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Male Submissive, 26, Poughkeepsie, New York
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Male Submissive, 31, Las Vegas, Nevada
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Male Submissive, 38, Cincinnati, Ohio
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About Newbiecpl
5/32/24 update: the female half of this couple clarified that she does not wish to be involved with anyone else but me in real life. Im not exactly sure what that means for us as a sub sub couple but i wanted to let others know. i don't want to waste anyone's time if they are looking for real time meets for service. I apologize for any inconvenience. I may end up closing this account. We will see.
So much to write here. Too much to write. I'll leave much of it for later conversations with those that are interested in learning more about us.
This is the male half creating this profile. I will also be the one chatting and answering (hopefully) messages inquiring about us. I have been interested in BDSM for almost 40 years. No, that is not a typo. I never had the courage to pursue it in my dating years and I married the love of my life without ever partaking. We lived a vanilla life as I satisfied my interest in BDSM with fantasy until recently. I FINALLY opened up and shared everything with her. It was touch and go for a bit. Ultimately, she decided to give it a try with me.
Who knew that implimenting BDSM into your vanilla marriage of 20 years wouldn't be as easy as fantasizing about it?!?!
So we tried her in charge of play. We're now on to me being in charge. I KNOW I am a natural submissive. I do enjoy some aspects of being in charge of a scene but that revolves around bondage, tease and denial and being in control of delightful orgasms for her. She may at some point develop into a Dominant, which she has expressed interest in, but she seems to be enjoying the submissive role so far. We are all over the place!
i'm not ever sure what exactly we're seeking here. It could be advice. It could be a mentor. It could be us serving as a submissive couple. I would LOVE the latter because i feel like that would be the best fit for us. I think we will both remain within the submissive role. However, she would be very hesitent to do that without some guarantees. And even then, she might just refuse to allow it.
Any advice/guidance/help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading.
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Hello, a suggestion was made that we clarify our currect dynamic.
Domme/sub - she has been receiving guidance and advice from several Dominants we met here. |
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