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Dominant Couple, 41, Tucson, Arizona
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Male Dominant, 45
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About NewDomInKS
First off, let Me start off by apologizing to all the subs that get contacted by disrespectful Doms. Just because you're submissive doesn't mean you don't deserve respect. On the contrary, you deserve an incredible amount of respect and appreciation for giving the gift of your service and yourself to your Dom. You must be worthy of Him but He must also be worthy and deserving of you. And so to the sick, twisted assholes that email subs and don't respect hard limits on subs' profiles or who manipulate them and treat them bad, or worse - fuck you selfish mother fuckers.
Sorry about the rant and My language but as I've started talking to subs I've heard a few things that have upset Me. As I've been talking, while I'm interested in experimenting with all aspects of BDSM, I know I could never be a true Pain Master or a Dom that degrades and humiliates a sub even if she wanted that. While I could try if that's what she wanted and said she needed, I have too much empathy and caring for My sub to really enjoy those things. I, by nature, am more of a Daddy Dom. Not that I'm into age play but that I fit into the Daddy role well as a protector and caregiver. I want to take care of my sub/slave as much as she takes care of Me and be someone that can make her feel safe. I'm very protective by nature and the way I treat submissives is a reflection of that.
I want someone that can have the complete trust and respect in Me that a good D/s relationship needs. I am worthy of that trust and respect and will earn it by being who I am, and not be someone who demands or forces submission. Submission is a gift and I want to be worthy of receiving that gift. I want someone that is willing to give herself to Me heart, mind, body and soul and for her to know that she can trust Me to take care of her and give her what she needs.
Ultimately I would like to have a LTR with a slave in a TPE M/s relationship. Although she would be collared as my slave, she would also need to be strong enough to be my partner in all aspects of life. There may even be a point where we would co-Dom another as a Dom/Switch couple in which she only subs to Me. It's hard to say how it will turn out but I know that I will find a sub that is worthy of Me someday. And once I find her, I will
Until I find "the one" right slave, I don't have a desire to "collect" subs/slaves and especially don't want to Dom unless I can see my sub face-to-face so if you are halfway across the country it's just not going to work. And while I may prefer something long term, until that happens I am here to experiment and discover myself. I am protective and safety is a priority in all play, but I do have a bit of a dark side as well. As the Chili Peppers said, "I like pleasure spiked with pain". That doesn't mean that I need to cause pain to every partner or every time I play. I enjoy giving pleasure more than the pain...very much so.
I don't profess to 'know' how to do anything I don't have experience with but I want to keep learning and trying new things. If I decide this is for Me and I want to keep pursuing my Dominant desires I will probably want to get involved in the local BDSM community and learn from those with the knowledge and experience I don't have. I would like to have a partner that wants to learn and explore with Me.
And I don't have pics on here for multiple reasons, including things like career, custody and wanting to remain electable. If I have contacted you and forgot to include some kind of pic, just ask. If you are contacting Me and don't have any posted, please include one. I'm not here to collect pictures of hot, naked subs (not that I wouldn't enjoy seeing you naked) but I would rather see your face and something that reveals more of who you are.
If you have any questions for me just ask and I'm sure I'll answer. |
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