else?s needs instead of my own. To please him and not expect anything in return. To see pure happiness in his face his smile? and in his eyes. To wear a collar day in and day out. Knowing that I am his one and only. Knowing that I am important and special in his life. To dress how he sees fit. To do as he sees fit, knowing that he has my best interests at heart. Knowing that we are bound together by chain, by rope, by whip, by all the tools and toys that we use. Knowing that hes putting both of us on his shoulders, knowing that he wants to because he respects me and cares for me and wants all that is best for us. How special this type of relationship is. How moving it is deep down in my darkest places, deep down in? my soul. With all that I have been thru in the past. How is it not wonderful that I want to stand up on top of a mountain and shout to everyone. I am submissive!

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