newguy2dc4u

Where to begin...

St. Patty's day (luck of the Irish?) I met someone here on CM (offline). We had talked for many hours the day before and it was truly an engaging conversation.  Tenuous meeting perhaps for both parties given the possibilities of you know - crazy people - but none the less  something I was looking forward to.  Her pictures were stunning, her voice sweet and fun, and though she is very new her desire to learn meant her experiences/knowledge were not a barrier.  Now I have met people online for years - from various websites and with varied degrees of success.  I know we are all on here to find something, and many have, but actually though I've been a part of this community for a long time I have never used this site so successfully.  From the moment I saw her I was smiling.  She was even more beautiful in person (and yes to those who think you can't feel this way about a sub/slave - you can!). 

Needless to say I think she is a groovy chick [;)].  Life is complicated, and this is new, but in over a week I haven't gone a day without thinking of her even when we aren't around. We continue to make the efforts needed at the foundational base of any relationship and she has proven to be a wonderful sexual partner and my little deviant.  We have done things together I have never done before, and she has gotten the opportunity to explore.  There is sooooooooo much more for us ahead. But it has been a wonderful start.  A bit of a honeymoon phase - yes, that is likely - but sometimes, just sometimes you see something in a person that you've been searching for in another soul for a long time.  This lifestyle can be extreme, the love can be taken out of it at times, hell for some partnerships and D/s relationships that is even necessary or desired. I understand that. And while I don't condone absolute violence or rape etc I do understand that this lifestyle doesn't always lend itself to the softer sides of humanity. It's hard for some people to meld or even want to the concept of - I adore this person and I want to treat them like a cum slut.  Needless to say I have had extreme relationships and vanilla ones. This has started off very nicely with aspects of both.  She isn't just beautiful, she is sexy. She isn't just fun, she puts me at ease. She isn't just submissive, she is my submissive.

More to come...but for now...I adore you Kitten.

I have met someone that has my interest and I am focusing my energy and efforts in that direction. I wish you all luck.