PLEASE READ MY PROFILE IN ITS ENTIRETY BEFORE CONSIDERING CONTACTING ME or you likely won't receive a reply!! I DO NOT want an email of thanks, just because I viewed your profile!!
I require a straight, male, sub/slave, for a LTR, to enhance my private life and my vanilla life. I am NOT interested in a switch.
you will be an expert or will become an expert in every aspect of foot massage and pedicure or willing to learn.
you will be educated, emotionally and financially secure and long to serve a Mistress. I am polite, with an excellent sense of humour, firm but fair, but with little tolerance or patience with fools.
you will be articulate and polite.
you will be D/D and smoke free.
you will be straight, not a sissy, nor enjoy cross dressing.
you will NOT be UNDER 55 years of age. (deal breaker) I’m not interested in kids or anyone who in reality could be my son. I like kids but don’t date them. I have no use for those simply looking for kinky sex. If this is what you seek, let us not waste our time, find someone else, or go to a ProDomme and pay for your desires. A genuine lifestyle submissive’s submission is not a "desire" it's a "need"!! If you are aware of the meaning of “tease and denial”, GREAT, if not, you should learn!!
Requesting forced feminisation, in my opinion, is like me requesting to be force fed lobster. Oh how dreadful that would be, BRING IT ON!! lol. Then again if I wish to have you wear some pretty lingerie, that will be for my enjoyment and your humiliation. Casual sessions are NOT an option, and don’t ask for cyber play or online training, it is never going to happen. I require someone who is committed to being trained to my satisfaction. One on one, in all aspects of service, not just the specific fragments that are of interest to you, and this will only be in REAL TIME.
you should understand there is a vast difference between pseudo submission for your sexual gratification and submission and training because you feel a need to be trained. If you do not understand this concept, then you are of no interest to me. Training is about all aspects of submission, not just sexual.
If the above sounds like you and you long to serve a Mistress, yearn to be trained, need a firm hand to guide you, then perhaps you are the one for me.
If you want my attention, earn it, don't send me a dull and trite message and then wonder why I'm not interested and don't reply. Write an email to show me you are in fact literate. A response to my profile such as “hi” or “I hope you like my profile” or "I love your feet" or "I'd love to suck your toes" or "nice toe ring" or "wazup" are NOT an email and neither intelligent nor acceptable and you've not followed my direction. I don't need an email to thank me for viewing your profile, UNLESS there is an obvious connection and there could be a possible interest.
If you live in another country or a different city from me, you must be able to relocate to my city. If your second language is English, your English will need to be excellent as I do not speak your first language. I’m not interested in endless online email/text communication, so will expect a voice conversation within the first 2 or 3 email and you will be willing to come to my city at your expense within a reasonably short time, for a visit to meet. I love flowers and all the feminine things in life such as perfume and gorgeous lingerie (on me, not you), movies, books, shoes and have a major interest in photography. If your profile is blank, or even WORSE, HIDDEN, how can anyone possibly know if you are a person of interest TO ME, or not? I don't need a life story, but some basics about you and what you are able to do to please a Mistress. On the other hand a blank profile tends to convey to me, you are either lazy or you have something to hide. Don’t bother writing to me. To assure me you have read my profile as directed; please type LISTEN somewhere in your first email and send a photo of yourself too, if there isn't one on your profile. A photo of you, to clarify, your face, NOT your genitalia or the back of your head. If you are unable to follow direction in your first email, it's unlikely you will make a good sub/slave. Don't expect a reply.
Light travels faster than sound. That's why some people appear bright until you hear them speak. :- )
Many subs when writing a profile, state they wish to submit to a Domme and do everything for her, without any consideration for himself. It’s ALL ABOUT HER is often written. HOWEVER, they then elaborate on what it is THEY as subs want. Is that not a contradiction in terms? Surely if it’s all about her, why would you think she’d be interested in what it is you want?
I’d particularly like to see a sub write what it is he can do for his Domme. I really don’t wish to know about how ‘expert’ you are at oral service or how big your dick is, or even how long you can keep it up. How about telling me how long you can clean windows without stopping? Or how much you’d enjoy keeping my garden beautiful, or what you can fix. Think about it, I know that would really make me sit up and take notice of THAT sub. A real sub who GENUINELY does want to do whatever is necessary to keep his Domme happy. I do get tired of hearing about the usual stuff you love to do or have done to you!!!!
