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About MykelDa
Im back in the Uk but seriously looking for a partner for frivolity and deviant excess.
I seek a new beginning, leaving baggage behind, whilst retaining a lifes time of experience, frivolity, hedonism and laughter.
No Im no ingnue or tyro been there done it. A few regrets but, looking back, nothing Im ashamed of.
These days I find I cant share the adventures that I truly want to. There are too many times when I have to hold back. My tastes are wild and varied even though I may appear so urbane and civilised. I cant just sit back and let life float by, I need the stimulation of sharing feelings, plans, travel, outings, and real adventures.
A friend. Yes a true friend who can empathise, share, join in and become a steadfast partner in excess. Hopefully as a couple sharing life together. Someone who has that deep burning passion within themselves. Someone who can converse, enjoy the wonder of all around us, be open, feel free and be a part of my life in every way that is possible. Probably submissive but no pushover. Definitely highly sexual but to all outward appearances no tart. Someone who will probably have so much about them that it will take ages to find, and admit to, all their foibles and peccadilloes.
Someone to share my life with, breaking out and setting us both free.
Am I asking for too much? **No**, but Im asking for a lot and realise that it will come gradually as trust, compatibility and empathy is established. However a lightning bolt of realisation that we both want the same things would be so welcome.
*Does any of this resonate with you?*
Are you ready to try a honest, intimate, adventurous, taboo free friendship that has huge expectations but no initial demands? I am.
Drop me a note, say hello, we have nothing to lose and, possibly, everything to gain.
**ALL the things that we BOTH want and none of the secrets or untruths that can destroy relationships** . The photos show a delicious friend who shares secrets and her body with me, my Baby Girl, with whom I still play, she is married,a delicious feathered mask, story of O style, a recent tying I did for a friends wife and the girls enjoying themselves at a party I held a while ago.
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My profile to March 2018 which is in process of revision.
Here for reference. I may delete later but it could be interesting for you to know the background _____________________________________________ Latest news I'm in Southern France in Collias (30) for the winter. Any one want to join me for a weekend, or more, of hedonistic excess? Même les femmes ou couples français seront bien accueillis pour un temps de folie et d'hédonisme sans aucune limite dans un lieu privé et isolé
So difficult to sum up a life time in a few lines but I want you to know as much as I can without being too enigmatic.
Yes we were a couple and had been for a long time. The magic has gone. No one’s fault and we are still open with one another. We both realise the we need to go our own ways and are now single.
To be clear. I seek a new beginning, leaving baggage behind, whilst retaining a life's time of experience, frivolity, hedonism and laughter.
She was younger than I but had lost much of her adventurous spirit. I, on the other hand, seem to grow and blossom in my search for new and different ways to explore my sensuality and sexuality even though, if I’m truly honest, my ability is quite diminished from when I was twenty years younger. No, not dysfunctional just enjoy taking the time to “complete” and relishing all the different possibilities that can be shared and enjoyed in that extended time.
No I’m no ingénue or tyro; been there done it. A few regrets but, looking back, nothing I’m ashamed of.
These days I find I can’t share the adventures that I truly want to. There are too many times when I have to hold back. My tastes are wild and varied even though I may appear so urbane and civilised. I can’t just sit back and let life float by, I need the stimulation of sharing feelings, plans, outings, and real adventures.
A friend. Yes a true friend who can empathise, share, join in and become a true partner in excess. Hopefully as a couple sharing life together. Someone who has that deep burning passion within themselves. Someone who can converse, be open, feel free and be a part of my life in every way that is possible. Probably submissive but no pushover. Definitely highly sexual but to all outward appearances no tart. Someone who will probably have so much about them that it will take ages to find, and admit to, all their foibles and peccadilloes.
Someone to share my life with, breaking out and setting us both free.
Am I asking for too much? **No**, but I’m asking for a lot and realise that it will come gradually as trust, compatibility and empathy is established. However a lightning bolt of realisation that we both want the same things would be so welcome.
### *Does any of this resonate with you?*
Are you ready to try a honest, intimate, adventurous, taboo friendship that has huge expectations but no initial demands? I am.
Drop me a note, say hello, we have nothing to lose and, possibly, everything to gain.
**ALL the things that we BOTH want and none of the secrets or untruths that can destroy relationships**
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The photos show a delicious friend who shares secrets and her body with me, my Baby Girl, with whom I still play, she is married, a delicious feathered mask, story of "O" style, a recent tying I did for a friend's wife and the girls enjoying themselves at a party I held a while ago. |
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I have just noticed "50 shades the film" on mainstream television here in France.
It is labelled as suitable for those of 12 years and over.
Just about right I would say.
Vive La France!!!
The adverts, mainly for perfume, aftershave, body products etc. Are sexier than the film. |
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I get a few responses that say "Too far away" or "I'm not into Bisexual men"
Let me clarify these entries.
