((It pains me to have to do this, but since it is apparent many people do not read profiles here it seems I have to. I am not looking to be a slave, hence I am listed as Switch. Since I have a family I am not looking to move in with you. I do not want CBT, I do not want to be hairy, I want friends or playmates only.))

Pictures to be added soon.

For fifteen years now I have identified as dominant in different capacities of the term. But the last while I have been feeling different needs, different wants. I have been wanting to be more submissive, I have been wanting to be more feminine.

Recently I have started cross dressing, and I am very open to this. I do not know if I am passable or not but I have worn my clothes in public. I am very new to this, while I have been with men before I was always the dominant one and now I want to change that.

I am engaged and I live in a poly household. I have my fiancee and I have a girlfriend as well, both of them are aware of this new transition in my life and are supporting me in this.

I am seeking a male between 21 and 55 close to my area that is available for play sessions. Due to having a child if I am to host it will have to be late at night and there could be no overnight stays. Otherwise I can travel but not far, unfortunately I am between jobs at the moment so money is tight.

I need someone who is understanding that this is a big transition for me, that I am new to being submissive. Someone who will take the time with me and help me learn how to please them. I have started anal training and it is going well, I have moved past the anal training kit to some decent sized toys now, but my gag reflex is unfortunately still here, though I am trying to get past it.

I feel the need here to add that while I am no genius I do like to think I have some basic grasp of the English language and it would make it much more likely that we will get along if you do as well. Please, no text speak. No letters instead of words. Don't say u r cool. Say you are cool, or whatever. If you get my point we will be fine, if you don't, please move along.

Please if you have a desire to be my friend or to help me on my journey, send ,me a message. I would love to here from you.

p.s. I would also be very happy to form friendships with those that are not Dominant with the chance of the relationships becoming a play partner type situation. All I know for sure is this is something I have to spend time on and ease into.