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About nannerpuddin
I'm an old hat at this thing that we do now. Stop by and say hello! I'm open to a friendly chat, philosophical pondering of the meaning of kink, the psychology of different dynamics, or the technical aspects of different types of play! Sorry, though, I'm not looking for a playmate in realtime or online. I have a dynamite partner who provides for all my kinky needs! What I AM looking for are people who'd like to find toys that are unique, well made and easy to own. My partner and I made all the toys and jewelry pictured in my profile :) I'd love to hear your thoughts and feedback! If you'd like to learn more about how to have one of our creations as your very own, see the sidebar, then go to:
- Message Boards
- Scroll Down to Marketplace
- Click on Artisans
Or go straight to our etsy shop, WelshmansUpcycleKink, https://www.etsy.com/shop/WelshmansUpcycleKink And there you'll see BDSM jewelry, paddles, floggers, bit gags and hog ties. I even have a sissy maid's tray there!! Into pet play? There's a unique slapper just for you :) Have a great kinky day! |
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Does anyone else have trouble sending or receiving messages here? Sometimes this site seems glitchy to me. Have you had similar experiences? |
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Having a great vanilla day in the garden! I'm planting climbing butterbeans and Lady Godiva pumpkins for the fall. I hope you're enjoying this beautiful NC day as much as me, all you local kinksters! |
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Insert bathroom mirror selfie here.
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We're looking forward to our first real life kinky vending event on the 28th. It's a Special Olympics Athlete Fundraiser. I think that's going to be an awesome way to spend our day! |
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Another Profile Tip: When someone is not willing to put even a small amount of effort into crafting a profile, it leads others to believe they won't be willing to put much effort into a relationship or even online cyber play. "Ask anything you want to know" won't get you far. Make them curious to know more! Tell them about a couple of your vanilla interests- you'll be surprised at the responses. Good luck with your search :) |
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To all the folks who write rants about all the fakes, wanna-be's, liars, no account, dirty dog members on kink. STOP. Write about what you love, what you desire, and what you admire. Write about your kinks, your beliefs, and your principles. Open up. Be vulnerable, sincere and TRUTHFUL about who you are and what you seek. The right people will then be attracted to you!
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Pro tip: When making a profile pic, clean up the background. Remove trash, dirty clothes, etc. Make your best impression! A messy sub tells a Dom they may be dealing with someone who is sloppy. Will that sub be sloppy in obedience? A messy Dom tells a sub to pass on by because that person doesn't have self discipline. If they lack self discipline how can they create structure for others?
Here endeth my two cents. |
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It's a beautiful day in North Carolina!!! |
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One great thing about moving is sifting through all the stuff and realizing how much of it you really don't want or need. One girl's trash is another girl's treasure so off to the Thrift Store it goes! There's such a feeling of lightness once you drive away from the donation dock! |
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The packing has begun but I am dragging my feet on finding my next place TO BE. I've looked at a couple of spots. My Chinese Fortune cookie told me not to make choices out of fear today...so I'm taking the advice. |
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Ugh. I just found out my landlord is selling the house I rent. Looks like I'm moving. I need to find a more affordable place anyway so I'll call that my silver lining. |
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Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war! |
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Meatloaf. Mashed potatoes. Gravy. Garden peas. It's cold outside!!! |
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Hmmm...most recent foray is today's black eyed peas and collards! Happy New Year!
Gigglesnort! The ad in the side bar asks, "Can you handle a real phone mistress?" |
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And hello to you, too, Mr. Torso with the very tight black panties on that probably came out of the Target bag next to you in your time stamped 2004 profile pic! Your copy/ paste message to me has me reeling. Please stop with your witty repartee....I am breathless. |
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Sorta simple this time...corn muffins and honey butter :) |
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I'm so happy to say that I finally went "meta" with one of my weekend cooking projects! Wait for it....banana pudding! I made the custard from scratch and I was very happy with it! It let the vanilla wafers come through to provide most of the sweetness (along with the bananas, of course!) Ha ha- I just realized every sentence here ends with an exclamation point...I must be pretty excited about this one :)
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Gentlemen,
When you encounter some ladies who seem jaded, or don't reply to short messages- I give you this example of a recent copy-paste first contact mistake.
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How are you?I have over 20 years of experience,I am a firm but fair Dom.I do not share pictures on here,I have had them stolen before.Do you have Yahoo Messenger?I can show you my face on there.I love to teach and train,obedience training is what I love to teach.
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Update: I really must include this charming and subtle bid for my affections: And I quote (Asterisks are mine), "do you think it would be funny to watch a guy f*ck by a dog?" Oscar Wilde, eat your heart out.
I try to reply to any short message that is kind and shows that someone has read my profile. Ones like my examples...I ignore because they're just wholesale trawling. |
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I had a great long weekend spoiling my mother. My brother and I grilled pork chops and wings for her and at the last minute, picked fresh asparagus from his garden to throw on there with butter and soy sauce wrapped in foil. It was aMAYzing!
We served it up with a great pitcher of sangria to which we added a couple of shots of gen-yoo-wine North Carolina moonshine. What a great meal :) We finished things up with strawberry shortcakes, of course! |
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Hi everybody!
This is National Offend a Feminist Week! (Truth!) So, I'd love to make a nice sandwich for a Dominant man with a good sense of humor and bring it to his table somewhere teeming with those often unfulfilled women. Hopefully I could take your order and treat you like a king in front of a cadre of feminists? It would have to be local to me....whaddaya think? Carrboro, somewhere? Just for the silly fun of it. (Great for a role-player, I'd think :)
Giggles,
puddin
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Success! I made a pot of eastern NC chicken pastry today and I feel really good about my first attempt. I wish I could ask my Grandma for pointers on getting it to be more like hers. Not perfect but still a yummy supper! |
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I'm back after a hiatus during which I helped my bio-dad through some health issues and did some serious job hunting. I'm still cookin', literally :)
I made a succulent Roasted Lemon Chicken with crispedy crunchedy skin over the weekend...and no one but me to take a bite :( |
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This week's delicious meal: Slow cooked barbecued thick cut pork chops, homemade macaroni and cheese and green beans. |
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I am such a total dork! I would never consider myself a gamer, but I am having so much fun playing Space Invaders and Asteroids in the Games tab here :3 I am pretty terrible and the games are very short...still fun, though.
Speaking of playing games, here is a note for the Doms who have "zillions of years of experience in the lifestyle" but who are really insistent in early messages. I may not know a lot, but I do know that guys who jump right into telling me they're going to play with me on our first meeting are not real Doms. A real dominant establishes trust first and has respect for a woman's limits.
They don't have to manipulate or cajole because their confidence draws us subs to them like moths. After patient trust is established the sky's the limit :) |
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My latest dinner triumph was enchiladas and home made tortilla chips with guacamole! At least I'm having fun in the kitchen! |
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I'm cooking up a venison lasagna some night this week! It is my promise to myself :) I'm so glad the guys in my family are hunters! |
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I got so many messages. I can't possibly reply to them all. It's too much to even read them all right now. I hope people check back and see this. I can't write everybody back, but thank you for your nice messages. |
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