There is a kid on this site, namely Tormentier from Ca aged 25 and recently made himself a new name CellarPaindoor from Ill aged 24. For some reason he adds EVERY WOMAN he sees come online to his admirers list, of every age too. ROFL.
Many Dommes have told me the same thing. HE NEVER BLOCKS anyone even when he's been asked to do so, because then he wouldn't be able to see them on his admirers list. If nothing else, it's quite bizarre. I guess he could do a lot worse, but it's certainly strange.
I find it interesting when a so called slave who is several years older than me is not willing/able to send a recent photo because he doesn’t have one, just an older photo which could be any age. But it was ok to see very recent photos of me. Just so you know, in this century to take a digital photo, download it to your computer and email it off around the world, can take anything up to 15 minutes, maybe even less. I’d prefer to NOT receive a photo rather than an old one. I’m genuine so will send a recent photo because that is how I look now, not what I looked like 2 – 20 years ago. If you are going to be on this site and you wish to see other people's photos, you don't need to put your photo on your profile, BUT, have at least one or two available to send via email. If I'm not shown a recent photo, I believe there is something not quite right.!! An updated one at that. One photo I received recently had a date on it, 1993 and he told me he still looks just like that. Well lucky him ROFL, yeah right!!!! THAT I will not accept.
It would be appreciated if ‘so called’ slaves would learn what a slave is, and/or does. A slave does as he is told when told/ordered and is not a sex slave to lay back and have intercourse driven by his Domme if she is aroused. There is a massive difference between a sub and a slave. Too many ‘slaves’ are in fact purely, sexually subservient vanilla men and there is nothing wrong with that, BUT don’t call yourself a slave, because you are NOT!!! A genuine slave is worlds apart from a sub with a much greater depth of intense power exchange than a sub, as I’ve already commented on, below.
I've recently been advised, because I'm looking for 'perfection' I'll never find a sub. NOT TRUE! I am NOT looking for perfection!! However, I'm going to opt for quality over quantity any day. To take on any sub is a very simple thing to do, but a sub/slave with quality and class, is a little more difficult!!
The rate of recidivism for fakes, fraudsters, phonies, liars and impostors on this site is the worst I’ve seen or heard about among any group of people ever. There is obviously a form of payoff to these people for them to keep returning with several different names too. With providence and/or divine intervention, what goes around comes around and it will end with you being on the receiving end. Poignant, but true!!
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whoratioalger and cybenhanced are the same person, just a heads up if he contacts you under both of those names, which is what he does. He has several other names too, with different ages in both Canada and NYC. liam is a fairly unusual first name, that is what he calls himself. Definitely NOT to be trusted.
I believe the term slave is frequently misused within this Lifestyle, as slavery is simply a greater depth of intense power exchange, not dehumanization of the soul, as many seem to think.
I never want to ever say "I should have". If you think you should do something, DO IT!!, you may never get the chance again!!
I would definitely need to enjoy your mind, to desire your body or ANY type of intimacy!!!
Are there any sub/slaves out there who have just a tiny touch of class about them? Just because you are a sub or slave, doesn't mean you can't exude some class, intellect and professionalism. It all seems far too much to ask on this site!!!
UNBELIEVABLE!! I always thought it was women who tended to lie about their ages, maybe 2 or 3 years.......NOW I've discovered I was wrong, it's men!! But not just 2 or 3 years, they tend to go way over the top, 10 - 27 years older than what they state. A 'so called' slave in Sydney says he's 63 on his profile, BUT in fact he turns 90 this year. No typo there, 90 years of age. A 27 year lie is a bit over the top. Then there's another one right here in Auckland who says he's 57 and he is in fact 70. Surely these idiots realise it would be very obvious if a Domme met them. I've encounted quite a few who dramatically
s-t-r-e-t-c-h their age, so be aware.
There is more than one way to skin a cat so you will be caught!!!
There have been several (so called) slaves contact me recently requesting to become my slave. After a few emails/questions from me it's BLATANTLY OBVIOUS they are actually wanting to be SEX SLAVES. They're dreaming. Nothing in my profile even HINTS that I want a sex slave and nothing could be further from the truth.
If a sex slave is what you wish to be, move on, because it will NEVER happen with me. Quit wasting my time!!
Without exception, I only practice safe, sane and consensual domination.
