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Male Submissive, 23, London
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Female Submissive, 33, Baltimore, Maryland
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Male Switch, 38, el paso, Texas
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About NewShoes
Wave hello if you're smilen' when you're done reading my profile and "journal":)
There is a style I like in the girl I'm looking to meet. I know it when I see it and I've been getting pretty good at reading it.
At sixty-fucking-one with no kids and never been married, am I picky?
You bet your ass I am:)
I want to meet a girl whose eyes sparkle more than her nail polish. So, No frosted nails. There must be a reason why in the current Cosmo there isn't one photo/ad where a woman is wearing that frosted junk!!!
Also, no glamour shot photos!!
I would rather see a photo of you getting out of bed in the morning than a glamour shot. Unless you wake up looking like a glamour shot!
I like a Natural Woman!
Where is Aretha? (smiles)
A thought on relationships;
From what I can tell most women look to find a Dom/Master to fit the lifestyle first. I think a bond of friendship should be first and then try to blend in the lifestyle.
I believe that personality is still the number one factor in looking for a sub/slave/partner. So just like a vanilla relationship, I'm going to look for a woman that I'm compatible with on a personal/emotional/mental level and then try to blend in the wants and needs of the lifestyle that WE would be looking to achieve.
I love all types of BDSM, and my interests are pretty flexible. In other words: As long as you are perverted and playful in someway, we'll probably be able to hit it off.
Personally I don't think it really matters if we have any/many common interests as long as WE get along together!!
I probably couldn't care less about (as an example) the art exhibit you want us to go.
But if WE like each other, then we will have a good time because of the fondness towards each other.
And hopefully you wouldn't have to be handcuffed when I want us to go to a ballgame:)
So here are some things I would like to know~~~
1) Where and when was the last time you played footzies?:)
2) Fred or Vicki?
3) How tall are you on your knees?:)
4) If I was trying on some jeans in a dressing room. Would you be out smelling the perfume or be checking my inseam?
5) If you found a $100 bill today, would you go shopping for new shoes or new toys?
6) If we were in the check-out line at the market and I said, "we forgot the whipped cream." What would you do/say?:)
She said she stole this line from somebody and I stole it from her because it rings so true!!!
"Do not make someone a priority if they keep you as an option."
Hell I stole this one too:)
"Fashion can be bought, Style must be possessed!" |
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There are a couple of things that the checklists here are missing (smoking, kids and age range). About smoking, since there isn't a place to check one way or another, you should add a line in your profile if you smoke or not. Along with if you do or don't want to meet someone who smokes. As a light smoker myself (I've switched to E-Cigarettes), It would save me a few emails if I knew smoking was a deal breaker to you.
Also, there isn't a place to click if you have children. This is something else you should add to your profile. Kids are deal breakers to many people of both sexes. So just a simple line that you're a full time parent would be enough. At my age I'm searching for a long term relationship with someone who doesn't have any children still at home.
Finally, you should list the age range that you're looking for in a partner. Most people search for traits that match. I look to narrow down the choices by learning about deal breakers right away.
There just isn't any reason for me to flirt with you if we can't smooch on the sofa because of my smoking and your kids:)
Now those three items (smoking, kids and age range) are things that everybody needs to know about you before even discussing your bdsm interests!! So take a moment and add those answers to your profile!! |
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To me this stuff just makes no sense!!! Women who write in their profile "no game players" or something like that!!! Geesshh...like the guys who are "players" are gonna say "nope can't contact that girl.":) C'monnnnn!!! If anything, alerting the "player" just makes him put his game face on so you won't know he is playing you!!!
Hahah and I just read where a woman said, "If you are fake, don't email me." Yap that's the kind of warning that will scare off the players:)
Along those same lines, why would you mention in your profile that you don't want somebody to send you cock shots? Seems to me that is the quickest way to learn that the sender is an hng and can be blocked immediately:)
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It's just amazing how many women will reply to an email but have NOT read the senders (my) profile first!!! Haha it's one thing for an HNG to fire off an email without reading a profile but to reply in a positive manner without looking is goofy to me:)
Why do so many women bitch about the number of emails they receive? This site has "email controls" that lets you set the age range you're looking for along with a number of other filters.
If I know this, why don't you? :)
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I asked this girl why she listed "romance novels" as a Hard Limit.
She said, "simply because I read so many of them when I was young."
Then she added another drawback from reading too many romance novels, "I still have a problem calling IT a "cock" rather than "pulsating manhood" or "glistening rod."
Now that is funny!!!! |
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Ally McBeal: Do you think I'm nuts?
Whipper: No. But I'm not sure you have two feet on the ground either.
Ally: You mean some people do??? |
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So you'd like to be "Shaken and Stirred, Taken and Sir'd." |
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If it looks like I'm online here all day, well that's because I play poker online and keep a CM window open.
What kind of stakes would you like to play for?:) |
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