MsKathy2000

Well life has a way of changing and sometimes this happens quickly.  Just a life update follows.

paul my collared submissive is not longer with me.  He left in May this year.  No I do not have a 24/7 collared one living with me. 

I do however still have my naughty little pleasure toy.  He makes me happy and serves me well.  I am very happy with him.

Will I seek another 24/7?  Maybe.  I will be the first to admit that I am now having trust issues, some serious and some not so serious but never-the-less they are there.   Some of these are directed at myself.  I can be my own worst critic.

So if approaching do so respectully.  I do not want nude pictures, period.  Nude pictures will get you ignored.  Friends and discussion, yes.

Last night I had hot cross bunns for dessert LOL.

My recipe for hot cross bunns is as follows:

1 pleasure submissive.

2 canes, sizes vary

1 nice fat ginger root

1 set of nipple clamps

(optional) as many condoms as you might wish

First have the pleasure submissive carefully peel and shape the ginger root. Specifically he is to make sure it is nice and smooth (if you are wanting to be nice), has a stop or large bent piece at the end so Ma'am does not have to worry about it getting lost or hang on to it as she works.

Place pleasure submissive in the "bend over boy" position over the end of your bed, spanking bench or even your lap.

Insert ginger root in the only logical place available in this position. NO lube, it will totally spoil the recipe.

Using your canes make your X design over both halves of the bunn in any pretty pattern you enjoy until nice bright red.

Once you get just exactly the colour you want then turn the submissive over, place nipple clamps, one of each nipple, tighten down until the submissive responds appropriately.

By this time you should have enough rise to place optional condom and enjoy your dessert!!!

Nutritional info: Depending on your vigor this is a calorie reducing dessert. Caution: leads to pleasure and weight loss.

Thank you my pet

You need to go to the Female section where you belong.MasterPdoc9

MY RESPONSE:

Femle  section?  Where is the female section?

You know your message was extremely rude, and inappropriate.  My profile is clearly marked as dominat female.   I am exactly where I belong.  I have seeking male dominats check marked because I have many many male dominats in this community in real life that I know, we communicate here as well. We attend many of the real life gatherings, share information, training and just have a good time.

I do not hide out here and troll, I have pictures and am well known in the community. My profile is clear.

If you desire friendship then welcome.  If your intent is to be disrespectful and hurtful then I ask that you cease any further contact.

Be well

Ms Kathy

Wednesday is my birthday.  Funny, I used to not even notice them and if you asked my age I actually had to stop and do the math.  Had never had a party and it never was important to me.  Well maybe my 21st but I was already married by that time LOL and don't remember celebrating it much. 

My paul has made a point of reminding me I am a little older than he and has begun a week long process of giving to me a gift each day as it approaches.  A new idea for me but I like it LOL.  The first was a new fish for my saltwater tank.  I have named her Dalmae.  The second was a brass Pegasus, I love the winged one and unicorns LOL, flight and beauty.  Pegasus has been named cecil.  Then finally an evening and night full of service to me.  I wonder what the next 4 days will bring?  We shall see LOL. 

Today was a repeat of a major disappointment in my quest for a pain slut, service oriented male.  I have of course had many that are local or close by set up appointments or interviews, dinners etc, then chicken out.  Long distance is a little different.  I understand that, it cost to meet, or get to know eachother.  After months of online chat, phone calls and pc calls I consider I have invested time in the relationship. 

This is the second time within a few months that one has supposedly made flight plans and I have scheduled vacation time from work to meet them and spend real time getting to know eachother better.

Surprisingly I am not angry.  Am I disappointed, oh you bet I am.  LOL, wait a moment and let me explain before anyone falls out of their chair or decides I am a nincompoop.  I expect a lot of this online.  The honesty I demand of myself is not everyone's standards.

Over the last year I have learned a lot about expecting more than people can give emotionally and their lack or honor.  I do not expect nearly as much as I used to.  My disappointment and sadness comes from the total lack of manners and consideration people have for one another.  Would it not be more honorable to im or email me simply saying they have changed their mind or are just not sure they are ready for this yet?  Why go to all the trouble of actually giving me flight numbers that do happen to exsist and then just not show up, call or cancel?  That is a lot of work to put out for a game.  They choose instead to stay invisible to me and not respond to any inquiry.

It amazes me LOL.  Out of 126 people on my friends list how many are really what they represent themselves to be?  None of my business actually and I understand it is mostly for fun and exploration.  Giggle, my iggy list is even bigger.  I can no longer run visible most of the time because of the im's but a majority of the hits are players, wanna be's.  Why not just be honest and say you just want to talk, pretend and/or explore a fetish or kink?  I like to meet people and like to talk sometimes so just a little more honesty.

Well guess I was a little angry yesterday. LOL However manners still do appear to be lacking in so many that I speak to lately and I do so dislike dishonesty.

Dungeon will be good for me tonight though, should feel much better afterwards ROFL.  A little electrical play always makes a Domme feels soooooo much better.

OK!!!!!
Who in the world decided common manners were no longer needed?  I wish persons that begin a conversation and swear on bended knee they want a true 24/7 TPE would think it through.  If they are just wanting to chat that is fine, I truely enjoy meeting friends all over the world, speaking several languages is no fun if no one else you meet speaks them.

However when I have invested months of im's, emails and phone calls getting to know someone or the person they are playing at being then set it up to meet them and they just don't show, don't answer an im that is just pure lack of common every day manners.  Makes one wonder if their parents left them in the woods to be raised by ????