True dominance isn't about disciplining your sub, it's about earning the trust and respect of your sub so that You are the only one he wants to receive discipline from, that Your orders are what he craves to obey, and that in Your presence he feels safe and scared, proud and humbled, totally free and completely owned. Hearing the words "I'm disappointed in you." should be a sub's greatest fear.
Being a Woman’s slave is about sacrifice, loyalty, obedience and discipline. It means living for Her pleasure. One of the ways you know you are a genuine slave or sub is when the pain you feel is not from the whip or cane, it’s because you have disappointed your Mistress!!
If you have an interest in becoming a slave/sub to a particular Domme, you MUST show respect to get her attention. Any other type of attention probably won't work and is a sure way to have her decide you are not for her. Then you don't stand a chance.
Yes, I have photos to share, including facial, however these will only be shared with subs/slaves I have a serious interest in. No exceptions. If you're trolling looking for photos you can wank to, you've struck the wrong Domme. If you want material to wank to, go visit a porn site.
Delusional concepts from far too many so called subs on here…
Can I add you to my friend's list = I'm so desperate to make myself look popular I collect friends so their photo appears making me 'seem' cool. Hence I have 100s of friends but never spoken to more than 3 of them.
Willing to relocate = I’m broke and unemployed and need a place to stay till I sort myself out.
Willing to relocate #2 = Let’s play online until I am able to move in 2020.
Willing to relocate #3 = I am on the other side of the world and it would be impossible for me to move there but as that is what you want to hear I’ll say I’ll move.
I’ll do anything for you = “anything” on my terms, not yours
I am straight = I love forced feminization even though I say I’m straight.
I love women = this often means "I am a misogynist who bad mouths women generally but says that to dispell any suggstion that I am gay."
Hi how are you today? = I’m so illiterate I copied this originally so keep pasting it as my intro.
I enjoy cbt, bondage, humiliation, strap-ons, blah, blah, blah = these are things that you can do to me, to get me sexually aroused
See I am very polite and subservient = until such time you reject me or disagree with me, then WATCH OUT!!
Honestly I really am a slave and want to be caged = my brain is so screwed I live in a world of fantasy.
I’m very domestic = can I clean your bathroom
Of course I know the difference between sub and slave = I have no clue but I’m sure that’s what you want to hear.
I’ll get on cam and do anything you want = I’ll masturbate while you watch
I’m educated and have a degree = I can’t spell or form sentences
I have limited experience in BDSM = my girlfriend tied me up while having sex
My profile says I’m dom but inside I’m sub = I have a sub and a dom profile but accidentally used my dom profile to write to you.
I am dom but would give this up to be with you = I have sub feelings and want you to play.
I have vast experience in BDSM = I had a Domme once and was so worthless she dumped me
Can we meet for a drink or dinner = I’m so desperate that I’m willing to do so after sending you one message
and finally...you're a fake = you have not responded to me, so now i'm going to pout and be vindictive
If you fall under ANY of these categories, do not waste My time, the boredom it brings is nauseating.
I require someone who is committed to being trained to my satisfaction. One on one, in all aspects of service, not just the specific fragments that are of interest to you, and this will only be in REAL TIME.
I would like to see further choices of 'description' headers on profiles, eg. Kinkster with an interest in Domination, or Kinkster with an interest in submission, or just a header, 'kinkster'. That doesn't make someone a sub or a Domme/dom but does clarify someone's affiliation to assist others looking. Right now it seems all descriptions are black and white. We all know there are so many gray areas in BDSM.
Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." -Bob Marley
"Many people on here still love nature, in spite of what it did to them."............ Think about it!!
For Me, Dominating fulfills a special erotic craving. The way to extend that craving is for you to be intelligent, humorous and a GENUINE sub!!!!!!!
It appears to me, most of the 'subs' here are not looking for a Domme, they are looking for a girlfriend who will be dominant in the bedroom. THAT is vanilla with an interest in kink, who likes to play fantasy games, NOT a sub.
I'm also NOT looking for a dom who wants to fantasize and 'play' with a Domme, not in this lifetime anyway. Please don't bother writing to me. Thank you!!!
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel..
Here's a clock every Domme should have.......feel free to keep a copy :) Just copy and paste into your browser!!!
