MsKaleidoscope

My dance card is full

I´m not looking for a slave and haven´t been for a couple of months. I have all the love and play that I need, and more. Three of my relationship are in their inital states. It´s fun and exhausting. Hence no looking for a primary or anyone at all. Cross your fingers for me!

I have vague ideas about visiting Dublin in September this year, if possible. Need a place to stay, someone to show me around. Will probably be max. a week.

Busy life offline

I'm taking prolonged vacations from the Net and social sites, as some might have noted. My life offline have become more busy than usual, and hanging online alot is not what I need either. I prefer to see my friends and loved ones irl, do something crafty, read, hang out on a beach, throw a barbeque party for my birthday... and do a few workshops/lectures, of course. I like teaching people, on matters I know.

Have a great summer!

I want to be able to actually meet and date.

Potential slaves have to live within a likely distance from me. I can possibly talk to people in the UK and Scandinavia, perhaps the northern part of Europe (like Germany and the Netherlands), but further away isn't even possible. I have to turn away people that live too far away.

If something happens, tell Me

If I'm to meet you and something comes up -tell Me and tell Me what it is. I will be more understanding if I know what prevents you from keeping your promise to Me. You broke a leg? Your grandma died? You risked losing your job? Tell Me, don't keep it to yourself. Even just a text message on the run will do, if necessary.

I don't do temporary "slaves".

I can use someone as a plaything for an evening, though I rarely do, but they can't be my slave. Owner-slave takes getting to know each other and commitment. It can't be made to happen between strangers that meet for an evening, a weekend or a week. I look for a real, long-lasting relationship, not one-night-stands.

Flaking out on Me

I recently have been stood up twice in a row and promised a call ("soon") that never came, from a guy that I gave a chance to meet Me. Why? I don't know. I really don't like being stranded like that, without even an explanation. What little time and energy I have, is valuable.

Actually coming to the date and calling Me when they've promised to do so; It's the first test. Will they prioritize Me when in a relationship? Will they do everything possible to keep promises? Will they keep me in the loop? Are they the kind of person I'm looking for?

Flirting, talking, but...

I miss my boys. Most of them can't see me due to different reasons. I flirt with a new one, charming, but not able to play with me. I'll have to wait and see. Maybe we'll form a friendship. Maybe we'll have occasional play in the future. Meanwhile: Flirting is fun. I have a couple of girls that I flirt with too, whenever I get the chance and am in the mood. I haven't got the energy to do more, especially not during winter.

I keep conversations with a handful of people here on collarme and have one or two that I would want to meet in person to see if there's chemistry or not.

I knit a lot. It's good to have something to do with spare time, on the subway, while waiting, while restless...

I had a meeting with fellow dominas this Monday and went from it feeling happy and energized. I look forward to the next meeting. It's good to have someone to talk to about such things.

My monthly Femdom Munch today (Thursday) went exceptionally well.

I'll celebrate a sweetie this Sunday. His Daddy won't be there. That's a pity. I'd like to meet the other important people in his life. The benefit of it is, that I can stay over.

I worry about my other sweetie.

I'm tired. And in need of closeness. Hope I can get sleep, at least, even without someone to hold. Good night.

Straight male or slave male?

I wented My frustration over the majority of men stating they are straight. A friend heard it and we discussed the fenomena. He posed an interesting question: Are your future slave more interested in being straight or being a slave?

I've moved house today, within the same city. Had a lot of help from my lovely friends. Will take a while before I have a "home" again, but I'll get there. Hopefully I won't have to move again for at least a couple of years. I like knowing where I live and not worrying about finding another place. It makes it easier to focus on other things.

My level of mess

I´ve found out that I tend to put My clothes on several places in My home, leave stuff behind and spend time on looking for stuff rather often. My order is a chaotic one, even though I try to tame it sometimes. I need someone that will both be ok with My way of doing things and that will help Me keep the house clean and in order. Someone liking everything put away and in straight lines would be driven mad by My chaos, but someone liking it as in a pig-house would drive Me mad. I don´t want everything squeaky-clean (well, My dishes and such should be) but I don´t like it dirty either.

House-cleaning every week or so, washing dishes every other day, but rather every day ( I can´t because of My pain disorder, but I like it that way). Making the beds is nice, but not necessary (since I use mine during the day too). I hope you get the idea of what level of mess and cleanliness works for Me?

Current relationships

I broke up with my primary-partner a couple of weeks ago. I have two new sweeties and a slave under consideration. Looking for an alpha-slave in the long run. Dreaming of a kind of poly household too, actually.