MsDragonfyre

Female Switch, 27, Dunedin

Female Dominant, 36, uk

Female Dominant, 49

I know I haven't written in some time. Work has been extremely busy lately and I just don't seem to have the time I would like.  This morning I come onto collarme and find a message.  Something I haven't had a lot of lately, which is fine  I just havent had the time to spend.  But to My dismay, I find a very rude letter from one who claims to be a submissive male.  he writes about My picture telling Me how ugly I am.  ok fine, they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  when I write back to him  he then tells Me that he wasnt being rude  just that I was ugly and that it wasnt My fault.  ok apparently this "submissive"  isn't here to find someone, he's just here to insult people.  Apparently everyone forgets there are real people behind those screens and keyboards who have real feelings.  I'd love to wish this submissive well and good luck in his journey,  but I just can't.  I truly hope someone comes along and steps on his neck a few times and teaches him the lesson he so badly deserves.

over the last few days, I have learned something that  in many ways disturbs Me. and that is that it seems to now be the "trend" that housework is a hard limit. I have also been told that My own hope of finding anyone would be to find Myself a "sissy" male. Not that I wouldnt accept a male, but only if the right one came along, and so far  I just havent found many I would consider. I just happen to prefer the idea of a female in My home instead of a male. he would indeed have to be spectacular.  I have also learned lately that slaves arent really all they used to be cracked up to be.  now there are pain slaves, and toy slaves, and caged slaves.  all to be used in a very specific manner put away until you are ready to use them again for that specific purpose.  apparently there are no slaves and/or submissives waiting by the door for Master or Mistress to return home, excited to see them and anxious to make Them feel at home again and happy to be with them. no slaves/submissives eager to perhaps help take off shoes of wornout feet,  eager to cook a meal for a hungry Owner, or just happy to see the look of pleasure on an Owners face that things had been well cared for in Their absence.  I have learned that My ideals are out of date.  no one does for the Owner anymore  it's now about the submissive and what they can recieve.  I guess a slave now sits around all day on the sofa, watching soap operas and eating bonbons until an Owner returns to "use them for their specific purpose" and return them to the sofa to watch the next episode of American Idol.  Lessons such as this are very difficult to learn.  I'm not sure I'm ready for the next lesson.  If there is any Dom/me out there who has an updated Owners manual with all the new limits and do's and dont's of a submissive, could You lend Me a copy?  because I've missed all the memo's and am extremely behind the times.

There seems to be a running theme in My profile... do NOT waste My time.  however, it also appears that people on collarme  dont understand the phrase.  I keep getting repeat letters from guys who have already contacted Me and I've said no thank you.  I keep getting messages from males period.  *sighs*  this never ending search will never end!!!  I had thought I found the one,  yet she was unconvinced.  I understood but .. ah well.. she knows who she is  and I hope she knows how much I truly care for her.    I still hold that small thread of hope that either she will see "reason" and come home  or that another can be found.   Although that hope fads with each passing day.

just an addition to this mornings earlier post..those that I have already had contact with  I will continue to talk to   anyone new will be answered by Master T. sorry for any confusion

yesterday I met a girl who convinced Us she was in trouble and needed help. I'm ashamed to say We fell for it.  We offered her Our home, and yes We sent her money.  she was told to call Us as she traveled here so that We would know she was safe.  That phone call never came of course.  Is this what My beloved lifestyle has been reduced to? a bunch of liars and thieves?  I have truly become disillisioned.  Dont bother lecturing Me on the wisdom of what happened yesterday.  It's already much too late for that.  This event has caused so much stress in My already stressful life.  My health is bad enough this additional stress wont make things any better.  for My own sanity and health, I'm walking away because apparently there arent any real slaves, subs, Dom/mes out there.  I'm not accusing just the slaves of being liars,  I've run into too many Dom/mes as well.  for the time being any messages sent to this name will be answered by Master T and not Myself.  I just cant take anymore.  I will wish each of you who reads this a very safe journey.  And I pray each of you find what you are looking for  and get what you deserve.

*sighs softly*  I am coming to understand that finding someone online is an impossibility.  Those I meet, well everyone seems to have their own agendas.  I have met a great many "demanding" submissives.  I understand everyone has limits, those are to be expected. While I dont expect to find a "perfect" submissive, I'm learning that compromise is also not part of a submissives vocabulary either.  apparently.. it's the subs way or the highway.   what a Dom/me wants, needs, and desires have taken a backseat to what a submissive demands.  It saddens Me how the lifestyle seems to be changing. I had thought My needs and wants were so simple, but I'm beginning to wonder if they are too simple for the submissives of today.  It seems no one wants to "get back to basics", to take care of their Dom/me, see to their individual needs, wants, desires.  some how it's become all about what the submissive wants  what they will and wont do without regard or care for an Owner.  it's a shame really, if I wanted the world handed to Me on a silver platter, I just might find a submissive willing to do just that.  but because I have simple needs and requirements, I cant find someone willing.  I think a submissive would rather have a hard, tortured life, instead of one filled with love, honor and a whole lot of spoiling.   ah well, the old school seems to have closed its doors to new technology and a changing of the guard.  I suppose I will soon become obsolete.  Things used to be so simple...*sighs again* *wanders off*

I have recently posted My profile, but I fear that those that are responding dont quite understand that I'm looking for a maid/houseboy slave more than a sex slave.  yes there will be some sex ... once it is earned.  but due to health issues that wont be very often.   I hope I havent caused too much confusion.

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