I know what I want in a sub, so is it so bad I spell it out in my profile???? I would have hoped it would stop most of the morons from contacting me because they'd know they would be rejected and they could move on. NOOOOOOO that is not the case, it's so funny!!! I cannot comprehend why they then become upset when rejected!!! What a waste of time and space some of them are. Then there are others who are happy to read a profile that is particularly specific.....ROFL we can't win!!!!!
We can't help getting older, but we sure can help getting OLD!!!
If you sometimes feel a little useless, offended or depressed............ALWAYS REMEMBER, you were the fastest and most victorious little sperm out of MILLIONS!!!!!
I wonder what "under consideration" means??? I still have slaves and subs contact me showing an interest, when their profiles CLEARLY STATE they are under consideration to a Domme!!
Pray tell, what does "UNDER CONSIDERATION" mean to you??? Do you feel you can still keep looking and contacting other Dommes?
It seems to me it is "yet another" fake story subs/slaves put over Dommes just to placate them until they find a new Mistress.
If you are under consideration to another Domme, don't bother with me or you will just receive a mouthful and will be blocked....THAT IS CHEATING and not a good start if you hope to become a permanent slave/sub!!!!!!!
I would hope other Dommes do the same!!
I believe, our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, however, we are totally responsible for who we have become!!!
One of the ways you know you are a genuine slave or sub is when the pain you feel is not from the whip or cane, it?s because you have disappointed your Mistress!!
Why is it so many subs and slaves put their age as 99? Does this mean you want to hide behind a number? Generally it seems, they are older subs/slaves. Be proud to be what you are and your age.
When I see age 99 on a profile, I immediately lose any interest I may have and won't respond unless they change into reality and display a REAL AGE!!!
Pain and Suffering is inevitable in life, but Misery is optional!!
Why, why, why do so many of you subs write an email and then copy and paste it to all Dommes you wish to contact? Oh yes of course, you're too lazy to individualise an email, that's why. I'm tired of being told something that absolutely DOESN'T pertain to me, it's all part of the original email which goes to everyone. Then a couple of weeks later you send the same ol' email to the same person, and then 2 weeks later do the same again, all with the same spelling errors lol. It doesn't make you look too smart.
INDIVIDUALISE your email and you'll have much better luck with Dommes. Choose something from their profile to "hint" at the fact you've at least READ the Domme's profile.
Question: What did God say after he created man?
Answer: I can do better than this! And then he created woman!!!.
Consciousness precedes thought Thought precedes expectation, Expectation precedes perception, And perception IS the reality that you live!!
"The most wasted day in life, is the day in which we have not
laughed."?
"Friendship isn't about who you have known the longest It's about those who came and never left your side ......"
The following has been "loaned" to me by a fellow Domme. Another Domme wrote it and I LOVE IT!!!!!! Oh how true it is too!!
"Dear Mistress,
Do me, do me, do this to me, do that to me, do this other thing to me, wear these clothes while you are doing it, force me to do these other things, and by the way I expect some kinky sex acts.
Here is a picture of my big hard cock for Your pleasure. I've only sent it to 6,342 women on this site so far, so it should make you feel really special that I'm sending it to you too. I won't pay you money because pros are so selfish and demanding.
You have to do all this stuff to me just because You like it, and if You don't, then obviously you are not a Real Domme. I didn't actually read your profile and I could not care less about what you are looking for or who you are as a person. I just want you to wear sexy clothes and do me.
I'm married and sneaking around so discretion is a must. I expect you to stay in your dungeon and never talk to me if you happen to see me on the street with my real friends and family. I can't give You my phone number or my real name either.
But I'm really, really submissive. In fact, I am your total sex slave. To prove it, here is another picture of my big hard cock in bondage.
If you're a Real Domme, you will write back immediately. If you don't write back, you're just a fake, so fuck you, bitch.
Submissively, Your Slave."
Sure it sounds funny when written like that, however, believe me, all that was said in the above email has in fact been said by many "so called" subs or slaves to the Dommes on here.
Beware of the sub whose profile raves on about himself being intellectual, passionate, good looking, "used to be" in the business word, blah blah and blah. Then makes adverse comments right there on the profile pertaining to Dommes in general. As if he is superior.
He is GUARANTEED to be either a switch and/or a dom on another profile. I have just discovered for the 3rd time this exact scenario along with his dom profile too. 2 of the 3 I have recently busted have been from Australia hahaha.
SHAME ON you!!!
A copy and paste from your profile into an email to me is not an email (not an email with any thought, in my opinion), it's purely a copy and paste with NOTHING pertaining to me. PARTICULARLY if you've obviously not read my profile which is often most obvious.
