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Msfrauline

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About Msfrauline

I became interested in the scene four years ago when I met my husband. While I didn't take to it at first it has become a bigger part of our marriage every day. I truly enjoy some aspects of it.

However, he wants to be controlled 24/7. Inside the bedroom I am in complete control and am the biggest bitch but ouside the bedroom my confidence is gone. I don't know what to do or say and feel I am hurting him and could lose respect for him. There have been a few times when I have taken control in our every day lives and I enjoyed it but then my interst dissappears.
I want to control him but it seems like an overwhelming responsibility.

Are there any Dominant Females on line who could share with me their experiences and what they did to overcome these road blocks in the transition from the bedroom to the living room?
Just wanted to say that I had my husband cleaning the bathrooms in his collar and rubber gloves and nothing else. ? I enjoyed this mentally.? He seemed to enjoy it and yet kept asking me what I got out of it. ? I told him that I liked it and it was mentally stimulating.? That was it. ? He still seems to want more description and I do not know what to tell him.
Any thoughts?
As the days go by I am greatful I joined this site. I really thought that I would get crazy replies but allmost everyone has been extremly supportive and it's a relief. My hubby/subby has been doing more for me as I get more comfortable with it. At first I just couldn't wrap my head around it but the more I utilize him for different things the more I see it is to my advantage. I was raised to be the persone who did the laundry, clean the kithchen, cook etc. It is still hard to walk away from those things when they have been an integral part of my life. Allmost to the point where I enjoy doing them. It's hard to watch someone else do them.
This is my first entry since joining this site. A lot has taken place since my husband and I have embarked on this new lifestyle. The more I get into it the more I am intrigued. There are many things that I do to him that don't sexually arouse me at all but drive him crazy. They stimulate me mentally. For instance I will have him site next to me on the couch while I am watchin T.V. He has to sit on his hands while I casually torture his nipples and pull out his chest hair. Oh, and I don't permit him to make a sound...otherwise our Dog will stark barking. So, he sits there, squirming like a worm like a marionette on strings. It's enjoyable to see him take it and not say a word. I am not certain why it is enjoyable. Am I a Sadist?
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