I didn't want to put straight as it has somewhat homophobic undertones and I have no problem with the presence of men, even slipping their cocks into my, willing, partner. I would not deny her that pleasure if it was appropriate at the time. I don't seek out men, I prefer women but a petite convincing TS or TV could be very interesting and I have dabbled there before. I want this profile to be as honest as possible so Bisexual seemed that only honest answer.
Distance is similarly difficult.
I'm looking for a partner, someone with whom to share all of life's wonders. If they are nearby that would be wonderful and easy. However I will relocate for the right person. Admittedly that would mean difficulties in the initial stages when compatibility, mutual trust and understanding are being established but I am searching for a long term partner and have a positive "can do" outlook and will overcome that distance hurdle if there seems to be a reasonable chance we will be a match.
I would hope, even expect, that anyone I meet would have a similar positive outlook in their search.
I hope that gives clarification to you about my inclinations and intentions. |
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I rarely write here. Life streams past, sometimes too fast, too furious, filled with the necessities and urbanities that occupy the waking hours though often it is pitted with voids, empty moments with no imperatives and the accompanying idle mind that can be filled with the nonsenses that are my unstructured, unplanned, perhaps subconscious, often unproductive thoughts.
These are often sexual, certainly hedonistic and mainly unfulfilled. Future plans of a life alone but with a partner under the same roof. A symbiotic, non possessive, free, untrammelled mutually supportive co-existence that permits, even encourages, individual privacy and mental playtime yet has a core of reciprocated trust, inevitability and even devotion that binds, forges and manufactures a unity of being, an unquestioned sharing of time and space that becomes the core of a forever partnership in a life of profligate self-indulgence that requires no negotiation or structure. A joint enterprise of willing equals.
Yes a dream, a fantasy, a cerebral adventure of possibilities. How I wish it could be a reality. A permanent tangible reality to retreat to when we have the need, the urge, the time and the space.
Shared appreciation of the sublime, the sardonic, the impractical, the amusing, the breath-taking, the immoral, the possibilities, the impossibilities and the joys of wonder and mental, as well as physical, gymnastics.
Enough self indulgent musing. It should be elsewhere, not here.
I have the arrogance to hope that another may read this and empathise, have similar thoughts and the, hesitant, desire to become complicit with me. All coupled with my humility to be aware that it is a stream of consciousness that will be derided, dismissed and scanned past.
In which case I add a titillation that, to my current mind-set, should be viewed in its entirety.
http://motherless.com/37E5008
There is more should you enquire. |
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Overall it is very pleasant to receive complementary messages.
It is equally irritating when all they say is you are too far away.
I often admire profiles of photographs and very occasionally compliment the user on a particularly good profile photograph but never do I say they are too far.
we are all in the community where everything is accepted just dont message saying "nice but too far"
Cheers everyone!
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Sensual blind date or cheap slave whore fuck?
It hadn’t taken long to organise.
A little chatting, fingers busy on the keyboard, flirtations exchanged, confidences built on the chat screen before moving to the telephone. Chatter about likes and dislikes and how we both liked seduction, adventure and all manner of eroticism. Then it happened. Out of the blue she hesitantly said “I’ve always wanted to be a whore.” Quite out of left field when we were suggesting a meeting.
“Really,” I said. “You just want to be used, paid for raw and base sexual services?”
A moment’s silence then hesitantly “Yes I’ve always wanted that. I want it to be real. I want to be used like a cheap tart. A slave to my sensuality. Simply someone who is fucked, fucked hard, used without caring just to satisfy animalistic urges” all came tumbling into my ear.
“Then simples...” I said mimicking the TV meerkat “We have been working up to meeting. You want that and so do I.
You want to be a whore and I fantasise about picking up a cheap, no limits prostitute, to use for extremes without caring how she feels. To take what I want. To get myself off and more than once. We have this chance now, this very weekend, before we get to know each other better, to live that fantasy, make it a reality, in comparatively safely and..” I hesitated before saying slowly and deliberately “... and so wantonly depraved and raw.”
“Don’t say anything.” I rattled out before she could reply. “I’m going to ask you some questions about your favourite drinks, work, mundane things to distract you whilst your mind weighs up the possibilities. When I’m done you can agree or disagree. We can still proceed with a normal date... Do you understand?”
The silence was perhaps four or five seconds but it seemed like an eternity. “Okay then... Yes.” Was her surprisingly soft and hesitant reply.
I rambled on for a few minutes. Found that she liked very dry martinis, chilled Chardonnay, was fed up with work, needed more challenges, was tired of petty disputes over car parking spaces under her building and a few other trivial inconsequential minutiae of her daily life.