DON'T EXPECT A REPLY!
I have come to the conclusion that 98.43% of all the people on here have endured honesty and integrity bypass surgery. I trust, one day you may recover, meantime please don't contact me!!!
I see so much garbage in some of the profiles on here, I'm starting a running list of some of the comments in profiles that crack me up laughing. And they call themselves subs or slaves?? too funny!! Starting now and I will add to these.
OF COURSE, my classic favourite is....... "I love forced feminization"(hahahahahahaha that is THE best OXYMORON!!!)
I want a very intelligent Domme (I'm as thick as a plank but no matter)
I am looking for a gorgeous looking Domme (even though I look more like a bulldog than human) I'm genuine (ever heard anyone say "I'm not genuine?" haha)
I am very honest. ( uh HUH!! see above)
I am an excellent sub (says me haha)
I have a great sense of humour (yeah right, says who?)
Some idiot "so called poet" who JUST sends poems to Dommes and if you reject him he calls Dommes the BIG "C" WORD. (great sub huh? VERY SUBMISSIVEhahaha) NOT!!!
I look much younger than I am (excuse me, here borrow my glasses)
I am considered attractive/handsome/goodlooking. (haha, by whom???)
Be who you are and say what you feel... because those that matter... don't mind...and those that mind...don't matter!
I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that more and more of you who call yourselves sub/doms don't need a Mistress, you need a shrink!!
I've had correspondence from more mentally deranged men on here in the past few months, than I have in my lifetime.
So many crazies and such little time!!
you should not be in the lifestyle, the lifestyle should be in you....
I believe the most genuine of sub/slaves (and Dommes too), are born with the lifestyle within them.? Sometimes it takes a few years for you to realise and put it into action. Those are the sub/slaves who KNOW a Domme's requirements and what it takes to please!!!? To have a happy Domme is to be a happy sub/slave!!
People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
To those of you who can't help yourselves and LIE most of the time and then apologise, saying how very sorry you are.? Are you in fact sorry for what you did, or sorry because you were caught?????? I'd say the latter, the majority of the time.
Regardless of
your command of the English language, an extra minute to check your spelling/typos
could earn you brownie points. If you
don?t have a spell checker, be sure to find one if you wish to have ongoing correspondence
with me. I?m tired of ?attempting? to work out what words mean in some of your
emails when they don?t exist in the English language. If you
can find the time to be online and write, also find the time to check before
you hit the enter button!!!!!!! A sloppy
email denotes a sloppy sub/slave and I do not want one of those.
?It appears to me there are more illiterates on this site than not.? Like little children who are not able to read yet, they just look at the pictures and don't even open the profile text.?
If that be the case, please, I don't wish to hear what wonderful feet I have, I already know that.
Attempt to use a little?brain power (if you have any)?and write an actual email pertaining to more than my feet!!!!!!!? I don't need to know my feet turn you on as that is not a criteria.
?? It never ceases to amaze me how many requests I receive out of the blue from idiots on here attempting to add me to their friends list, WHEN WE'VE NEVER EXCHANGED ONE EMAIL.? UNBELIEVABLE!!!? And when you check out their friends list there are a million people listed there.? THEY ARE ALL GOOD FRIENDS, YEAH RIGHT!! I'd bet they don't know a fraction of those listed. Is this some kind of ego boost for those who can't find the Domme they are looking for and having so many pseudo fake friends appears they are popular? That certainly doesn't work for me.? If they have a million friends on their friend list, in my opinion, they don't need me, so bye bye. What is wrong with all you Dommes who permit them to add you?? I really don't get it.....
Come on guys, don't get mad when I don't reply and proceed to say I'm rude among other things. Too many of you are kids, want online play, can't write a sentence in an email and generally can't follow direction.?
I wrote a FULL profile for a reason, READ IT FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!!! If you don't read it and follow direction it is NOT ME who is rude!!!!
I don't need to know my feet turn you on as that is not a criteria. 
I'd bet they don't know a fraction of those listed. Is this some kind of ego boost for those who can't find the Domme they are looking for and having so many pseudo fake friends appears they are popular? That certainly doesn't work for me.? If they have a million friends on their friend list, in my opinion, they don't need me, so bye bye. What is wrong with all you Dommes who permit them to add you?? I really don't get it..... 