We knew that our thoughts were elsewhere. Our voices were somewhat monotone, low-key, clearly enunciated. We knew that we were both weighing up the risks, rewards and sheer perversity of what I suggested. Would Friday bring a simple light-hearted, flirtatious date? Slowly building up to tenderness, slow kisses, tentative touching and then, if the gods of happenstance and chemistry shone down upon us, fumbling, exploring and sex. Like millions of other first daters all over the world.
We hadn’t even exchanged proper photographs. We knew each other’s ages, approximate heights, general look, obviously shared a sense of humour, were skittish, openly flirtatious and both felt very comfortable with all the exchanges we had reveled in up to that moment. We knew we both craved extremes and had vibrant, active and indulgent pasts.
I drew breath and finished my anecdote about a friend and his neighbour who acted like a parking warden, living his life chastising people who parked incorrectly, not in the assigned spaces or didn’t display the residents parking permit correctly on the windscreen. Mindless words that served only to give us both time to consider what we are about to do.
I hesitated for a moment, drew an audible breath and said slowly and deliberately. “It’s decision time... Friday night will be ours regardless. It will be Henry’s bar. You know it and so do I. You have the choice. Either come as you are, the Deborah I have felt so comfortable with over these past two weeks, or embrace our fantasy and become Chloe who will sell herself, without restrictions or limitations, for half a bottle of shared champagne and a £20 note.” I paused wondering how this had all snapped into place in my mind so quickly, so precisely, so fully formed. “Just listen to what I say... Think hard; this is a step into reality not fantasy and when I finish tell me who you will be at 8:30 on Friday in Henry’s."
"It won’t be set in stone, although we both know it is unlikely either will change our minds, back down or shy away." I drew another breath, amazed at the fluency with which the idea was forming unrehearsed. “I want you to know that at any time over the next 70 odd hours you can change your mind. I’ll never refer to this conversation again and we will have a laughter filled, outrageous, warm and intimate evening. All you have to say it’s who you will be, Deborah or Chloe.”
“Text me on Friday morning with the details of something that will make you distinctive so I can pick you out from the throng. I will have a small silver aeroplane in my lapel. The back bar in Henry’s is a great place for an excellent dry martini. When I see you, I will ask if you would enjoy one with me. Look me straight in the eye, tell me you want it stirred, not shaken and diluted like that idiot bond, and I will agree. Tell you what good taste you have, then ask you the question that will steal your fate for the evening.”
“Up to that very instant, that fork in the roads, you’re free to choose the path you will follow. Both routes will be delightful, both will be exciting. One darker, twisting, demanding and deliciously perverted the other broader, easily followed, though still flirtatious and full of adventure. You choose by telling me your name for the night.”
“I will happily share an evening, night, or even the weekend with whoever you choose to be. Deborah will get my full, head on, attention, flirtation and charm. Chloe will be treated like the £20 whore and sex slave she has always dreamt of being.”
I injected a little light note and hint of laughter into my voice. “So... My frolicsome, flirtatious new friend, who do you hope to be on Friday?”
The phone fell silent. Only our synchronous laboured breathing troubled the airwaves between us. Seconds ticked past, the silence, in itself, was charged with eroticism and tension.
I heard a slight clearing of the throat, a deeper sharp intake of breath and then the single word “Chloe.”
The exhalation, the relaxation, the sudden rush I felt appeared to come bouncing back at me through the ether, almost a climactic moment. I steadied myself, cleared my throat, and said. “There is nothing more to say... I look forward to Friday, 8:30, Henry’s back bar... I relish buying Chloe but would be delighted if Deborah turned up. I know I can’t lose. So I leave it to you?”
“Yes... Chloe will text you on Friday morning.” She replied, her voice slightly shriller and quicker than before. “She will have thought of something appropriate to wear by then. If nothing else the time to Friday will be filled with speculation and anticipation... Wait for my text.”
“I will. I most certainly will” I replied, my mind racing through the possibilities. “My phone will never leave me on Friday.” My brain had frozen in the sudden realisation of the pact we had made, but not quite sealed. My thoughts were racing but my tongue was tied. I lamely added “Good night, sleep well.”
“Good night.” Was all I heard as the phone clicked over to that empty, vacant sound of a disconnected call.
What a way to start!
Regardless of who turned up, Deborah or Chloe, I knew that this was going to be the firing up of something incredibly different and truly exciting.
Maybe I’ll write down how it went another day. Truth is often stranger than fiction. |
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We need a proper TS to use and treat to the extremes. It seems very difficult to find one.
Not a cross dressing man nor a TV who likes to dress up, though we have no problem with either of those, a feminised man, with some breasts budding, smooth skin, not too tall, a cock for caging and restraint. A real TransSexual with a willing body, a depraved mind and a desire for delicious excess.
A lot to ask but we have a lot to give in return. |
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